Chengdu Diary
 
 

Dujiangyan Parents' Search for Child

 
“Mom is coming for you!”
 
 
Link to the story: Families Frantic to Find Loved Ones in Rubble May 14, 2008 -- All Things Considered

We found Fu Guanyu and her husband Wang Wei as they clung frantically to the long arm of a Hitachi excavator as it rumbled through the city of Dujiangyan.They were crying and seemed to be trying to pull the heavy machine, as if they could make it move faster toward their home. Their six-story apartment building had collapsed in the earthquake. Their toddler son, Wang Zhilu, was buried under the debris along with his grandparents. Mrs. Fu broke down as she told me she still had hope their son would be found alive.

Wang Wei and Fu Guanyu

This was the moment we first saw Wang Wei and Fu Guanyu, as they were begging the driver of an excavator to go to their house to try to rescue their son and his parents.

Photo by Andrea Hsu, NPR

MOM, PLEASE DON'T GO!

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An hour or so later, the excavator was at work on the rubble that was the six story building where Wang Wei's parents lived.

Photo by Andrea Hsu, NPR

She had just left for work on Monday when the earthquake struck. She told me, sobbing, that the boy begged her before she left, "Mom, please don't go." The panicked couple led the excavator through this city of half a million. The Wang family said soldiers came quickly to help them on Monday after the quake hit but they had no heavy equipment. Now the equipment had arrived but couldn't get through the gate into the apartment complex without knocking it down. A local official phoned for permission, permission was granted-and the excavator made quick work of destroying the gate. Mrs. Fu and Mr. Wang rushed toward the remains of their building.

TOPPLING SIDEWAYS

The structure had toppled sideways and collapsed, pancaking on itself. No walls were standing-just massive slabs of masonry-rebar-and bricks-in a pile three stories deep. Mrs. Fu trembled and wept as she watched the claw lift huge pieces of the building aside so workers could get toward the interior. She told me she had climbed up on the rubble pile three times since Monday, calling for her son. When the excavator finished clearing some of the largest pieces, she and her husband clambered up the debris pile, calling out the boy's name- "Wang!" she cried in a trembling voice. "Mom is coming for you!"



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Fu Guanyu watches anxiously as an excavator pulls through the rubble in search of her son and his grandparents.


Photo by Andrea Hsu, NPR


But the utter devastation of this building, with no air pockets visible, left little hope that anyone inside could have survived. A long wait began. Eventually, enough rubble was cleared that a woman's hand became visible emerging from the debris, a thin band on the right ring finger. Another family climbed up and made the painful realization that they recognized the ring. The stench of death started to fill the courtyard.

HOPE SEEMS TO DRAIN

With some bodies now found, the military was called in. Soon, about three dozen military police arrived in green camouflage fatigues and black rubber boots but with no supplies or equipment. Mrs. Fu and Mr. Wang ran out to buy them cotton gloves and white cotton face masks. Other neighbors brought shovels.


Friends brought out a white sheet and told Mrs. Fu they hoped her son and his grandparents would be found alive but just in case, they would tear this sheet into pieces so they could cover the victims' faces.

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Neighbors bring Fu Guanyu a piece of white cloth, and tell her, we hope they haven't died, but if they did, you can use this to cover their faces. Local tradition dictates that the faces of the dead should not be seen by people outside the family.

Photo by Andrea Hsu, NPR

And as the day dragged on, any hope seemed to drain from the parents' faces. The couple began sobbing, holding each other tight. "I should have brought him with me to work," Mrs. Fu wailed, as she sagged into her husband's embrace. "He didn't want me to leave him!" Local officials arrived to tell the family that if the bodies were found, they would be taken away for quick cremation out of fear that disease would spread. But there are so many bodies in this badly-hit city that the local authorities are overwhelmed. Mrs. Fu and Mr. Wang settled in for a long wait. Friends came with bags holding paper money, incense and firecrackers. The paper money would be burned for the victims to use in the afterlife; the firecrackers would ward off evil spirits. In the meantime, waiting. And hoping against all hope.

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Wang Wei and Fu Guanyu early in the day, as anxiety and fear overtake them.

Photo by Andrea Hsu, NPR

At 4:40 in the afternoon, a worker came out and said, "We've found a child." The parents went limp. "Was he about two, wearing a striped shirt?" the mother cried. The worker nodded. The parents, along with aunts and uncles, sobbed and clutched each other tight. The mother cried out to the worker through her tears one last desperate appeal, "Did you call out to him? Maybe he had just fainted."

Wang Zhilu, two months shy of his second birthday, was found in the arms of his grandfather, with his grandmother holding onto her husband from behind. All three were dead - three among what are likely to be tens of thousands of people who perished in Monday's earthquake.

-- Melissa Block

Note: Melissa revised this post at on May 14, 2008 at 2:54 p.m. eastern because some readers were unclear whether the family had survived.

Melissa Block adds from Chengdu on May 17th:

My profound thanks to all our listeners and readers for this outpouring of response to our stories. Please know that there two people who go uncredited but who deserve the lion's share of praise for my reports that you hear on the air and read on this blog.



Andrea Hsu NPR

Andrea Hsu.


Photo by Melissa Block, NPR

The first is my longtime producer Andrea Hsu. She's indefatigable, with a keen ear, a sharp eye, unerring journalistic instincts, and above all, a good heart. As a bonus, she's a fluent Mandarin speaker. Andrea is doing all the audio recording for my reports, along with taking all the remarkable photos you see here. I'm convinced she has more than two hands. She's also responsible for editing the tape and carefully organizing and crafting the audio that you eventually hear on the radio or online. There's no question: without Andrea, these stories would never get on the air.

The second is our interpreter, Chengdu resident Philip He, who has been by my side all week and has become much more than an interpreter. He has been instrumental in securing the trust of the people I've been able to talk with around Sichuan, which is no small feat.

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Philip He interprets for Melissa Block in the center of Dujiangyan.

Photo by Andrea Hsu, NPR

At a time when there is intense distrust of western media, Philip has been able to reassure residents here that NPR is fair and will present an undistorted view of what is happening. He's also conveyed to them that we have an audience in the US that is responding with a flood of support for the Chinese people. NPR could have no better ambassador in China than Philip.

One last thing you might want to know. About an hour after we left Mrs. Fu and Mr. Wang, whose story you just read and heard, Mrs. Fu sent a text message to Phillip. She thanked him for letting her use his mobile phone during the day we spent with them. And she thanked us for telling the story of their family to our audience. Keep in mind that this is a woman who had just hours before learned of the deaths of her toddler son and her husband's grandparents. At that moment, she was arranging for their hasty cremation. But somehow she found the time to send a message of gratitude to us. That gesture is something I still can't begin to fathom.

Listen to the story: Families Frantic to Find Loved Ones in Rubble May 14, 2008 -- All Things Considered
 

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Amazing story!
I heard the beginning of this on the radio this morning...plus another one of a woman (eight months pregnant) found after fifty hours.

Melissa's writing has brought the sad story very much to life.

Sent by Barbara Gavin | 7:27 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you, Melissa, for such a moving story...

Sent by james | 7:43 AM ET | 05-14-2008

i cant stop crying for this family. I am so sorry for all.

Sent by sarah | 7:48 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Mom is coming for you! I burst into years... I can't listen to your reports anymore.
Rescue troops, hurry up, help our people!

Sent by J. Yang | 9:11 AM ET | 05-14-2008

I live in Memphis but I was born in Sichuan and had lived in Chengdu for 6 years. My heart cries with the parents who lost their kids. I really appreciate your timely and in-depth reporting from there. Every day on my way to and off work, I always tune to NPR and get the first hand information from you. God bless the people there...

Sent by Daniel Liu | 9:11 AM ET | 05-14-2008

call me slow. Is the child alive?

Sent by chengdu | 9:33 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Please, are the child & grandma alive?

Sent by Chengdu | 9:34 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you so much for the coverage of the earthquake. I am really touched by your stories.

Sent by Janet Wang | 9:54 AM ET | 05-14-2008

You made the unimaginable personal. Thank you for putting this disaster in perspective - for reminding us that every number on the death toll is a heart wrenching tear in the lives of those involved.

Sent by Gavin | 9:56 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you for your story. My heart and prayers are with you and the people of China.

Sent by Mark E. | 9:56 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you, Melissa Block, for connecting us to the people of China through your writing, your reporting. I don't want to feel this pain with my morning coffee, but it motivates me to help in a way that a few paragraphs in a newspaper might not.

Sent by Margarita | 9:57 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Do you have any information from Nanchong (about 65 miles east of Chengdu)?

