They (the NEW) bring memories that in some quirky way, may comfort you.....IF that proves NOT to be the case.....TiVo, as you say Your emotions will guide you the right way, the way you need to go right now to get through the pain and loneliness you feel.
Prayers Laurie,
Wanda Amorose

Sent by Wanda Amorose | 7:17 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie,
First, I want to say that was the best burger I have had in a long, long time! And the first time I have ventured out for dinner alone so, thank you!
Since Neil was in the golf profession, our time together in front of the TV was watching golf. I still can't watch the "older guys" play. I went to see them a few months back and that was really hard, cried all the way to Birmingham and then back to Jackson...but it was healing for me. The Ryder Cup, (we were supposed to go this year,) let's just say I heard they won!
You just take one foot and put it in front of the other. I don't know if it gets easier as time goes by, but it is different. You are now alone. Some days, that is totally okay, other days, well, you just go through the motions.
I think your idea of TIVO is great! Laurie, you do what it takes and you have faith in the love you shared with Leroy and it will get you taking that next step!
I wish you peace and healing.
Much love, cyber hugs, and continued prayers...

Sent by Laurie Hirth | 7:43 AM ET | 09-22-2008

TiVo is the ABSOLUTE best! I absolutely swear by it. Sometimes you are just too overwhelmed to see something - or it surprises you and leaves a bad feeling in your stomach (anyone watch Weeds? the ending two weeks ago was awful, while this week's ending was hysterical!), and you need a dose of something light. TiVo is the answer!!!I tried HBO's new True Blood - I wouldn't recommend it.

If you are patient you can do what my husband does: watch a season in a weekend - like reading a book.

Laurie - My mom has been gone 7 years and I still can't watch her favorite shows without tearing up.

On another note - after 4 1/2 years of being a stay-at-home Mom I go back to work today, part time. So if I am not "online" daily, it isn't something bad. A new start isn't usually a bad thing.

Sent by Liz L. | 7:48 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Dear Laurie,

Here it is the first official day of Autumn and yes the new TV season starts with the "Stay at home week" from ABC. I think, because I am sort of a reality show junky (Race, Survivor, and Dancing on my list) I will probably run out of tapes (still watch tapes) this week alone because of my schedule. Although Boston Legal has gotten a bit quirky, I'll miss it after this season and ER also.

At least between Tivo and tapes we can watch it when want to.

Enjoy a pretty day with hopefully pleasant memories.

Better this week, 1-2-3 lifting...

Sent by Sue Chap | 8:16 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Dear Laurie,
I watch "Dancing with the Stars". It's real escapism, no thinking required. Maybe it would be good to try a show that Leroy didn't watch so there won't be any painful memories. As for me, I went to see "Wicked" this weekend. It was hard listening to some of the lyrics since they related to love and loss. My friend loved it. I appreciated it but it took effort just to go. Baby steps, Laurie. Giant steps are very draining right now.

Sent by Elaine | 8:19 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie, You're in my thoughts each day as you move through this loss. Can you find a friend to share the watching with? I know it's not the same as having your best friend Leroy by your side but it seems to me he would want you to continue to enjoy the things he shared with you, and to share them with someone else.

Sent by N.R. | 8:26 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Dear Laurie,
TIVO sounds like a great solution! It's probably too soon to try and watch by yourself. Give yourself plenty of time and space - it will still be there when you're ready.
I watched the tribute on Friday - Leroy was an amazing man! And you, Laurie, are an amazing woman. We are still lifting you as you continue this journey, knowing that every step is so very difficult. So go slowly, giving yourself plenty of time. There are still plenty of re-runs to watch.

Sending love and lifts,

Sent by Laura | 8:27 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie, My husband had the TV on day and night for the last couple of years. He like Leroy had trouble sleeping. The old reruns during the night filled those hours. We also were not into the new reality shows. I just lately have been able to turn the TV on and watch some of the political news but haven't really been able to venture into any in depth programs. Someday.

Over the weekend I sat down and was able to watch the video of Leroy's Celebration. Had listened to it previously. Laurie, thank you so much for sharing this with all of us. What a testimony to the big guy.

