Listener Shares Frustration With Online Dating
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LEE HILL: Hey, Michel. So on Tuesday, we reported on a recent study that found that although love might be blind, online dating is not. The folks behind the dating site OKCupid told us that black women are largely unacknowledged in virtual communities, and the quest for online romance tends to favor white men and white women.
That's disappointing news for many, Michel, but after that conversation, I caught up with Lazlo, who posted to our online forum. Now, Lazlo is a black man. He says he's in his early 40s. Listen up. Here's what he had to say.
Mr. LAZLO: I have tried online dating, on and off, for some time now. In all honesty, I have to say that overall, black women are the least likely to write me back. Now, for instance, I've been on BlackPlanet.com a few times, and I figured I'd have better results there. The majority of women who replied back to me, and even initiate correspondence, have always been white. No, I have not given up on black women, but I have to say the experience has been vexing.
MARTIN: I can understand that. Well, Lazlo, hang in there. Any updates, Lee?
HILL: Yes, Michel. On Tuesday, we talked about the outrage brewing over hefty bonuses being doled out on Wall Street, all this after the economy has still not fully recovered from last year's financial meltdown. Well, later in the week, the Treasury Department ordered seven companies that received billions of dollars in government bailouts to slash compensation for their top-earning executive. Treasury official Kenneth Feinberg says the average salaries of the top 25 executive will be cut by 90 percent beginning next month.
Also last week, we talked about the growing popularity of marijuana, medical marijuana, that is, in California. As you can imagine, this is stirring its own bit of controversy, but the medical marijuana community just received a boost, sort of, from the government.
The Justice Department told federal prosecutors on Monday to stand down on pursuing medical marijuana users who are within the law.
Well, that's some interesting news, Michel.
MARTIN: Yes, it is. Thank you, Lee.
HILL: Thank you.
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