Sent by Judy Jones | 10:17 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Tear fills my eyes as I read it. I spent my 4 year college life in Chengdu. I had very deep feeling about the city. Fortunately all my classmates and their family members living in the area are safe. But I feel devastating for those kids lost in this disaster.

Sent by yz | 10:19 AM ET | 05-14-2008

I am sobbing.

So miserable !!!

body everywhere... wenchuan and its around have been totally destroyed... hope to rescue and reinforce quickly

Sent by spike | 10:24 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you for the story. Take care.

Sent by Wenyan Yuan | 10:28 AM ET | 05-14-2008

I hope you are OK emotionally Melissa- it has to be very traumatic for you to be covering this-I hope someone is there for you and Robert and your producers and photographer who is trained to give support to disaster victims which you are! And how is your family coping?

Sent by Valerie | 11:08 AM ET | 05-14-2008

As a new parent myself, I cannot imagine enduring the grief of the sad parents. I was very much moved by Melissa Block's story, and reminded again of the good fortune I have to spend today, tomorrow, and the next day, and the next... with my children, for nothing is guaranteed.

I will also offer a silent prayer for Wang Wei and Fu Guanyu.

Sent by Dan W. | 11:22 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Very touching! Thank you!

Sent by lakeaustin | 11:36 AM ET | 05-14-2008

oh how sad. I just couldn't stop crying. God please help them! May the victims rest in peace. Please care for the survivors and give strength to the rescuers.

Sent by Melody | 11:56 AM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you for all your coverage from China. This is true journalism! You are connecting me to people in my homeland.

Please let the world know the sufferings the victims are enduring.

Sent by David Shen | 12:17 PM ET | 05-14-2008

How can all these people die in one moment without the people of the world feeling the loss in a physical wave of electric energy...like a light going out inside all of us? The image of this little toddler, found as he was, is heart-wrenching and too difficult to bear. As a mother, I am not sure how you cope with this. I can only pray he left this world without much pain or fear. My heart goes out to every victim in both China and Burma.

Sent by Jaime Ann | 12:23 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Having spent time studying and teaching in Chengdu 26 years ago, I've been looking forward to your coverage on Sichuan for several weeks. I have very fond memories of this beautiful countryside and the exceptional people who live there. The nature of your news gathering has changed dramatically but I can think of no other organization I would rather have telling this important story to the world. Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone affected by this disaster.

Sent by Andrea S. | 12:26 PM ET | 05-14-2008

How about big companies like Walmart and LL Bean who have clothes and tents manufactured in China, divert many of these items to those now in need of clothing and shelter. Keep completed items in China for a while.

Sent by Marion | 12:29 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I love all the parents in the world. I can't hold my tears again

Sent by Pei Wang (Houston) | 12:34 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you for the story. My eyes are full of tears. As a father of three young children, I know how much pain and suffer the parents have to go through; tragically, there are thousands of parents lost their beloved children, in most cases their only child, during this quake. Just wish life could be a little kind to them.

Sent by john | 12:44 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Really touching story.

Sent by frank | 12:56 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I'm speechless, what we can do to help those parents and victims. So sad ...

Sent by hui xiong | 1:06 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I can't imagine their grief and helplessness, I'm in tears. My daughters are Chinese, my smallest was born near Chongqing, our ties to China run deep. I pictured my second daughter's loving foster grandparents when I read your story: so frail, so protective. The loss, the suffering and pain are immeasurable, your stories are wrenching, your job is important, keep this tragedy in focus, the world needs to respond.

Sent by Marji | 1:10 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I have no words to describe my feeling when I read this story. I am holding my breath all the way through the reading and I can not hold my tears any more. As a mother of two, I can not even imagine if I am in the mom's position. Wish all the best to the parents and their kids. Thank you for your story, which makes me precious every moment of kids. My heart goes out with all the victims.

Sent by Jasmine Wang | 1:19 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thanks NPR for bringing us this touching story. I sincerely hope that All of us can help the disaster relief effort as we can by going to China, Hong Kong or American Red Cross. They all have special program for this purpose.

Sent by Tony Chen | 1:26 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you, Melissa, for giving this tragedy a face, name, and story. It makes it much more difficult for those of us on the other side of the world to block it out and act as though it doesn't affect us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and everyone striving to cope with this catastrophe.

Sent by Meg | 1:29 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Tears have come out of eyes many times for the people died in the earthquake in Sichuan, and in the flood in Burma. To think about that a few days ago many of them were still living in the world as us, but died suddenly in a second, I have to appreciate how fortunate we are and have to realize how fragile human is. Let's help those in tragedy. I am going to donate more money.

Sent by Ching Luke | 1:35 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you for being. Thank you for being a witness, a voice, a thread connecting us all. Your humanity is much appreciated.

Rivers of tears for all beings who are suffering in China and across the globe.

Sent by Aimee Ledbetter | 1:35 PM ET | 05-14-2008

My heart is wrenching... So many parents are experiencing the ultimate, unspeakable pain - losing your child. I have just went through the same pain - almost lost my teenage child. I wish I could be there holding their hands, hugging them, crying with them...

Sent by Lin | 1:36 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I am confused, the child and grandparents were found dead or alive?

Sent by Montserrat | 1:37 PM ET | 05-14-2008

[sob] [sob]

Sent by Sarah | 1:39 PM ET | 05-14-2008

How can we help?

Sent by Cynthia Hildenbrand | 1:39 PM ET | 05-14-2008

As a mother, I feel the pain... Thanks for the in depth coverage. It makes the story so personal....

Sent by Haiying Huang | 1:42 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I too owe my two children to China (JiangXi & Gansu) please - there are many many parents waiting for news of recently matched children who are in welfare institutions and foster care in and around that region - if there are any updates or information about the conditions of the children's welfare institutes - please post them. My own are safe here in the USA - but so many may not be. With the loss of so many children... the sadness reaches across the world to touch so many... we who also have Chinese children mourn your losses with you. Thank you NPR for sharing your resources to give information to us here waiting.

Sent by M Kenny-Corron | 1:43 PM ET | 05-14-2008

As a father of two small children, I feel so sad for the Wang family. My heart goes out to them and many many families devastated by the earthquake. I have donated to the Chinese Red Cross and urged my friends to do the same. Thank you, Melissa and NPR, for bringing us first-hand reports like this.

Sent by Jason | 2:03 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Mom is coming for you!
I couldn't bear this..
I've had trouble working the last 3 days all the way over here in San Francisco USA! I am heartbroken..

Sent by Franz | 2:16 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Tears just pouring out of my eyes when I read the story of the Wang family. I felt heartbroken... As a mother of two children, I just can't imagine what the mother is going through. May the lost ones rest in peace, and the people who lost loved ones find peace somehow.

Sent by yang | 2:21 PM ET | 05-14-2008

This is really a touching story, and I can feel it as a Chinese, Our family has been through these kinda of tragedies during WWII. Remember, my dear American friends, we, Chinese are no hypocrites! You may laugh at us, but we a a nation per se, and we have never invade others, and we will not for good!

Sent by ChineseSD | 2:21 PM ET | 05-14-2008

please, are they alive? don't end like this

Sent by orsino | 2:29 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you Melissa for the extraordinary reporting. As I read the story, I felt the enormous pain and sorrow deep from my heart as a human being, as a father, as a son...

How can we help, how to give donations directly to the quake victims?

Sent by Andy | 2:30 PM ET | 05-14-2008

A truly truly sad story. May God bless China and her people.

Sent by Yun | 2:58 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I came from China and a long time fan of NPR, especially, of Melissa and Robert. I kept up with their previous programs with great interest about the Sichuan issues before the quake. Now they are in the front line and tell the the world the real story. They are great reporters!

Sent by AChineseListener | 2:59 PM ET | 05-14-2008

For the several readers who missed it, the last paragraph says the three - grandparents and grandchild - had all died.

Sent by nh | 3:20 PM ET | 05-14-2008

(EDITOR'S NOTE: Unfortunately, the family did not survive. The post has been revised to clarify this.)

Sent by Travis Larchuk, NPR | 3:20 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Can't hold my tears...

Sent by Liang | 3:23 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I live in Maryland. I was born and raised in Sichuan, China. I was expecting some interesting reporting from you in the planned "special week of china coverage"...
But the earthquake happened ...