I have a sister that was diagnosed with colon cancer on Friday. I couldn't help but think of Leroy and how I wish she was able to read over the last couple of years posts. She has lost much of her eye sight so unable to read but hopefully I will draw from Leroy's words and better understand what she is going through. "He does live on through us".

Laurie, try to have the best day possible. Keeping you in my prayers.

Sent by dorothy from Oregon | 8:44 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie,
You WILL KNOW when you can do what you want to do. If it hurts and you don't HAVE TO DO IT - hey, don't do it right now. The day will come when you will know that you will always miss Leroy like Hell but that Laurie is back and she can and will go on with her life.

G-d bless you Laurie and thank you so much for continuing to write to us.
Love, Jan

Sent by janice goldberg white | 9:07 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie - I just wanted to tell you I made a contribution to StandUp2Cancer in memory of Leroy. I don't think they forward that info to the honorees. I'll bet others on this list did the same.

Sent by wendy | 9:13 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie,

I felel exactly the same way. My husband Bruce and I would really make TV an event of our evening. He passed away on our 12th wedding anniversay - May 25, 2008 - from small cell of the prostate. For the past few weeks I have been wondering if I will be able to watch the shows we watched together. It feels too new to me too. No one could ever have explained to me that TV might be too hard to watch after losing him. What a sideways world it has become.

Hang in there. I really know how you feel.
Sarah

Sent by Sarah Senter | 9:19 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Good Morning, Laurie. My brother loved America's Test Kitchen. He would type out these long emails telling me the glories of some new gadget. I haven't been able to watch one for over a year. Maybe this fall will be the right time.

Sent by glenda | 9:25 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Happy Monday, Laurie!
Mom still turns to Dad, who is no longer sitting there, to share a laugh or a comment about what she's watching, as she used to do. It's going to take a while.
Sending love to you today Laurie, Linda

Sent by Linda Lee | 9:54 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Dear Laurie,
I think TIVO is the answer! Maybe you are not ready to watch some of the TV shows you shared with Leroy, it might be to painful. I am really not the right person to give advice; I can hardly handle my own situation, but this is just something that makes some sense to me. This is something I would do if John were no longer here. I would not allow myself the pain of watching our favorite shows..............I would resort to watching something entirely different.

Right now your family and friends are all around you. Allow them to carry you along with peace and joy and fulfillment and love. You are so fortunate and blessed to have Leroy's army beside you. Maybe you could take in a movie and dinner to help pass the long nights.

Prayers to all

Sent by sasha | 10:00 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Oh, Laurie...take it from me, set your TIVO or recorder to capture those shows and save them till you are ready. You will want to watch them for the good memories but maybe not now. I didn't even turn on the tv for a couple months after my husband died suddenly. But I have watched those recordings now.

Sent by Kitty Jungkind | 10:06 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Dear Laurie,
I am grateful that you are willing to share your process with all of us who are still reading "Leroy's Blog". It will always be Leroy's, and for we who miss him, it warms the heart to share these difficult days with you. Like Leroy, you have a wonderful way with words. Thank you for sharing so open-heartedly and honestly. We have grown accustomed to the best, and your writing carries on that lofty tradition. May your heart find comfort even though it has broken.
Radha in St. John

Sent by Radha Speer | 10:12 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Thanks for writing. I have a few friends in your shoes and get a real sense of what they are going through by your sharing.

Sent by Lisa | 10:20 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Is this last season of Boston Legal??? I love that show. Yes, TIVO might be answer for you right now, Laurie. Be kind to yourself and do what is good for you. I must confess I found the Emmys Show boring and turned it off to watch Army Wives.
I hope you can find some things to watch that will make you happy in the moment.
Charlotte in Rural Ridge, PA

Sent by Charlotte Kewish | 10:33 AM ET | 09-22-2008

I want you to know I am still thinking of you and what you must be going thru. So many things are going to remind you of what the two of you used to do together and I would imagine that would be so painful. I cant even begin to think what it must feel like to be going thru what you are. Just know our thoughts and prayers are still with you for your healing.

Sent by Lori West | 10:36 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie,

Funny you should mention "Boston Legal". That was mine and Melody's favorite. It was also the last show her and I watched together. I was not aware that it is going to be its final season.

