Pope Seeks to Bolster America's Catholics

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Bishop of Tucson Gerald F. Kicanas kisses the hand of Pope Benedict XVI.

Bishop of Tucson Gerald F. Kicanas kisses the hand of Pope Benedict XVI upon the pope's arrival at Andrews Air Force Base. Jim Watson/AFP/Getty Images hide caption

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Etiquette Lesson

Pope Benedict XVI is visiting the United States for the first time as the leader of the Roman Catholic Church.

R. Scott Appleby, a professor of religious history at the University of Notre Dame, tells Renee Montagne about how American Catholics and the church have responded to the theology and leadership of Pope Benedict since his election three years ago.

Appleby says many Catholics are "cafeteria Catholics," that is, they pick and choose, creating their own religious profile.

"The church wants Catholics to resist that tendency, which is widespread in American culture, because we're a culture of choice, we are independent, individualistic, and there are many sources of so-called wisdom in the culture," he says.

There's a tension in the relationship between the Catholics in American culture and the freedoms of that culture, he says. "But the church says, 'Look, we have a coherent truth, we have a way of life and in fact a lens through which to view all these choices,' and that needs to be instilled and held tight by Catholics."

Appleby says Pope Benedict has been a pleasant surprise for most people. Coming into his papacy, he was considered quite strict. He has turned out to be strict on adherence to Catholic teaching, but "his message, in essence, has been more constructive and positive and life-giving, in a way, than one might have expected," Appleby says.

In his U.S. visit, Pope Benedict won't focus too much on issues that have driven a wedge between American Catholics and the Vatican, such as birth control and women as priests, Appleby says.

Pope Benedict understands that the church in the United States needs "encouragement, gratitude, uplift" after coming through the sexual abuse crisis and struggling with a shortage of women religious figures and the challenge of retaining the loyalty of younger Catholics. So, he won't focus too much on differences, Appleby says. "I believe the message to Catholics will be positive."

Papal Etiquette: What to Do If You Meet the Pontiff

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The Pope's Route in D.C.: The public is invited to line up along these two mapped routes Wednesday to see Pope Benedict XVI ride in his popemobile through the streets of Washington, D.C. hide caption

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The Pope's Route in D.C.

The Pope's Route in D.C.: The public is invited to line up along these two mapped routes Wednesday to see Pope Benedict XVI ride in his popemobile through the streets of Washington, D.C.

If you get a chance to meet Pope Benedict XVI during his visit to the U.S., how should you act? NPR asked Monsignor K. Bartholomew Smith.

Smith knew Pope Benedict XVI back when he was Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger and has met the pontiff a few times since Benedict ascended to the papacy three years ago.

The pastor of St. Bernadette Catholic Church in Silver Spring, Md., formerly served at the Vatican as secretary to Cardinal William Baum. Here's his advice on proper papal protocol:

How should I dress?

If you are invited to an audience with the pope or will be attending an event where he'll be present, this is a time to put on your best, says Smith. For men, that means a jacket and tie and polished shoes. For women, a nice dress or suit works best — preferably one that covers the arms and has a hemline below the knees.

But Smith says if you're going to one of the stadium Masses or gathering along the popemobile route, leave your high heels at home and feel free to wear your favorite baseball cap. Casual dress is just fine.

What do I do when the pope enters?

Stand and applaud, the monsignor says. He says applause for the pope often varies according to the type and place of the event. In a small room, people often clap quietly, as if they were at a golf tournament. But in a big venue, such as a stadium, the crowd frequently greets the pope with loud cheers and a thunderous ovation. You're welcome to join in.

What if the pope approaches me?

Don't just stand there — genuflect. That means bend at the knee, for you non-Catholics.

Do I kiss the ring?

Yes, if you are Catholic and the pope offers his hand. If you're not Catholic, you can opt to shake his hand. That's what President Bush did on Tuesday when he met the pope at Andrews Air Force Base outside of Washington, D.C. The ring is a mark of the papacy and, according to Smith, kissing it is a sign of respect and affection.

What do I call the pope?

Address him as "Your Holiness" or "Holy Father."

What should I say to him?

Introduce yourself and tell him something about you. Decide in advance what you're going to say, but let him lead the conversation. Keep your answers short and direct. And speak clearly. Smith says sometimes people are so nervous, they whisper. Make sure the pope can hear you.

What happens at the end of the event?

When the pope gets up to leave, you should also stand up. Wait for him to leave the room before turning your attention to anything else.

Smith says Pope Benedict is a warm and humble man, who tries to make people comfortable in his presence. "You've got to be very careful if you introduce yourself to him," says Smith, "because he's very likely to remember."



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