My families and friends I know in Sichuan are all safe. But,

It is heartbreaking every time when I read reports and see pictures on-line. The fear, the pain, and the loss of these victims, the children, babies, ... have eaten my heart, a heart of a Mommy with a 3-year old daughter. I burst into tears often. And I cried loudly in the bathroom and hoped to get some emotionally relief. I hug my daughter, hold her hands, and know that I am a fortunate survivor of the natural disaster on the earth.

Donation maybe to only thing I can do now.
I don't know what else I can do. I heart is still deeply sorrow for the enormous loss and pain on the land I was born.

Thank you for telling stories in the disaster from such a in-depth personal perspective!

Sent by Mei | 3:48 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you so much for the story, NPR woke me up on Monday morning with the sad news, made me jump out of my bed. I used to pass by to Arba or Wonlong Nature Resv, I worked there 4 years after college. So many people I used to know might be dead and I can not stop crying, please donate money, the dollar could go so far in the region.

Sent by Ying Brach | 4:06 PM ET | 05-14-2008

To ChineseSD, I am very disappointed by the latter half of your comment and I am a Chinese. There are always other occasions or for that matter other forums to point the fingers at someone you deem as hypocrites. But can't you see what All Things Considered is doing here is extraordinary?! Their reports not only put a human face on this terrible tragedy, ultimately through their devoted work I believe this would bring our two cultures and peoples closer. And this could only do good.

Sent by Wei H | 4:18 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thanks Robert and Melissa and thanks goes to the interpreter with Robert.

Sent by don park | 4:31 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I was crying last night when I was reading the stories online (I don't remember when I cried the last time). Donation is the only thing that I can do right now. The link to Red Cross needs many tries to go through. I have sent an email to all employees here in this division with link to this page.

Melissa, Robert, Andrea, Art and all other crew members from NPR, a big thank-you to you all, and take care.

Sent by Philip | 5:11 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you Melissa Block and Robert Siegel (and your teams) for making the best of a bad situation and providing first-rate, first-hand reporting of a horrific, tragic situation.

Too often horrible events are reported on from an anchor desk worlds away, delivered as nonchalantly as if they were a weather report. The cracking of your voices as you reported on spending the day with a couple desperate to find their child (Melissa) or trekking to a hard-to-reach village and speaking with survivors who sound utterly lost (Robert) brings the immediacy of the situation to us in a way that network TV news just can't. I appreciate that this sounds as if it is tearing you both up - it makes me realize that there is humanity left in journalism and helps me grasp the plight of these grief-stricken Sichuan residents in a very real way.

Keep up the great work and stay safe - your reporting makes me value NPR even more than I already do...

Sent by Kate N. | 5:12 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Amazing! By far the best reporting I have ever heard you do Ms. Block.

Sent by Michelle | 5:21 PM ET | 05-14-2008

This is so heartbreaking. Melissa is doing such a touching job reporting on this terrible disaster. Her broadcasts bring tears to my eyes. These poor people....my heart just goes out to everyone...

Sent by kellly | 5:22 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Your coverage of the couple looking for their son and parents overwhelmed me with grief as I sat in my car outside my workplace. I especially appreciate the fact that Melissa showed her own sorrow while reporting. NPR has yet again brought the heart into the foreground to balance out the mind-numbing statistics.

Sent by Chale | 5:23 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I am in tears after listening to Melissa Block's tremendous report on the air. The magnitude of grief of these poor parents is enormous enough; multiply it by the tens of thousands in China and Burma, and it is unimaginable. Let's do what we can to help, and love our own as if we may never see them again.

Sent by Texas listener | 5:24 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I just listened to Melissa Block's devastating story from China. I am a NPR junkie and have been riveted to her diary from China ever since hearing her tell about the earthquake while on air. This latest story was so incredibly sad - both because of its contents and the anguish in Melissa's voice.

Sent by Kathleen Kelly | 5:25 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I sat in my office literally crying for these poor dear parents and their loss. Melissa Block has to be an incredibly strong person.

Sent by Susan/Tulsa | 5:26 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I would like to thank you Melissa, for bringing us this story. I heard a rebroadcast of it just now in my car, and it stopped me in my tracks. My thoughts will be with the Fu family and the many others for a long time.

Sent by James LeMasters | 5:26 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thanks Melissa for another touching (and yes, gut wrenching) story from Sichuan province. With a few small photos posted on the blog and simple audio (without any dramatic video clips), your story managed to bring tears out of a grown man. NPR's reporting of this catastrophe is superb and puts all the "most trusted" and "fair and balanced" cable news networks to shame.

Sent by NYCRealist | 5:31 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I have never cried while I listened to the radio before. While I couldn't understand a word Fu Guanyu said, her tones of fear, sadness, hope and finally despair spoke to me deeply. I felt as if I was there, crying with Fu and her husband. I wanted to dig with them to find their parents and young child. Your coverage made me feel if I had been transported to China or this couple was my next door neighbor. Thank you for telling their story and the story of the thousands of other Chinese people who have suffered through this natural disaster.

Sent by Michelle Butzgy | 5:31 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you very much for these posts and all the reporting you've been doing over the past few days. My hearts go out to the Chinese people who are suffering so horribly right now due to this catastrophe. Our thoughts and prayers (and donations) are with them.

Please take care of yourselves too - reporting these events must be horribly traumatic. Almost more than her words, the strain and sadness in Melissa Block's voice conveys the enormity of this tragedy and its impact on the people of the area.

Sent by Sarah Gore | 5:32 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you Melissa and NPR for devoting the time this tragic, frantic search deserved. Your reporting was uniquely human and brought me to tears while sitting in my driveway transfixed as we moved towards the inevitable, wrenching conclusion. I was honored to share this moment of humanity across 10,000 miles.

Sent by Steve Hall | 5:35 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Dear NPR listeners (and this blog readers),

Your outpour of support have moved us deeply. Few things we like to point out for you:

1. NPR is a public radio and needs to raise enough funds to keep All Things Considered and other awesome programs going. They are still trying to raise enough funds for their 2008 operations. We encourage you to contact NPR: www.npr.org to donate and keep this incredible organization going.

2. We highly encourage you to donate to help with this disaster. If you have already donated or are planning to donate, we've very much like to hear from you as to your personal connections to this disaster. Please head over here (and to see what some of our readers have said the reasons they are donating). We want to help build momentum behind this effort.

"Poll: Amount I have donated to the China earthquake and why"

http://www.thechinesecentury.org/2008/05/poll-amount-i-have-donated-to-china.html

Sent by the Chinese Century blog | 5:36 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Melissa and Robert,
I have been moved to tears by your reporting. I know this area from traveling with my family. I caution you that the dam behind dujiangyan is only 2 miles upstream from the town and will be severely damaged from this quake. If it failed, it would submerge the entire town in ten minutes. I'm afraid I am not reassured by the fact that "2,000 soldiers are currently plugging the holes in the dam" according to Xinhua.
Please be careful. I admire your courage greatly.

Sent by David Powers | 5:40 PM ET | 05-14-2008

My mother was born in Chongqing, not too far from Chengdu. I am in Cincinnati now but I have decided to take a trip to Sichuan in a couple weeks.

Every life is precious. I can't imagine something at this scale. It makes me feel how small and helpless an individual can be. Yet, I will do my best to raise donations here and bring them with me when I go to Chengdu at the end of May.

Thank you NPR for being there and keep reporting. Please keep the reporting coming and we ALL need it.

Sent by Leo Chan | 5:41 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Melissa's story brought home the human hurt and devastation of this catastrophe. This story touched down to my soul and made me feel the Fu's pain. Thank you for your dedication and skill. I will never be the same.

Sent by Margaret Huebbe | 5:43 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you so much Mellisa for not only making me crying again, but also using the very basic human story to touch all. Your story breaks national and political boundaries and just bring us all down to the softest spot in our heart... Please help me express condolence to the victims there. Take care.

Sent by Jingfang | 5:45 PM ET | 05-14-2008

The generation before mine had their Edward R. Murrow, the reporters' reporter, who had that innate ability to leave radio listeners feeling the devastation he was seeing. We now have ours. Thank you for your emotional, but always professional reporting Melissa.

Sent by Robert MacNabb | 5:55 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Incredibly moving.

Sent by Haris Silic | 5:56 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I just listened to Melissa Block's final account of this family on All Things Conisdered while picking up my kids. I had to pull over to the side of the road. This was by far the most powerful radio broadcast I have heard since NPR on the morning of 2001-07-11.

Sent by KL | 5:57 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I sat in the parking lot of the grocery store this evening, sobbing while listening to this story. Such profound loss and raw grief. Thank you for this sad touchstone to tragedy.