From that angle, I will write to you. Because Boston Legal is such a great show and it is the ONLY TV I watch (I don't even watch the reruns) I've never missed an episode. I always thought the writing and acting took me away for an hour and I always had a good laugh. After Melody passed, it was tough for me to watch the show...but I still did, but it didn't feel the same. Now, almost two years later, it's not as bad.

I'll be sad to see it go.
"Denny Crane"

Sent by Michael (Lifegiver Survivor) Chicago | 11:16 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Dear Laurie,

As a certain well-known domestic maven might say, "TIVO ... It's a good thing." Watching TV together is such a contemporary communion. Even though we have a DVD of "It's A Wonderful Life" in our collection, I always watch the movie when it's showing on network TV, because I know that I'm watching with so many, many others at exactly the same time -- Communion. And whether that communion is with one very special loved one or a million "others", there is something memorable about experiencing programs, and shows "together".

It goes without saying that I always learn something new from you and Leroy. Today I learned that this is the last season of Boston Legal :o(. We are relative newcomers to the show (3 years viewing now) and always eagerly anticipate the antics of "Denny Crane..." and crew.

I watched Leroy's celebration of life once again this past weekend. What a moving occasion of tribute and love. Leroy's Lessons ... Such gifts. (One thing I hope you might share with us here is a little insight about "Leroy's amazing clay figures" -??)

Hoping today is a good day for you, Laurie, and to all whose hearts are aching ~ Hidden blessings,

Kim

Sent by Kim Forester, Pullman WA | 11:25 AM ET | 09-22-2008

I've been catching up on reruns of "House" so I can jump into the new season. It is a little bittersweet for me, as it conjures up visions of the Love of My Life.
I was on duty as adoption counselor yesterday at the League, and we have a new dog identified as "Bernese mountain" mix. He is almost adopted, but I did think of you and Leroy. If you decide you'd like to have a new canine or feline companion I'd be more than happy to help you find one. They can ease the loneliness with an unconditional love you'll find no where else.

Sent by Dianne (DC) | 11:30 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Isn't it funny how something that most of the world takes for granted can become so significant? When I was a kid and then as a teenager my Dad and I were TV buddies. When I struck out on my own we created a new routine of calling each other during the commercials. Twenty years later we still have commercial break calls. I often stop watching a show if he doesn't watch it too. I've tried discussing TV with other people. NOT the same. I can't imagine the day Dad won't be there to answer my commercial break calls. And I'm really sorry that you are living it now.

Saying a prayer for you...

Sent by Joan Marie | 11:32 AM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie, I have been waiting so long for 24, I can't wait anymore. Fringe on Fox is very interesting. Saying goodbye to some old friends too, ER, Boston Legal, etc. I trust your weekend was okay, mine was just okay too. Thoughts, Stan

Sent by Stan Wozniak | 11:39 AM ET | 09-22-2008

You just remined me of something. Robert and I would always watch Jeopardy...which at the time was in the afternoon in Atlanta...around 4 o'clock or something like that (before Oprah took over that hour in ATL)...and I remember in those last few weeks feeling as if in some surreal world...we would lay in bed and watch, sort of spoon like, and I would think...soon I'll have to do this alone (not being negative, being realistic and it was the only time I would let myself think that way)...and then when he died, no matter what, I would make sure I was on that bed at 4, in case "he showed up to watch."...what can I tell you...I just felt him close...everyone has to "do their thing."

Sent by Sandra Yudilevich | 12:38 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie,

If you need someone to break down Entourage with, please never hesitate to e:mail me - my husband got me into it, and now we never miss a Sunday episode. I still get a major kick out of it, even though I do sense weaker writing this season.

Do what feels good for you each moment of the day - and as everyone else has said, thanks so much for keeping us in your life!

Sent by Amy in NJ - amycarr@earthlink.net | 1:50 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie:

Until he got sick, Burge only watched the History and Discover Channels or if really bored, the Western Channel. Once he was in pain, anything, especially the court TV junk was fair game. The only thing he watched I liked was the Food Channel until we discovered CSI. I still watch the reruns even if I know what is going to happen. Feels like home I guess.

