Have I been conned? Yes, last winter when I was believed John Edwards and gave him $100 for his campaign. never again!

Sent by Charles Hagen | 2:15 PM ET | 08-28-2008

I was a con-woman for a short time in the 70's and what I remember most was that the experienced "players" taught me that the only people who can be conned are those that have "larceny in their hearts." That was true, only those who wanted to get something for nothing, without regard to strist legality ever fell for our scams. Please do not use my name.

Sent by Claire | 2:15 PM ET | 08-28-2008

A few years ago, my husband was conned by a woman who brought her son around door-to-door with her and pretended she was raising money for the Boy Scouts, for camping trips.

It was just a few dollars, but we felt betrayed. We especially felt terrible for her son, who was made to stand there and play his part in the scheme for which she was ultimately arrested.

Sent by Hillary | 2:18 PM ET | 08-28-2008

Last year a con man tried to get my Nevada accounting firm involved in a mining scam. We reported him and ultimately helped law enforcement set up a sting operation. He was arrested but has not been to trial yet. When he was caught he had already defrauded another merchant of over one million dollars in inventory and services. He also got over $500,000 in cash from investors which was returned. I have lots of comments and insights but have trouble getting through on the phone. You can reach me 775-831-6002

Sent by Trena Bristol | 2:21 PM ET | 08-28-2008

I was conned about 5 years ago by a con man named Ross Rojak who sold me on a $40,000 investment in a technology company specializing in face recognition called Face IT aka Sentry Biometrics. They even went so far as to hire actors to stage a demo showing pseudo-facial recognition. I lost a lot. Fortunately he got busted and went to Federal jail for 3 years, but I lost all my money.

Sent by Daniel in California | 2:23 PM ET | 08-28-2008

My friends and I were conned 20 years ago in Daytona Beach. A man claimed he was from Germany. He stayed with us almost the entire week we were there. He had an accent, and we even talked to a "friend" on the phone. He lets use his car. He came to visit us in our home state showing up with a brand new car. He bought us concert tickets, I took him shopping and later he was visiting one of our friends in another town when she caught on to multiple new cars. She turned him and when he was in jail, he confessed to our friend he was from Texas and had been stealing cars etc...We never knew what happen to him as he conned himself out of jail. He never stole from any of us, must be just source to lay low until his next move?

Sent by Christina | 2:24 PM ET | 08-28-2008

http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2008/08/11/080811fa_fact_grann

This story from the New Yorker (8/11&18/08)is brilliant in exposing the psychology of at least one man who sought to be someone else.

Sent by Cynthia | 2:25 PM ET | 08-28-2008

My brother married a woman who lied to him and our family from day one. She said she couldn't get pregnant, then did and he married her. She said she was working on her PhD in child psychology at a nearby university and had a full ride, but when she got pregnant, said her profs were letting her take a break in her studies to raise the baby. Years later when he found out she wasn't paying bills, including the mortgage, he discovered she was a pathological liar. She hadn't even earned a BA and never was enrolled at the university. We realize now that she has never told the truth about anything relating to her situation, and after having 3 kids, they are now on the verge of divorce. Our family has never had any reason not to trust what others have told us, but we sure are more alert now. We assume her self esteem was so low that she felt she had to lie to be accepted by our family. Sadly, we would have accepted her unconditionally, knowing my brother loved her, but now we have feelings of animosity at being duped by her.

Sent by Kasey | 2:30 PM ET | 08-28-2008

I wasn't, but my cousin conned his whole family. He had a wife, girlfriend, second wife and even conned the bank with fraudulant CD's. He was charged with bigamy and married his attorney which gave him a third wife. He cheated his family out of all of their inheritance and one out of her retirement. They couldn't believe that the man they grew up with could do all this. He said he had a secret job at NASA and he also worked for the CIA. He had 7 children with his real wife and they and the wife are all the salt of the earth as are his brother and two sisters.

Sent by Ann Tatum | 2:32 PM ET | 08-28-2008

I've been conned most of my adult life: I've worked for other people who've made much more money from my work than I have, and I've also accepted the sanctity of their rights to this property because they've conned enough other people to protect these "rights" with physical force.