Sent by Mary Anne | 5:59 PM ET | 05-14-2008

In what way is this report valuable? How does it help anyone understand the situation in China to hear actual audio of a mother learning that her child has just been discovered dead? How does it help me to hear her sob and plead for her dead child? What a vulgar, sensationalized, capitalization of personal anguish. What purpose does this kind of reporting serve? Oh I get it. Very compelling radio! Bravo!

Sent by John | 6:02 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I was driving home from work and heard this report...it brought me to tears. I am very saddened by this distant reality. Thank you for bringing reality a little closer to home through your extensive reports.

Sent by Elizabeth | 6:04 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I been following your stories for last 2 days and I been very much moved by your heart wrenching sound bites of people in Sichuan. I grew up there but still have relative who lives back home. Please donate if you can to: http://tsinghuafoundation.org/earthquake08/index.html
Company like Google, Microsoft, and HP will match your donation dollar for dollar.

I really wish I am there to help out anyway I can.

Sent by charley | 6:05 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I was driving home from work to pick up my own almost 2 year old when I heard this story. Here I am driving down the freeway in tears...crying for these parents, crying for what I would do in this situation, crying for all the parents in horrible situations in China and Myanmar. Thank you Melissa for bringing the human side of the tragedy home. We are so blessed to have this story brought to us by such a caring and professional journalist.

Sent by Jennifer Cumming | 6:07 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Oh my gosh. I came directly to this site from my radio and didn't look at the post here before I submitted my comment. You mean, there are pictures!! Actual pictures of the "ACTUAL MOMENT" the parents learn their child is dead??? Wow!!! That is quite extraordinary. How is it possible that submitting a photograph of the "actual moment!" that a couple learns that their child is dead does anything but appeal to the basest, most prurient hunger of the masses? Really amazing.

EDITOR'S NOTE: The photo in question was not taken at the moment when the couple learned of their son's death, but earlier in the day. We have changed the photo caption to make that clear.

-Travis Larchuk, NPR

Sent by John | 6:10 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I listened to this story today on my drive home from work. It was a very moving story, to the point where I had tears in my eyes listening to the anguish and heartbreaking emotion. You were able to take a story of such devastation and loss in numbers so unimaginable that it looses all perspective and comprehension, and you made it personal. Even though I knew the inevitable outcome, I was hoping for some miracle to provide these parents news of survival, and feeling the pain when they received word of their loss. I commend you for putting such a personal face on what easily becomes an impersonal story. And I hope that you can come away from this experience with as few emotional scars as can be possible in the face of such tragedy.

Sent by Chris Galletly | 6:11 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Once, when my son was quite young, I let go of his hand for an instant while we walked on a crowded street. In an instant he was gone but mercifully, it was only for an instant. I was reminded of this as Melissa Block walked me through a mother's anguished hours searching for her beloved child. And the empathy I felt for her was palpable. This mother's heartbroken cries over her monumental and eternal loss will stay with me for a long time.

Sent by Sondra Briggs | 6:20 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Speechless.
Thanks for this story and the reporters

Sent by Jeff li | 6:25 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I heard this story on the way home from work. As Melissa's story unveiled I found myself at the scene of the devistation. I felt with all my being the pain and hope that the little boys family felt. Waves of pain, heartache and tears washed over as I put myself in their places. This is what NPR does that no other medium can do. Even though I may not have understand the words Fu said,the emotion was so raw that I greived from half way round the world for her. I know this mission that you're on must be painful for you but thank you for making us truely understand these peoples stories.

Keep up the work. We do depend on you.

Sent by Kathryn Rasure | 6:31 PM ET | 05-14-2008

weeping...

Sent by itti | 6:33 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Incredible story. I couldn't get out of my car. Very moving. I'm a teacher and will have my students listen to it tomorrow. You're doing great work.

Sent by Tim | 6:35 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I heard it on the way home from work in the car. I simply can't stop my tears. Your reporting brings us there in person, grieving with the family. Thank you!

Sent by Jun | 6:40 PM ET | 05-14-2008

On my way home today I listened to you're your story about the young parents from Dujiangyan in search for their 2 year old son. I usually keep my emotions well in check. My eyes did not tear up, nor did I cry, but I actually sobbed.

Anonymous
Woodbridge, VA

Sent by Anonymous - Woodbridge, VA | 6:40 PM ET | 05-14-2008

The finest piece of reporting I have ever listened to. Pictures could never capture what Melissa describes in her voice.

Hug your children, thank your parents.

Sent by Ron | 6:53 PM ET | 05-14-2008

When tragedy strikes it affects everyone..I was in tears when I heard the story on the radio......My deepest condolences go out to the family who lost their close ones. Thanks Melissa for being there ..it must have been really tough to report.

Sent by Madhu | 6:56 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Mellisa, your report showed true journalism. Thank you for this touching story. It promped me to donate more money. I have families in Chengdu and thank god they're all right. Right now I'm praying the dams will be safe.

Sent by Lisa | 7:11 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I have never written about a particular story before, but I had to comment on the story presented by Melissa Block about the search by Ms. Fu and Mr. Wang for their toddler in the earthquake wreckage in Dujiangwei.

Never before has an NPR story made me cry. Never before have I heard a reporter so touched by what she was seeing. Even in the commentary added after the onsite reporting, you can hear Ms. Block's emotions. As one of the only NPR reporters on-site in China, she has been put through the wringer more than enough already, but she keeps going. I hope that when she returns home, she gets a nice vacation and maybe a gift certificate for a spa! (I'd buy her one just for this story.)

If there are awards for individual reporting or specific articles, I hope Ms. Block and her story of the search for a lost son are nominated for them. It was incredible. Please send her my most heartfelt thanks and support.

PS: For those of you who have only read this article, I encourage you to listen to it if you are able to. It was Melissa's voice that made the story so profound for me, and really made me feel as if I were there beside her.

Sent by Meredith | 7:16 PM ET | 05-14-2008

This is an affirmation top notch kind of reporting that NPR produces. Not only was Melissa Block able to convey the factual evidence through her reporting from the moment the earthquake struck, but she has made this tragedy intensely personal-people half way across the world can empathize and sympathize with the victims and the casualties while learning how we can improve our lives and communities. Thank you NPR for your captivating, reliable, and touching reporting, and Ms. Block, thank you and good luck.

Sent by Anne Yang | 7:18 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Having visited Chengdu three times in the past year on business, I looked foward toMelissa & Robert's trip to Chengdu, planned many months ago to bring Americans closer to China's extraordinary growth story which has now suddenly brought us all much closer...we mourn Ms. Fu and Mr. Wang's tragic loss of their 2 year old and grandparents...as I hug my 4 year old...this once closed society is now painfully open for us all to see. May our shared global grieving and humanitarian efforts serve to bring us closer together.

Sent by Andrew Forman | 7:21 PM ET | 05-14-2008

The most emotionally heart-wrenching story I have ever listened to. God bless all those who have lost so much and thank you Melissa Block for your courage in reporting such a devastating loss.

Sent by J. Parker | 7:25 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Melissa, your reports, although heartbreaking, are professional journalism at its best. God bless you; keep safe.

Sent by Cynthia Boyle | 7:30 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Melissa, your reporting brought me to tears at work, moreover the anguish of the parents and your voice just hit home. I hurt for everyone over there and suffering from the unimaginable tragedy.

Sent by Erin | 7:33 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you, Melissa, for your integrity and courage in the manner in which you presented this story for those of us here, in such a way that allows us to share in their grief. It is so amazing that you and Robert are so close to this event. Thank you . . .

Sent by Darryll Kahn | 7:34 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Amazing reporting by Melissa Block. The anguish of those affected--I totally was hit hard...

Sent by cyn | 7:40 PM ET | 05-14-2008

One of the most moving stories I've heard on NPR. My heart aches for all of those affected, especially for mothers who have lost their children. Thank you for bringing us there, Melissa.

Sent by Mrs. VJ | 7:43 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you Melissa, for bringing this story so close to home. After listening to your emotional report, I cried with the grieving parents for the loss of their sweet two year old and parents. A mother's loss is understood in any language.

Sent by Brenda Sparenborg | 7:43 PM ET | 05-14-2008

God's peace and strength to these families. May we all find gratitude in our hearts for our children and families who are safe.
Peace, Alicia

Sent by Alicia E. Coleman | 7:44 PM ET | 05-14-2008

At one point in the story I felt mad. It is so awful to have to listen to. But it was so moving and made me cry. I have a 1 year old son that I drop off at grandma and grandpa's house each morning. He usually reaches out his arms and cries for me as I leave. If I were in their situation and had to move forward without my son, I don't think I could.

