Colorism: To Be or Not to Be
Lee, here...
A new week, a new day. We think we're off to a good start. But you tell us...what did you think of today's program?
Depending on how you look at it, I think it's fair to say we actually had two Behind Closed Doors conversations -- a look into the decline in African-Americans joining the military (and the increase in Hispanic enlistment) and the more obviously branded conversation with writer Frances Robles about the sub-culture of "color-coding" in the Dominican Republic.
The latter conversation reminded me of a guy my sister once dated. We'll just say his name is Mark (of course, I won't use his real name here). Mark was from the Dominican Republic with darker brown skin and distinct features, from which one could easily surmise that he was, if only partially, of African descent. His features were so distinct in this way that upon coming to the United States, he was almost immediately perceived and embraced as a black man living in America -- by those both in and outside of the culture, whether he wanted to be or not. Mark did not. He was adamantly against embracing his African roots (although I believe he did acknowledge them).
He and my sister are no longer an item.
I've never been swift to compartmentalize. I can sometimes be that guy in the conversation who's the first to declare "it's all relative." But this one left me scratching my head.
So maybe you can help us here...
We heard from Roble on her observations. By reading to this point, you've been subjected to a chapter of my sister's romantic life (she has plenty of stories to tell). But what about you?
Have you ever known anyone to have this complex?...or identity puzzler?
It would, arguably, be more puzzling to you than it would be to them.
How would you describe their reasoning?
Is this modern-day "passing?"
Or, if you are a person in or from the Caribbean, Latin America, or the U.S. who chooses not to recognize (or emphasize) your own African heritage, talk to us.
What's your thinking behind this?
Why is this principle of significance to you?
(You can always blog namelessly, or with a pseudonym -- like "Mark" -- if you're not comfortable revealing too much about yourself under your real name.)
9:19 PM ET | 07-16-2007 | permalink
9:19 PM ET | 07-16-2007 | permalink


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