When I was young, I was conned into believing I had an Invisible Friend in the sky who made things turn out right in the end.

Sent by Robert Ingersoll | 2:37 PM ET | 08-28-2008

Funny how often President Bush and various other officials have spoken about restoring the Nation's confidence in financial markets. "Con" comes from "confidence." Ever since the Regan administration redefined the formula for the CPI, so as to undermine union contracts with escalator clauses, we have been kidded about how low inflation is and how strong the dollar is. Keep trying, Guys.

Sent by Paul Farrar | 2:39 PM ET | 08-28-2008

My mother was conned by a boyfriend of hers. She met him online and she started a relationship with the man. He was even living at our appartment for a couple of months. He was telling her that he was in the midst of selling a cow farm and had money on the way so she continued to write checks and was buying various things. The morning of her wedding, I felt that something was wrong and looked him up online. To my suprise, there was no such man. On the same page that I was looking at to look up this mans background, I saw his picture on the states top 5 most wanted! It turns out that he was wanted in 5 different states and was currently married to over 8 women. My mother ended up bankrupt and lonely. The man ended up getting pulled over and arrested in Washington and is serving 5 consecutive life sentances for his crimes.

Sent by Katie | 2:40 PM ET | 08-28-2008

Good way to avoid your spouse's scamming "friends"...

My wife had a high school friend whose family participated in numerous scams. She had not contacted my wife for a number of years and finally called her after we got married and moved. She asked if she could visit (which would open up a whole can of worms).

My wife replied enthusiastically...telling her that, since her new husband had started his job at the FBI he would be gone a lot and she would welcome company.

The friend never called back again....

Sent by Christopher Scott Edler | 2:41 PM ET | 08-28-2008

Right after I was married in New York City, my husband sublet his apartment to an aspiring actor who was involved with an old friend of my husband's.
The actor managed to get access to her bank card, empty her bank account, resublet the apartment and take that money and then he disappeared. My husband owned up to the landlord, who took back the apartment and reset the locks after we had cleaned out the effects of the actor, which included his actor's equity card.
Shortly thereafter, we received a call from his real girlfriend, stating that he was deathly ill and needed his actor's equity card. My husband called the police but got nowhere. Some time after, another "girlfriend" who had been also swindled spotted him on a NYC street and managed to have him arrested, but he was released the following day on the strength of his acting abilities with the D.A. even though a slew of swindled "girlfriends" spoke against him.
He remains in the acting field.

Sent by Patsy Drab | 2:42 PM ET | 08-28-2008

My father, now deceased, was in the middle of a huge con on Dr. Pat Robertson. He got Robertson to lend him around $600,000

with a piece of "art" as collateral. My father convinced the good Dr. that he himself was an art dealer/appraiser and had appraised the piece of art thoroughly. While this was happening my father and I had been estranged for many years. I had to get involved with this after my father's death, since there were all kinds of lawsuits against his estate and a (faux) business that he had also convinced Robertson to invest in. Long story short, after 8 years, I have finally put everything to rest. But the highlight moment was when Pat called me directly about a year after my father's death. The quote that I will never forget was:

"Lisa, we took the painting to Sotheby's to get it appraised, and apparently my 16th century Velasquez is painted on 20th century canvas. What are you going to do about this?" My immediate reply was "try not to laugh". We weren't very friendly, ever.

I'm kind of proud of Dad... he outconned one of the biggest con men ever. I do get free drinks on this storyJ

Sent by Lisa Knuth | 2:45 PM ET | 08-28-2008

Some years ago, a friend of mine befriended a taxi driver in San Francisco. The cabbie claimed he owned the company and liked to spend time on the front-line so as not to lose touch. They exchanged information, and a few months later the "cab company owner" called my friend to say he was coming through our town and could he spend a couple of nights with her. My friend said sure. We were excited to meet this charming fellow, who showed up wearing a full-length men's fur coat, was driving a high-end Saab, and was flashing a roll of cash. He told us incredible stories, like his mother being the chairman of the board of directors of Mack Trucks, etc. We had no reason to doubt him. After mooching off my friend for several weeks, awaiting his flight to France where he was going to sailing on the Mediterranean with friends, my friend went through the con's belongings, even finding a book on the art of the con game. My friend had gone to extraordinary lengths to get this con artist set up with a bank loan that she cosigned, a cardiac angiogram with a cardiologist friend, etc. He ran up hundreds of dollars on overseas calls. After doing some research of our own, we found out the Saab was stolen from his boss at the cab company, the coat had been stolen from a NYC hotel (we found a receipt with the owner's name in the pocket and mailed it back to him), and the cash was from a scam insurance claim. We dropped the Saab off at the local police station, then gave this fellow $100 and put him on a train for NYC. We eventually heard that he was busted.