Sent by Lindsey | 7:45 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I had tears in my eyes, a lump in my throat, and a racing heart as I listened to Melissa's heart-wrenching story. This capacity to connect people from such disparate locations and experiences is what NPR - and Melissa, in particular - does so well. She deserves the highest praise and whatever awards radio journalism can bestow.

Sent by Leslie Fatum ("Phat-Ummm") | 7:46 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you for such touch story. I heard it on my home, and I started crying in my car. God bless Sichuan and their people.
Also to people who read this, you can help by donating money to China, and people who are affected. There are many ways to do it such as: www.redcross.org??? http://www.crcf.org.cn/en/index.asp
Thanks for reading!

Sent by DiDi | 7:50 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I worked as an investigator for a medical examiner's office and I witnessed situations like this on a daily basis -- family memebers crying over the bodies of their dead loved ones and telling them to wake up. I started having flash-backs of my work and tears came to my eyes. God bless these poor people and God bless you for this story. I know how emotionally exhausting it can be to experiance these things in real-life.

Sent by Jose Aguilar | 7:51 PM ET | 05-14-2008

LANGUAGE WAS NO BARRIER AS I LISTENED TO THE HEART SHREDDING PLEAS OF THE PARENTS AS THEY FOUGHT FOR THIER CHILD AND PARENTS IN THE RUBBLE OF THEIR LIVES.

MELISSA BLOCK HELPED US SENSE THEIR AGONY AND THANK GOODNESS ALLOWED HER OWN VOICE TO TREMBLE AS THE PAIN OF FALSE HOPE BECAME TRAGIC REALITY.

I AM SO SAD FOR THEIR LIVES, AND SO SAD THAT BEFORE LONG WE WILL ALLOW INTERNATIONAL CONCERNS TO ONCE AGAIN FOG THE REALITY OF THE HUMANS THAT POPULATE OTHER LANDS, AND DIFFERING POINTS OF VIEW.

HOW SAD FOR US ALL.

Sent by RONALD WELCH | 7:52 PM ET | 05-14-2008

As I listened to this one story, out of the thousands of stories, I cried for this family and their loss. My tears can't help this family, but thank you to Melissa Block for helping us remember that we are all united in what we truly care about in this world. Only a few precious things really matter, in the end.

Sent by Julie Hannon | 8:01 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Melissa, your incredibly humane description of the parents facing frenetic desperation that plunges head-long into the blackest grief . . . their child, and the child's grandparents, are dead beneath the rubble . . . ripped away . . . crushed my own heart.

Melissa, the way you shared their story suddenly made the world stumble closer to a universal and compassionate embrace; much closer now at this moment than at anytime in history. Beautiful, and oh so real to know their moment in time is also my own.

Sent by Joseph H. King | 8:09 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I listened to this story as I hurriedly drove from work to pick up my children at aftercare. The realization that, had this disaster struck here, this could be my story seared me. From half a world away, I could feel the grief of another working mother, and I wept. In Ms. Block's quavering voice, I could hear her sympathy, empathy, and respect for the family. The bravery in this one piece will stay with me for a long, long time. I had to sit in my car for a few moments to collect myself before rushing in to hug my own children, so safe and so alive. Thank you for a painfully perfect story.

Sent by Anne | 8:16 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you Melissa for your incredible and moving story. I was moved and sadden for this family and thousand and thousand other families for their lost.

Sent by Ali Bachari | 8:18 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Your story brought me to tears on my way home from work. I have a two year old daughter that I bring to my parents house twice a week before I go into work. This story, told in a very heartfelt way, made the events seem very real, eventhough those involved were half a world away. Thank you Melissa Block and NPR, for showing us all how connected we all really are.

Sent by Mary Collins | 8:25 PM ET | 05-14-2008

How heartbreaking.

China needs to know the whole world weeps with them for their losses.

Sent by Wolf | 8:27 PM ET | 05-14-2008

The sounds of their voices haunting, as they call out for their child. Reading Melissa's story, I felt as if I was calling with them, for them, pleading to someone, anyone that their child survive. I, too, was on the way to pick up my two year old son as I heard this story. My heart froze, my eyes weeped, my mind could not grasp that the horror of this story is only multiplied in all the many sad deaths of the people of China affected by this tradgedy. If any good can ever come out of the world's terrors, may it be that we take the time to let our loved ones know we love them, that we take the time to enjoy every moment, and that we extend our hearts and kindness to our neighbours, both near and far. May God Bless the people of China. May God cover them all with a blanket of love and peace created by the prayers of the world. They are not alone in their mourning. We share their pain.

Sent by Dylan's Mom | 8:28 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I was drawn into this story by MB's compelling report. Fearing and hoping as I listened, dreading the inevitable.I don't have the words to describe My empathy for the loss that poor familly must be feeling. Teers streeming from my eyes' this 39yr old construction worker is thank full. You and NPR grant me the acsess to such moving commantary.
Mellissa
With your shield or on it
Thank you

Sent by jp | 8:42 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Yesterday I saw pictures of dead children that punctured my heart. Most of the victims are the majority--Han people, meaning they can have only ONE child...

Sent by jaque | 8:43 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I had been having problems wrapping muy mind around how awful this tragedy is. Not anymore. Melissa's reporting on this one family's heart wrenching story reminded me that behind all the numbers being reported of those that have passed away or are injured are real people with families and friends. Thank you Melissa and NPR for putting the humane aspect into this terrible event.

Sent by Beth | 8:45 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you Melissa for this very powerful story. I was in tears listening to you. In the midst of reviewing such mind-numbing statistics as the death counts and reports of destruction, the losses of one family grounds this tragedy in the very personal grief that many thousands of families will unfortunately face.
This is why I listen to NPR; you consistently remind me of the humanity behind the stories.

Sent by Chris Countryman | 8:50 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Melissa, this one story is why you were meant to be in China. I'm an announcer for Texas Public Radio and it was very hard for me to get on air after hearing this. And because of it I wanted to learn more about the situation. Thank you for bringing human emotion to a natural disaster that we here in America could eaily detach ourselves from. Your story is why radio is still a necessary medium.

Sent by Abra Schnur | 8:55 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I cried the whole way home listening to this heart wrenching story. I was ont he way home to pick up my 18 month old son from his grandparents home. It is un fathomable to grasp the magnitude of this tragedy and the number of lives shattered by the earthquake. My prayers are with the people of China - if only there was something I could do to help this couple...

Sent by a mom | 8:58 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Very sad story, very touching report. My tears couldn't hold back just like many others. My prayer goes for victims, their families and our brave reporters of NPR: be safe and take care yourself.
Mellisa and ATC crew should be awarded with Pulitzer Prize for their unbelievable reporting!

Sent by Beverly Peng | 8:58 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I heard the story on my way to pick up my kids from daycare. I had to sit in my car and let my tears dry before getting them. I am so deeply sorry for the loss of every man, woman and child affected by this horrible disaster.

Sent by Colleen I. | 9:15 PM ET | 05-14-2008

The reporting from China by Robert and Melissa is the best journalism I have ever heard. I congratulate NPR for providing such excellence for the American people - and for the Chinese people. Thank you, Peyton Carmichael

Sent by Peyton Carmichael | 9:17 PM ET | 05-14-2008

As a native chinese, I was really moved by this amazing story. I listened the whole story with tears all over my face. I pray for all the families who lost their loved ones in this tragedy.

Thank you Melissa for your real journalism. Be safe.

Sent by Rujun Li | 9:17 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you Melissa for such a compasionate piece of journalism. The emotion in your faultering voice brought me to tears. I will always remember your reporting of this story and the trauma you have witnessed whenever I hear you on NPR.

Sent by Alyssa | 9:24 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I find myself moved - profoundly - listening to this story. My heart goes out to you, Melissa, as well as the victims.

Sent by Carol | 9:25 PM ET | 05-14-2008

As so many news articles focus on large pictures of the disaster, this single account of story has its magic power to touch everyone's heart. Melissa and her other NPR colleagues in Chengdu have done a great job.
Thanks and be safe.

Sent by jiajia h. | 9:29 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I have been waiting for the special report from my hometown for weeks but I did not expect it becomes so "special". Thank you Melissa, Robert, Andrea, Art, Xiaoyu and others. This is real journalism and this is why NPR is in the league of its own. Please be safe and be strong there.

For those who want to help:

http://www.redcross.org/news/in/profiles/Intl_profile_ChinaEarthquake.html

http://www.mercycorps.org/charityweb.php?pDonorIntent=ChinaEarthquake&Custom15=wm

Thanks for your help.

