Teaching Inner-City Kids About Death
Tell Me More has an interview with Todd Walker, a football coach in Oakland, Calif., who has started a program, Restoring Inner-City Peace, or R.I.P., that brings urban kids to funeral homes to help them understand the reality of death. Walker shows the kids -- some as young as 6 -- a casket, a gurney and a cremation box, items that can help make the often fatal consequences of violence more real.
I applaud Walker's efforts, especially in an area where violence can be an everyday event. But I'm not sure if the sterile surroundings of a funeral home are enough to make a difference. In my experience, it's only the death of a close friend or a relative that pushes you to consider your own mortality. Otherwise, I fear the effect is only temporary.
I can still remember the first time I saw a dead person. The mother of my parish priest. I was about 7 years old, and our Cub Scout master had taken the entire troupe to the funeral home to pay our respects. I remember kneeling beside the open coffin, but it seemed more gross than scary.
5:03 PM ET | 07-31-2007 | permalink