Now that Burge is gone, I'm stuck on HGTV, something he NEVER watched even when we were in the same room...he would read. It helps me avoid the lonelies, and I can dream about new houses, etc. Keeps me busy and humble...especially if it's Clean Sweep or one of those shows about clutter...a dragon I own myself. ha

This past week was hard for me. Things were going great...I was actually catching up on the book and government paperwork when out of the blue "Our song" played on the radio and I started crying. Everything made me cry (they were sobs actually) for almost two days and for a while, I thought it would never end. I made all kinds of excuses for myself, but it all boiled down to still missing Burge after more than 14 months. I'm sure many of you in the same boat know what I mean.

Unfortunately, I think very few of people I call the "general public" in my small community remember why I might be crying as it is strange how quickly people forget. Many probably just think I'm nuts.

Forgetting about "us" due to living their own lives is another reason I love this blog. We all understand even when we don't say so.

love always,

Nikki

Sent by Nikki in Kansas | 2:05 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Dear Laurie,
I've been reflecting on this past weekend... On Saturday, my longest-term non-family friend (something like "oldest & dearest") and I got together for the first time in many years. Among other things, we reminisced about our moms, both gone - over huge, gooey burgers (burgers were not pre-planned).

On Sunday, my family was together at Dad's, made our (second) yearly visit to the cemetery, and then watched the video from their 50th wedding anniversary party in 1999. This was the first time any of us could even consider looking at it - Mom walking over to Dad as he made a little speech that he'd prepared "just in case". She said nothing, just put her arm around his back when he got emotional. And then we did... But it was so beautiful and soul-satisfying (as Mom would say).

I look forward for you to the time - no matter long it takes for you to get there - when your pain lessens & you are able to get "soul-satisfaction" out of those things that are so tough now.

About the tribute - as so many others did, first I listed, then watched. So moving and wonderful. And you looked so good in Leroy's shirt. Now that's a hug!

Thank you again and always and still lifting!

Sent by Judie in CT | 2:09 PM ET | 09-22-2008

This post rings so true for me Laurie. I remember how hard it was to face continuations (alone) of things Kerry and I had done together. TIVO, tears - whatever you do you are taking care of yoursef through what has to be a tough transition.

Sent by Victoria Hendricks | 2:43 PM ET | 09-22-2008

I just wanted to pass along my personal Burger Update from last week.

I enjoyed a Cubano Burger. It is a Cuban sandwich, on a Hamburger. I am pretty sure it aged me, but it was darn good.

We'll keep lifting.... and please make sure you watch a bit of silly television. Nothing helps the spirits more then a good laugh.

Sent by Brian "Brit" Goss from Long Island, NY | 2:52 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Thank you for your honesty during your time of grief. My prayers are with you during this time.

Sent by Lisa Gossett | 2:58 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Hi Laurie,
I think perhaps you should be very gentle with yourself and if it seems to much to watch shows that bring back feelings that are just to hard rght now than TIVO if a good idea.

I know for myself watching reruns of Frasier was just to much because my sister and I use to watch them together. But for me it did get easier.

Thinking of you

Karen

Sent by Karen | 3:10 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie and friends,

I also was taken by surprise that it was painful for me to watch some of the TV shows we used to never miss watching together. For us it was a lot of the home improvement shows - we always enjoyed working on our old house together. I just can't bring myself to watch them alone yet. I find myself watching more news type shows and getting interesting in politics again. That was never his thing, so there are no painful reminders. I often turn on the TV just for background noise and company.

I also have not been able to listen to music that we both liked. I have had the same CD in my car for months now because it isn't one we listened to together. I wonder if it will be like this from now on, or if eventually the pain will lessen enough to do some of "our" things alone. I guess only time will tell.

I also enjoyed the tribute to Leroy. What an amazing man he was, larger than life in so many ways, and how many people he touched, and is still touching through this blog.

Wishing you peace....

TK

Sent by Tk | 3:13 PM ET | 09-22-2008

My friends and I had the best burgers the other night and gave a toast to the both of you. I send you strength daily. I hope it helps. You know there is nothing wrong with having conversation with Leroy while watching the new line-up. There isn't a soul in Cancer World who would question it.