Sent by A Sichuanese | 9:29 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I found myself in tears while listening to Ms. Block. The power of her reporting overwhelms me. My heart goes out to all those affected by this tragedy.

Sent by Matthew | 9:29 PM ET | 05-14-2008

devastating, just devastating.

Sent by tima | 9:31 PM ET | 05-14-2008

This story brought many tears. I listened to this story on my way home to get my 2 year old son. He was born in Chongqing. My heart breaks for the tradegy happening to his Chinese brothers and sisters.
Thank you for the continued coverage, many of us are very concerned.

Sent by ms | 9:33 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you so much Melissa for reawakening my heart and mind to the unbearable grief of so many families in China. Although we speak of a global world, it is so easy to insulate ourselves from the pain of others so very far away. I absolutely couldn't stop crying as I listened to this report. Thank you for waking me up from my comfort zone and reminding me of how much help is needed.This dear family is in my prayers.

Sent by Selva Griffith | 9:35 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Yet another incredible word picture by Melissa Block. I've experienced several moderate earthquakes in California, the 1989 Loma Prieta is my most recent memory. We were so fortunate in that we didn't lose family members, our house was habitable, and apart from no power for a week, nothing more. All this to say I have a deep understanding of anyone going through an earthquake and its aftermath, and my heart and tears go out to this family and the thousands of others who've lost their loved ones. Melissa, keep on reporting and please stay safe.

Sent by Susan MacCulloch | 9:36 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Utterly devastating. A reminder of how well radio can emotions. The story put a name and face to the statistics. What a tragedy.

Sent by Egrey | 9:41 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Ms. Block did a masterful job at putting this story together. She is an extraordinary talent.

Sent by George | 9:41 PM ET | 05-14-2008

If only all the media, western and eastern alike, can see and report the world with less ideology but with as much passion and journalistic integrity as Robert, Melissa, Andrea, Art, and all others have shown from Chengdu, the world would be a much more peaceful place to live, even in the face of tragic, tragic natural disasters like these. Thank you so much for your touching stories.

Sent by JJ | 9:42 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I cried as I listened to Melissa Block's story while driving to pick up my 1 and 3 year old children from daycare. I could literally feel Ms. Fu's pain as she searched for her little boy and her guilt about having left him behind to go to work. Sadly, many other mothers who lost children in the China earthquake and in the Myanmar cyclone are surely feeling the same devastating loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the people of China and Myanmar as they deal with the aftermath of this week's horrible natural disasters. Thank you to Melissa Block and her colleagues for bringing us this sad story--it really hit home and personalized this tragedy for me.

Sent by Karyn Frick | 9:43 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you Melissa for making this tragedy so personal. As a mother I was hit really hard.

Sent by Christine | 9:43 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Ms. Block, NPR... Thank you. I don't have children, I didn't suffer an earthquake... But, because of your story, I *did* have a child, I *do* know someone who lived through an earthquake only to have lost their child and parents. One small family, one very dedicated and resourceful and eminently talented reporter and translator and field staff, half the world away yet dropped right into the center of my consciousness, my heart, as only they and their medium of radio can do...

This story, in particular, illuminates like a beacon what NPR does, what its role alone in journalism is for our society. Why does it take disasters, always, to bring us together? Why does it take disasters to remind us of the power and necessity of good journalism?

NPR, you have awed me for decades with your skill and ability to reach me, to teach me, the news I need to know. The complaints from this group about how censored or biased NPR is, the complaints about how this or that special interest is being neglected... Those complaints are rendered petty and picayune in the face of the larger picture -- the larger picture such as was revealed to us in this evening's broadcast. Journalism -- story-telling, humanity -- at its finest. Thank you, again, Melissa Block, and your team, and NPR, for opening my heart and mind again.

Sent by David Strumsky | 9:52 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Dear Melissa and Robert,
A thank you from the bottom of my heart! I heard true love and caring towards the Chinese people in your voices and choices of words. This means so much to me and Chinese people everywhere.

Sent by Yong Gao | 9:53 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Melissa, your reporting is simply amazing during this tragedy. Your personal connections to the people and the stories, the way we can hear this in your reports, is of utmost importance to help listeners truly connect to something so, so distant. You are doing superb journalism, the very best. Thank you for your hard work and allowing your own emotion to come through for all of us.

Sent by Mara | 9:54 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I'm sure countless individuals drove home from work today, with tears streaming down their faces, as I did, listening to Melissa tell this heartbreaking story. She has been able to put such a personal face on this horrible disaster. Thank you Melissa, for staying and making a difference in these people's lives. Undoubtably, many of your listeners will contribute to the relief effort.

Sent by Toni Powell | 9:57 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you, Melissa and team, for your extraordinary journalism. To hear these personal accounts makes the tragedy, while so far away, feel so very close.

Sent by Katie | 9:58 PM ET | 05-14-2008

The mother's voice. Melissa's voice. What a heart wrenching story and what an amazingly humane journalistic masterpiece. I had to spend quite a few minutes to collect myself before I could step out of my car and greet my beloved 10-month old son. Thank you Melissa. Thank you the NPR team.

Sent by James Ma | 9:59 PM ET | 05-14-2008

God bless you Melissa and your team for your reports out of China. Your story on parents searching for their child has greatly touched me. My thoughts and prayers go to the quake victims.

Sent by RC | 9:59 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Until you have a child you cannot realize how much your own parents love you. Ms. Block's voice and Mrs. Fu/Mr. Wang express this profound loss as nothing else can. This tragedy brings back memories of the reports of parents discovering the flight over Lockerbie Scotland had exploded at Christmas filled with Syracuse college students returning home from a semester abroad. I too sobbed then as a young teen and now as a mother...first realizing how much my parents love me and now the loss of a child through this mother's voice. I pray for the survivors and the NPR team reporting firsthand accounts. Thank you NPR. I was transfixed, hopeful, devastated and weeping.

Sent by nprlisten | 10:02 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Y'know, I woke up this morning complaining about how bad the coffee tasted? Can you beleive that?

My boy Jack said the same thing to me. "Papa, can I go with you?". And you know what I did? I scowled. And left the house with a short goodbye. And I cursed my job all the way out to the car. Can you beleive that now?

Thank you Melissa Block, for making me appreciate every second of the rest of the evening, after listening to your voice trembling with grief as you told me about this Dujiangyan couple. Tonight I will read an extra chapter of Winnie the Pooh to Jack before I kiss him good night, and I will hold my wife as close to me as I can in bed, as I close my eyes and pray quietly for you Ms. Block, and Mr. Siegal, and everyone else on that side of the world.

Sent by Jeremy Kelly | 10:02 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Your account was incredibly moving. I heard your voice catching and can only imagine the emotions that must be kept in check in order to report such utter devastation. I hope many who hear this will help those in need. Thank you.

Sent by Maia | 10:18 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Oh my goodness. What a terrible reality. Thank you Melissa for bringing this far-away story to life. I found myself crying while listening to the panicked Mrs. Fu that her baby would be found alive and feeling her overwhelming grief when he was not.

Sent by Debbie Engen | 10:25 PM ET | 05-14-2008

The sounds, the cries, the anguish.. .the human spirit, thank you for such tremendous reporting. I too have been moved to tears. Please convey to the Chinese people affected that Americans care and that I am praying for their well being.

Sent by John Niemann | 10:27 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Ms. Block's story on the Fu Family is the most powerful piece of reporting I have ever heard. Even though Fu Guanyu and I don't speak the same language, the guttural cries of a mother mourning the death of her child needs no translation. It transcends all language barriers. All I could do was hold my own children and weep for the loss of so many parents. Thank you Ms. Block, for doing something so difficult to bring the rest of the world a small understanding of those experiencing this disaster.

Sent by Caitlin Calder | 10:28 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I listened to this story while cooking dinner for my family and 15 month old son. The desperation in the parents' voices needed no translation. By the end, hit full in the face with the individual tragedies that are taking place half a world away, I found myself standing at my kitchen counter and sobbing while my own son played with a pot and lid on the floor.

Sent by Meredith | 10:29 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thank you for your fine reporting. Thank you for putting a beautiful human face on this tragedy and the people of China. This kind of reporting helps to break down the barriers between people. Whether it is an earthquake, typhoon or the destruction of poverty, bombs and bullets, we must remember that we all bleed red blood, we share the same needs, desires, hopes and sorrows.

Sent by Julia | 10:36 PM ET | 05-14-2008

My husband and I heard this on the radio. Immediately after this program it was time for us to bath our 6 months baby and get ready for his bedtime. With tears still in our eyes, we couldn't help thinking what if it was our family, what if it was our baby...

