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Reality television shows are often blamed for rewarding bad behavior, and encouraging viewers to laugh at other people's problems. But writer and former NPR intern Tamika Smith says a reality show inspired her to reconnect with her alcoholic grandfather.

MICHEL MARTIN, host:

Our former intern, Tamika Smith, has also seen he ravages of alcoholism up close. But it took a television reality show to help her reconcile her feelings and her relationship with the family member who had been consumed by his addiction.

Ms. TAMIKA SMITH (Former NPR Intern): Sometimes I get so caught up with life, I can't see the people around me - what they're going through and how they feel. It was like that for me and my grandpa.

But a reality TV show helped me think about him differently, and the role he plays in my life. That show is "Intervention" on the A&E cable channel. It documents the lives of Americans battling with addictions: shopping, heroin or the one my grandpa struggled with - alcohol.

The episodes all tell the story of how the people became addicted. And they end with a loved one stepping in to help. But there was one story in particular I couldn't forget. It featured an elderly man who was an alcoholic. I immediately thought about my grandpa. For years, I had seen him only as a man who drank so much it made him sick. Every time I called home to my family in Miami, he wouldn't be there. He was always in the hospital. It was always related to alcohol. That's how I saw him. To me, he was his addiction, not a person. And I cast him away.

But watching that episode of "Intervention" changed me. I gained compassion watching a stranger taking interest in the neighborhood drunk. He dressed in rags, slept in a park, and always kept his liquor in an old water bottle. But the stranger saw something else. He saw a good spirit.

Before the show had finished, I had called my grandpa. We had our first real conversation in years. He surprised me by revealing he loved country music. And my grandpa is from Haiti. I learned my great-grandmother lived to be 106 years old. He shared moments about his life living Haiti and where he went to school - history was his favorite subject - and about his life here.

He had stopped drinking. I asked grandpa questions that I would never have asked him before, like if he was a lady's man - you know they all say they were - and if he felt alone. We talked like this for more than an hour - just me and him, in the moment.

I'm going to make him a CD with his favorite music - kompa - and a little bit of Alan Jackson. And we're going to talk again. The reality show, it turned out, was my "Intervention."

MARTIN: Tamika Smith is a recent Howard University graduate and our former summer intern.

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Now, you just heard CNN commentator Jack Cafferty share his personal story about his battle with addiction, and our intern's personal story about how a television reality show helped her see addiction differently.

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