Sent by Kathy B. | 3:17 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Wish I could be there to watch with you Laurie...

Sent by sue | 3:43 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie,
Strange you should bring up tivo. My friend "tivo'd" the Living With Cancer program but I've not been able to watch it so she just keeps it for me. We just lost a dear friend today to pancreatic cancer so we are floundering a little bit. She was a courageous fighter and her dear husband was her rock so our hearts are breaking for him as well as ourselves. I wish I could get him to "Leroy's blog" so you could give him some guidance but I don't think he can do it right now.Maybe I will print some of your thoughts for a scrapbook for him to look through when he is ready. You are such a remarkable person to be able to share yourself with us. Lifting!!

Sent by Kathie | 4:32 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie,

From past experience, I know that I'm late for today's blog--I just got home from work. It'll be late but I'll write tomorrow about your blog today.

Lifting hugs...

Sent by Kathy Barney from Michigan | 5:19 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie -
There is much to be said for the same 'ol thing. You are bravely moving forward and will embark on new things in your own time.

I finally had a chance to watch the video from Leroy's memorial - what a wonderful way to be remembered.

At the very beginning, Ted Koppel mentioned that the people in attendance had been listening to music from Leroy's iPod. Unfortunately, that wasn't include in the broadcast, and I am quite curious

I'm someone who is all about the right music at the right time It would be an interesting project for all of us to recommend music that has pulled us through tough times and put together a community playlist to share. Hopefully it would be inspiring, but at the very least it would give us all something new to explore.

Sent by Patte | 5:43 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie - after reading Nikki's post, I think she has something here. I find that Top Chef, and Project Runway, provide the escapism and just silliness that I need. These were shows Joe tolerated, but never really liked. Laurie - save them on TIVO, but maybe choose something else to watch right now. And Nikki, although I'm only 3 months into the ride, I get what you're saying. Please don't berate yourself for feeling what you're feeling. I feel not so bad now, but I know more waves are still to come. But for right in this minute, I'm ok. And I pray after your grief subsides, you will be ok too. Thinking of both of you, Marsha

Sent by marsha bacenko | 6:28 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Hi Laurie,

There are a lot of things I've wanted to do, but put off to wait until I felt like I could enjoy it. I need to tell you that there does come a day when you are 'more able' to do something that you weren't ready for previously. Trust your instincts, and be gentle with yourself.
crow

Sent by crow | 6:31 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Oh, Nikki! You made me cry. I think of my brother at what a stranger would think odd times and can't control my tears. Mostly they are tears for me, to lose a beloved sibling at age 40.

Sent by Dianne (DC) | 6:43 PM ET | 09-22-2008

I am missing Leroy today, being able to read his so well expressed thoughts, his humor, his wonderful twist on everything. Catching up on his progress, and catching a dose of his courage! His courage, his immense courage and emotional strength gave me more courage.

I think of how you must feel without him and want to send you hugs and love.

Nancy O,

Sent by Nancy Oliveri | 8:10 PM ET | 09-22-2008

When a loved one died we all missed the music that would pour out from his room - tenors, operas - and the silence often felt like it would never be broken. One by one we all returned to that music, some -- weeks later, some almost two years. And when we did -- it was in our own time, not a time that somehow seemed 'appropriate.' In your own personal time you'll watch the shows, you'll grouse to anyone within earshot of the 'eat-a-bug' reality shows, and most importantly, you'll know this is a pleasure that you and Leroy shared -- and that the pleasure goes on.

Sent by tom Portante | 8:24 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie,
I guess everybody has their own feelings--Boston Legal was also one of "our" shows, but I had to keep watching. Somehow I could still hear Leon say "Mom, your show is on". It is still not easy to watch, but just what I have to do.
Nikki, I also had a bad "crying" week last week after almost 18 months of missing Leon. His birthday was not a great big deal before, but now....it hits me hard, and I dread the holidays coming, and winter will be here soon. His favorite season, while I always hated the cold. I can also relate to the small community, most of which think that I am doing fine. They just don't get it, do they?
Sasha, with you in thought.
Tina, are you OK?
Jane

Sent by Jane | 11:42 PM ET | 09-22-2008

Laurie,

I was just thinking about Leroy's post sometime back, on how he'd just finished Harry Potter 7, and got wondering. Did you read Harry Potter too? For me they are comfort reading. I thought about Leroy's post when I read 7 -- I was motivated to pick it up sooner rather than later, by the fact that Leroy liked it. JK Rowling knows a thing or two about people, I think.