Melissa, I really appreciate it. Thank you for bringing this touching story to the world.

For those who would like to help, you may donate from here. Choose "China Earthquake". Thank you!
http://www.mercycorps.org/

Sent by Qiong | 10:37 PM ET | 05-14-2008

When this story began, I glanced at my clock; when it ended, I checked the time again. Nine hours which crept by in 10 minutes as I awaited the outcome with tears. What a fantastic and emotionally jarring job of story-telling. I think of these families who have followed the only one child ruling and now to have lost that one. My heart breaks. LaMarr

Sent by LaMarr Brack | 10:38 PM ET | 05-14-2008

thank you for being there and sharing with us.

Sent by Mary | 10:47 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I was driving home from work when I heard this segment on NPR. The cries and desperation of the parents resonnated in my ears....and I thougt about my 4 year old daughter and could not even imagine what Mrs Fu and Mr. Wang were going through...all I could do was pull my car aside and weep--- weep for Mrs. Fu, Mr.Wang, their young son and his grandparents.

Sent by Gigi Mathew | 10:47 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Melissa has always been one of my favorite NPR reporters but this story put her on top for sure. I was moved to tears. Sat in my car in the grocery store parking lot trying to gain composure after this story. SO SAD!

Sent by Jennifer Doran | 10:49 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Like everyone else, the story had me crying on my evening drive. I hesitate to call it a "story" - the real force of this radio piece, I think, was that it made real (visceral, even) the results of an act of nature on the other side of the world. It seems that not a week goes by without at least one natural disaster that leaves "thousands dead." Such information, such news, is easier to swallow down when it is on a grand scale, because we do not often connect it with individual loss. This piece, in a gut-wrenching way, dared to make the listener experience this disaster on human terms. Throughout the earthquake coveraged, I've been moved by the emotion ausible in Melissa and Robert's voices. Indeed, rather than the monotonous stoicism its reputation would suggest, NPR has made the "news" of the earthquake more relevant to American listeners by connecting common feelings. That it was impossible to hear Mrs. Fu's sobs and not react empathetically shows, to me, the indivisibility of the human experience.

Sent by Leslie | 10:51 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I was going to rebut John (6:02 PM ET | 05-14-2008) for calling this report vulgar and sensational, but realized what a waste of time it would be to argue with him. He should just go back to watch Lou "I love bashing communist China" Dobb and Jack "the goon" Cafferty.

As gut wrenching the story is, it is heartening to see the rest of the listeners (American, Chinese or whatever) still had a heart to be moved.

Melissa and the team: keep up the good work and please be careful.

Sent by NYCRealist | 11:15 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Melissa

Your tremendous work as an accomplished journalist made two men in hard hats cry the whole way home today. This story left us stunned.

Sent by David R. Spotts | 11:17 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Dear NPR staff,
My thoughts are with you as you witness and report such unimaginable tragedy and loss. Thank you for the difficult work you are doing at this time to keep us informed in such a touching and sensitive manner. Please take care of yourselves.

Sent by Erika Siemsen | 11:32 PM ET | 05-14-2008

One rescued girl told reporters, they sang songs under rubbles to fight the fear. I believe the grandparents are singing songs to their loved granddaughter to get her sleep in peace.

Sent by C. Liang | 11:32 PM ET | 05-14-2008

I couldn't stop crying on my drive home. Just shows how connected we all are by humanity. Maybe we can help by not protesting the Olympics. Let them have some pride in their country after this horrible tragedy!

Sent by Nick Gilmore | 11:36 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Ms. Block, thank you for such intense, compelling, and moving reporting. Listening to your story today reminded me of how journalism connects and moves us and reaffirmed my desire to be a journalist. You are an extraordinary reporter.

Sent by Rachel | 11:37 PM ET | 05-14-2008

My heart is breaking for these parents. So painful to hear their story, and yet we must have a glimpse of the real human loss behind the impossible numbers. Thank you for sharing this story with us, no matter how difficult it is to hear.

Sent by Beth Ann Stone | 11:37 PM ET | 05-14-2008

No one should have to experience the pain of losing a child. We have to stand together and do everything that we can to help those that have lost loved ones and those that have been displaced.

On a personal note, when you don't have children and you hear of tragedies like this, it saddens you. However, when you have children of your own--when you know the true bond and unconditional love that is shared between a parent and a child--and you hear of something like this, it puts a feeling deep inside of your heart... This could have been your child... in a strange way, you mourn as though this was your child. I will tell you what, when I got home from work today, I went straight to my 4 year old and my 5 month old, and held them in my arms, and cried. And I mean, I cried hard. It is unimaginable the devastation that these people are going through right now. Could you imagine if 1500 let alone 15000 were presumed dead in the United States?

We need to help. I know that I will be researching all of the sites that are taking donations to help these people... these mothers, fathers, children, humans in their hour of need, and I encourage each of you to do the same.

Sent by Mary Ann Mascorro | 11:46 PM ET | 05-14-2008

For the first time, the impact of the devastation in China became real to me when I heard Melissa's voice crack as she began to grieve with the family. I was driving home from work and I began to weep, suddenly empathizing with a family and a culture I have never seen. Thank you for telling this story.

Sent by Heather D | 11:57 PM ET | 05-14-2008

Thanks, NPR and Melissa, for this incredibly moving and unimaginably tragic story. This is journalism at its best because it torches and connects us all. As an expatriate Chinese, I greatly appreciate Robert, Melissa, and all other ATC staff's dedications and efforts in bringing us these amazing stories during the last few days.

I only wish these stories could be translated into Chinese and aired in Chinese Public Radio as well. Stories like these transcend boundaries and remind us the universality of love and humanity.

Sent by Mike | 12:15 AM ET | 05-15-2008

I was on my way to pick up the kids when I heard your story and could not hold back my tears. I had to sit in the car to let the tears dry up before going into the daycare. Reading it again online I'm full of tears yet again. Needless to say it is extraordinary journalism. Thank you Melissa for the most humane and gentle interpretation to a nation's tragedy. "Mommy don't go" now has a deeper meaning for me. My prayers to the victims and their families...

Sent by Rong | 12:23 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Heartbreaking story from Melissa Block, so much suffering, my heart goes out to all those affected and thank you to Melissa Block for great reporting.

Sent by Zoe | 12:25 AM ET | 05-15-2008

There is no question, this report was incredibly moving. Perhaps more moving than any news story I've been exposed to in my lifetime. There have been, unfortunately, countless catastrophes all over the world over the ages - but no catastrophe has had the fortune (if that is how we should characterize it) of having Melissa Block there to record every profoundly disturbing moment in the day of a parent's worst nightmare.

I found myself asking whether this report needed to be broadcast. Whether such disturbing tragedy need be related to us. I debated this in my mind all evening - through drive time with my daughter sleeping safely in her made-in-China infant seat; through my son's T-Ball practice that evening, through reading Frog and Toad's 'Tomorrow' to my other son as he fell asleep hugging my arm as I read to him.

It has not been an easy evening for this American father of three. And I found myself asking again and again, was this story necessary? We know there's a tragedy going on in China, and in Burma as well. Is it exploitation to broadcast such extreme human suffering to the nation?

Finally, after midnight, I have realized this report was not exploitation. It was necessary. So much of America lives in incredible isolation. We hear about disaster after disaster, catastrophe after catastrophe. But rarely do we take the time to understand what such events mean to people other people who aren't so different than ourselves.

Did we need to hear this report???

I say we did. I say we need to understand what it is to be human. What it takes to be human in the most horrific of circumstances.

But, beyond all, I have been reminded to not think of the tens of thousands of victims in China and Burma as simply numbers of dead in some far off place - I've been reminded that every life has a story that is worth something; that every child deserves two devoted and loving parents such as the two in Melissa's report.

I was going to say 'thankyou' to Mellisa for such an incredibly moving story. But, my heart will not let me. Instead, my heart tells me there is nothing more important than praying for these two parents, as well as for the loss of their child and grandparents. And, prayers, and prayers, and prayers, and prayers, for the tens of thousands of people throughout China and Burma who need anything and everything.

-bob
Andover, MA

Sent by Bob | 12:25 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Thank you, Mellisa. Thank you for so touching report.

I am saddened, I cried when I was listening it on the way to home.

I am a mother. My Heart went to all the mothers who lost their kids during this disaster. I can't forget he mother's voice and the mother's cry for her baby. I keep thinking if it were me......