Sent by Linda McLean | 2:54 PM ET | 08-28-2008

Please remind your listeners to pay particular attention to their elderly loved ones. Not only do they need physical care but they may also need help with making sound financial decisions in order to protect what is often a very limited and fixed retirement income. The elderly are often gullible and trusting which makes them easy targets for financial exploitation. While we may think of this crime being committed only by outsiders, I witnessed this occur to my father after he married a younger woman whom he entrusted with all of his financial affairs. To his financial detriment, she convinced him to borrow against his house which had been mortgage free. Through her skillful and cunning misinformation concerning their financial needs, she manipulated my father, then in his late 80's, and convinced him to sign for loans that were not only unnecessary but the monthly note obligations exceeded their joint income. After she misappropriated the proceeds of the loans, the house had to be sold to satisfy the debt to the bank. Meanwhile, my father was placed in a nursing home to die. His "loving and caring" wife refused to account for the proceeds of the loans, but did acknowledge that perhaps she didn't do a good job of managing their money, HA! Interestingly, during the time they were unable to pay their notes, I along with other friends made the monthly payments to keep my father afloat. While at the same time, her son, was enjoying travel to the Bahamas and other vacations destinations!

Take good care of your parents as they age, they need you. Remember, they took care of you when you couldn't take care of yourself!

Sent by no name given | 3:19 PM ET | 08-28-2008

I was drained of hundreds of thousands of dollars by a romantic scam artist. He makes a "living" tapping the credit of unsuspecting women who fall in love with him and give him money to back his big "business plans" which turn out to be no more than spending sprees. Rather than hide in my embarrassment, I wrote a book, I Take Thee...How to Spot a Romantic Financial Predator and What to Do if You Are Already Involved (Itakethee.info) in the hope that I can inform and warn to help prevent others from falling victim to this particularly heartbreaking type of con.

Sent by Robin Hoffman | 10:25 PM ET | 08-28-2008

When I was a teenager, I wanted to be a model desperately. I went to "modeling" school and somehow found a man who could take pictures of me for my "portfolio". My mother came with me while I took what seemed like hundreds of photos. We paid him and he said to come back the next week for the proofs. When I arrived, the entire studio was stripped clean and there was no business in sight! He took the money and ran! It was a very early lesson (I was 13) in street smarts.

Later in my mid-20s, I was desperate for a boyfriend. Met a man online and he lied that he was a "Navy Seal". Later I found out that he had at least 3 different girlfriends in the SF area and that he was a very busy boy.

Just goes to show that you really are most vulnerable when desperate for anything!

Sent by Michelle | 4:46 AM ET | 08-29-2008

A con artist is more than a con artist. The people who do this have a psychological disorder called psychopathy. They are not motivated primarily by greed, they are motivated by the desire for power and the joy of the get over. Some good sites for victims are www.lovefraud.com and www.faudaid.com

Sent by Liane Leedom | 2:14 PM ET | 08-29-2008

I was able to avoid a "romantic scam" by keeping my wits about me. I'd been corresponding on-line via a reputable on-line matching service with a "gentleman." He claimed to be travelling to another continent several time zones away, yet his correspondence continued as though he were on CST & he couldn't name the country he was in. Amused, I continued corresponding. It wasn't long before he was "robbed" and asking for money. Needless to say, I didn't write back & alerted the matching service to a problem.

Sent by Kris | 3:29 PM ET | 08-29-2008

You long for the days of Prof. Harold Hill? Well, cheer up. He's leading the Democratic ticket with seventy-six trombones in the big parade.

Sent by jmm | 6:52 PM ET | 08-29-2008