Sent by mary | 11:55 PM ET | 09-22-2008

For Sharon who wrote Friday of her Mom's death in Brooklyn. It is very sad that you must face the death with those circumstances. It is so difficult just to lose her, I know. Please know most of us sometimes wonder if we had done this or had gone there or whatever and query whether the outcome would have different. The fact is, she is gone, we cannot change that part. And you know in your heart she would not want you to be miserable about the what you cannot change. You are alive and she would want you to find happiness even if it is without her. Live FOR her! We, all of us as caregivers, survivors and sufferors and combinations of them all, are all here for you, too, Sharon.

Sent by Lucy Groh from Alaska | 2:11 AM ET | 09-23-2008

Laurie -

Sometimes, in situations like this, where I know what I'm about to do will remind greatly of good times with my mom, I ask myself, "What would mom want me to do now?" I always feel better because I know she would say,"Go ahead and watch! Just because we used to do that together doesn't mean you shouldn't do it now! They are great shows! Not to be missed!" Now, that's my mom for you. But, I suspect Leroy might want the same for you. In fact, I'm sure he would. 1-2-3-lift!

Sent by Linnea | 5:21 AM ET | 09-23-2008

During the last few years of my dad's life, one of the few things we had in common to talk about was politics, (both of us Hillary supporters), and our mutual love of Boston Legal, and Desperate Housewives. My dad was an avid tv watcher of financial shows, CNN and golf (he and my mom, in their late 80's, had come to adore Tiger and when my dad was near death, he fell into a delusion that Tiger was coming to visit him, and they'd play golf together. That's how much he loved Tiger Woods).

But I had a difficult time discussing golf and money with my dad, so I was pleased to have a common enjoyment of B.L. and D.H. to talk about. Watching Boston Legal last night I started to tear up, finding it a very melancholy experience. I'm sure all season I will regret that my dad isn't here to enjoy one of his favorite tv shows. Isn't it odd how this silly thing ... television ... can come to mean so much in our lives, especially when age or illness makes our usual social life impossible?

Sent by Diana | 10:38 AM ET | 09-23-2008

Laurie,

I am so glad you have been writing. I appreciated reading the e-mails from Leroy's doctors. When you wrote about having a burger it made me think of the things I have been doing to be close to my son, Andrew. I listened to three sets of CDs regarding Rumpole of the Bailey. He enjoyed "Rumpole." Recently I bought an inexpensive pearl ring because Andrew's gemstone is pearl because he was born in June. A funny thing - I had a Mother's ring made for my 60th birthday which each of the kids contributing 60 dollars. Since pearls are round they are not used in a mother's ring so tourmaline was substituted. It is pink. When Andrew saw it the last November Thanksgiving he came up to our home, he didn't appreciate it being pink. So now I can wear the pearl ring and think of him. One never gets over this loss - one just learns to live with it. Last Sunday my husband and I went to the first in a series of lectures regarding grief. I hope someday you will be able to do that. You are in my thoughts, Laurie

Sent by Maureen | 12:46 PM ET | 09-23-2008

Laurie,
I agree, not having someone to share with is one of the biggest problems. The evenings, especially, are so lonely.
And I agree with Nikki, the "general public" does quickly forget. I don't blame them, they have their own lives to live, but it is a let down from the constant caring you get during the illness and grieving processes to the "after the (public's) grieving" process. That is why I find this blog so helpful. People here share common experiences. So thank you, Laurie, once again for sharing you and your feelings with us. I don't know if you will ever know how helpful it is to all of us.

Sent by Betsy in Oregon | 7:13 PM ET | 09-23-2008

I think TIVO is an excellent idea.

Sent by Gyla Fowler | 3:29 PM ET | 09-30-2008