Mellisa, thank you so such. I believe the moment when we all listen to your report, you make connections among the people, and you break down cultural barriers.

NPR, this is the first time I am truly appreciate of your report concerned with China. Thank you.

Let's pray for all people in China, also in Mymar.

Sent by Juan | 12:31 AM ET | 05-15-2008

I pulled over and the tears fell down. So sorry...

Sent by John O | 12:33 AM ET | 05-15-2008

As an overseas Chinese, I am extremely saddened by the tragedy and am also greatly touched by the very vivid report from Melissa which gave me a close feel of the situation there. Thanks Melissa. I just donated to the China Earthquake Relief at the Tsinghua Challenge Education Foundation.(http://tsinghuafoundation.org/earthquake08/index.html)

Sent by Ray | 12:34 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Melissa, Thank you for the amazing report.

Sent by Myung Allen | 12:47 AM ET | 05-15-2008

It's the most tremendous report I've ever heard. Mellisa, thank you so much for putting a such a personal and human side on this story.

Sent by Yao | 12:48 AM ET | 05-15-2008

I couldn't stop crying while I was driving home.

Melissa told the story in such a professional and respectful way, this is what journalism is about.

God bless all these families.

Sent by Isela | 12:53 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Wow, Melissa, what an overwhelming and heartbreaking story. It was really something special that this family allowed us (through you) to share their personal tragedy. The sounds of their grief-stricken voices, and your own trembling voice, brought home the human scale of this disaster like nothing else could have. Thank you for your patience and perseverance in staying with this family all day to give their story the attention it deserved. I'll never forget it. Bless your heart . . . stay safe.

Sent by Bob | 12:54 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Thanks for some amazing coverage and humanizing this disaster when the numbers sometimes seem so unbelievable.

Sent by Angela | 12:56 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Like so many others who have commented on here, I am moved by this story. I feel sad that has happened. My heart goes out to the victims in China.

Sent by Diana V | 1:06 AM ET | 05-15-2008

pray...

Sent by Nick | 1:06 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Melissa, thank you, thank you for crying with the family... thank you for being there for people from my homeland

Sent by Esther | 1:22 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Melissa, did a wonderful job of reporting this story. I cried and cried as I drove through traffic. For some reason, I found myself angry at Melissa for bringing me so close to this tragedy. I think that she did "too good of a job." Thank you

Sent by Roni Pham | 1:26 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Melissa...I heard their story on the way home from work in San Francisco. I am driving and weeping then sobbing. Please tell them that their pain is felt in my heart and I am keeping them in my prayers.

Thank you for sharing your good work.

Sent by Caitlin McCarthy | 1:26 AM ET | 05-15-2008

I was outraged after listening to this story! You took the most horrific thing that could ever happen to a human being and made a radio program out of it. You didn't just report on the casualties, you made sure that that woman's grief was easily accessible, that everyone could understand exactly in what words she was calling out to her dead child, and that everyone who was tuned to your program at that moment was sitting there praying that there was a happy ending to it all. There are lines that shouldn't be crossed and there are emotions that shouldn't be broadcasted just to make us feel better that we're not in China right now and that it's not our children that have flies buzzing over them. That family's life will never be the same, and you should be ashamed of yourself for making a spectacle out of the most unbearable day anyone can live through.

Sent by Natalya Caldwell | 1:35 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Thank you, Melissa and Robert. What touching stories told by you two!!! They brought me to tears every day in the past few days.

Sent by Lan Wang | 1:37 AM ET | 05-15-2008

I tried to hold my tears everyday since the earthquake, but I can't. Knowing people in my home province suffering, I can barely sleep, nor can I work normally. I feel so sad that there's nothing I can do here in the US, except donating some money. That's far from enough help I want to give to my people.
I turn on the radio because I want to hear and know what's happening. Any piece of news are important to me. I then turn it off because I can't stand the sorrow voices, in the dialect I am perfectly familiar with. It's a shame that I am not there with all of them.
Thanks very much for the reporting.

Sent by Liang Huang | 1:41 AM ET | 05-15-2008

I just got back from Huaxi hospital which receiced numerous surivors rescued from Wen Chuan county, the epicenter. The scene is really horrible. My famlily is very lucky as my father just got back from Li county a month ago(my grandmather lived there alone, and she was too ill to have to be sent to Chengdu City for surgery) which is adjacent to Wenchuan, the epicenter. Locals escaped from there said tens of thousands of school students are still buried there for two days now. The mountains were even moved to close each other banning rescuing work fully operated. It's storming there, helipcopter hardly landed in. Parachuter soilders were sent however with no heavy rescuing machines but bare hands.

My childhood were spent there and every year I will go to there to see my grandmather and my Qiang minority and Tibetan friends. But I cound't reach them all. God help us..

I have many first hand pictures, anywhere to post them to share with American people who care about this disaster?

Sent by George Wong | 1:43 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Melissa,thank you.

I am typing in tears. What else can I say? A heart wrenching tragedy unfold right infront of your eyes. As a parent, no matter where you are in this world, the loss of a child is just universally unbearable. My heart is crying for the parents in your story. Hope the little boy and the grandparents didn't suffer too much.

Take care of yourself too. All these trauma must have an emotional toll on you all.

Sent by Ling Wang | 1:50 AM ET | 05-15-2008

I just listened and wept as the emotion in your voice revealed something that cold journalism doesn't usually convey these days. Yours was so real and appropriate considering what you were witnessing. Your compassion and empathy brought me to the very spot representative of millions like it around the country of China. My heart broke for this dear couple. I am praying for all those looking for loved ones and for those trapped but still alive.

Sent by Kathie Groenewold | 2:37 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Thank you for your sympathy and report! As a Chinese, sincerely appreciate.

Sent by Xiang Gao | 2:39 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Mellisa THANK YOU for bringing the reality of the disaster to NPR audiances, take care of yourself and be safe.

a chinese in seattle.

Sent by a chinese | 2:42 AM ET | 05-15-2008

I listened to Melissa's reports for many days, and I was so touched by her reporting and emotion. I cried many times ... I tried to hold my tears, but I couldn't. Many of my Chinese friends who also listened to her reports cried too.

Thank you Melissa! You are the best!

Sent by Tony Su | 3:00 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Thank you Melisa for this report. I have been following this tragedy from various news sources. Your view from one small family gave me again the true feeling of this tragedy. I am a 38-year old man from China. I can't help but breaking into tears. Thank you again.

Sent by Jerry | 3:09 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Such wrenching sorrow--the magnitude is staggering. But by focusing on one family's horrible tragedy, and by not obscuring her own emotional response, Melissa Block has managed to make personal and visceral a situation that cannot be adequately described with words or images.

Thank you Melissa. My thoughts are with the families you are covering, and with you and Robert as well. Please stay safe.

Sent by David Pye | 3:16 AM ET | 05-15-2008

God bless all the families!!!

Sent by David | 3:30 AM ET | 05-15-2008

I donated $100 today. I know it's not a lot, but at least I can do something.

I cried allow with the story.Melissa, you did a very good job. Please be careful in China, it might be have small earthquate after the big earthquate. God bless Chiese!

Sent by Wang | 3:38 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Sichuan is the origin of Chinese culture, and the resilience of the Sichuanese people will bring China through.

I sat in my car and quietly sobbed after turning off the radio. I desperately wanted to be at the site, and help Mrs. Fu find her son alive, so as to shield the family from the devastatingly pernicious shock of nerve numbing loss.

My heart goes out to all of the souls and spirits whisked away so cruelly by the tragedy. In the end, hope will still prevail.

Sent by Tom Mao | 3:49 AM ET | 05-15-2008

This is great journalism. I so much appreciate hearing about the story , the desperate family, and not the all too common reporter's ego trip. Thank you Ms. Block. What can we do over here to help?

Sent by Rob Schoenbaum | 4:23 AM ET | 05-15-2008

Recently, I've made a habit to shield myself from tragedies 'over there' whether it be Myanmar, Iraq, China or even across town -- call it survival instinct. Rarely can (or does) the U.S. media do anything to remind me that I am a citizen of a larger world - that something happening 'over there' is happening to my brothers and sisters in the human race. For ten or so minutes the Fu family members were my neighbors -- people I knew and cared for and for whom I will grieve in the coming weeks and months.

Thank you for this moving story -- Obviously it was a difficult story to report and I am sure it was not an easy decision to air such an emotionally wrenching story. There are always fears that using the ultimate tragedy of the loss of a child and parents is sensational or in some way taking advantage of the family's grief. This story demonstrates when reported with humanity, even stories of ultimate t