Meanies Take Over

Today, the buzziest item at the morning meeting here at Talk was the death of Kanye West's mom, Donda. Now, it's well known around these parts that Kanye and I are secretly married, so my interest in the story is a natural, but quite a few staffers find the uproar following her passing... shocking. I know that my first thoughts after I heard she died shortly after plastic surgery were less than charitable, but bloggers, and even New York magazine, were outright mean. According to Washington Post staff writer Teresa Wiltz,

blog dwellers stepped over an imaginary line of restraint. And stomped on it, again and again, monsters from the id coming out to play: "hahahah too bad," one taunted. "VANITY KILLS!!!" One "fan" posting on Bossip.com took the time to compose a poem in her honor: Supersized menu at Mickey Dee's/No wonder I cant see my knees . . ."

I suppose we shouldn't be shocked that people can be so rotten. Wiltz goes on to muse that thanks to TMZ and their celebrity-stalking ilk, the predicted utopian world of the Internet has turned into something much more sinister, where every mis-step is broadcast for all to ridicule. Honestly, it's not surprising. Trolls are old news, and the celebrity sites have been well entrenched for years. But what I still don't understand is why people feel so free to say ugly things when their identities are hidden. I admit, I'm not always nice, but I feel guilty for those bad thoughts that I don't voice or type... is that unusual? Do you feel ok about stepping over that "imaginary line of restraint," so long as no one knows it's you?

10:27 AM ET | 11-14-2007 | permalink

 

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I haven't been following the user comments on the celebrity sites, but I have seen the blog posts on TMZ, Perez Hilton and elsewhere. In both cases, the bloggers (ie, TMZ staff and Perez) seem to be focusing their attacks on the surgeon who operated on her rather than Dr. West herself.

Sent by andy carvin, npr | 1:11 PM ET | 11-14-2007

Oh, absolutely - TMZ has done some pretty deep digging into the surgeon's past, and if their findings are true, he deserves the scrutiny. My point is about Dr. West - what is it about a woman having cosmetic surgery (which may or may not have solely cosmetic, or also of medical benefit) that generates so many hateful words? What is it about that that makes people feel free to spew their angry words?

Sent by Sarah Handel | 2:14 PM ET | 11-14-2007

I've wondered that myself, Sarah. Why does plastic surgery raise the ire of so many people? Could it be because so much of what we see in the media about plastic surgery involves enhancements, sometimes just because... when in fact I bet there are far more people having plastic surgery because they have severe deformities of one stripe or another and surgery is their only option. Think of babies born with cleft palates; or even women who suffer terrible back and shoulder problems and need breast reduction. It's not always about "the makeover."

Sent by Carline Watson | 2:50 PM ET | 11-14-2007

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