NPR logo

Pat Benatar And Neil Giraldo: Tales From A Rock 'N' Roll Marriage

  • Download
  • <iframe src="https://www.npr.org/player/embed/358371169/358789991" width="100%" height="290" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" title="NPR embedded audio player">
  • Transcript
Pat Benatar And Neil Giraldo: Tales From A Rock 'N' Roll Marriage

Music Interviews

Pat Benatar And Neil Giraldo: Tales From A Rock 'N' Roll Marriage

Pat Benatar And Neil Giraldo: Tales From A Rock 'N' Roll Marriage

  • Download
  • <iframe src="https://www.npr.org/player/embed/358371169/358789991" width="100%" height="290" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" title="NPR embedded audio player">
  • Transcript

Pat Benatar and Neil Geraldo have been married, making music, and performing together for more than 35 years. Courtesy of the artist hide caption

toggle caption Courtesy of the artist

Pat Benatar and Neil Geraldo have been married, making music, and performing together for more than 35 years.

Courtesy of the artist

Every relationship has an origin story. For Pat Benatar and Neil Giraldo, it all goes back to the moment in the late 1970s when Benatar signed a recording deal with Chrysalis Records — who immediately fired everyone in her band but the bass player.

"They brought in all these top studio guys and all the guys that were in New York, the big guys," Benatar tells NPR's Scott Simon. "And we were in auditions for all the other musicians and they said, 'Neil Giraldo's here.'

"He didn't even bring a guitar with him; he was so ridiculous. He's putting on someone else's guitar, and I turned around and I was like, 'Oh my god.' I didn't know what to do. I was completely smitten. And I just leaned over to my manager at the time and I said, 'I don't even care if he can play. He's in the band.'"

Benatar and Giraldo joined Simon to retrace their steps over more than 35 years as a music-business power couple. Hear their conversation at the audio link.

We no longer support commenting on NPR.org stories, but you can find us every day on Facebook, Twitter, email, and many other platforms. Learn more or contact us.