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If you love to cook, you and I may share a bad habit, which is a bottomless appetite for cookbooks - the dog-eared ones from your grandmother and the pristine, gorgeous ones from the fancy super chefs and a whole bunch of them with one spectacular recipe that you swear you will try some day. Maybe your collection is taking over your kitchen. Maybe it's even spilled over onto your coffee table or even maybe your bedside table. But none of that will stop you from buying another cookbook.
New Yorker staff writer Adam Gopnik can't stop either, and in his latest article he explores what we're looking for when we open up a new one. How about you? Why do you love cookbooks? And what's your favorite? Call us here in Washington - 800-989-8255. Our Email address is email@example.com. You could also join the conversation at our Web site. Go to npr.org and click on TALK OF THE NATION.
Joining me from our bureau in New York is the New Yorker's Adam Gopnik. He is a three-time winner of the National Magazine Award for essays and criticism and his most recent article is - �What's the recipe? Our hunger for cookbooks.� Welcome to TALK OF THE NATION.
Mr. ADAM GOPNIK (Staff Writer, New Yorker): Wonderful to be here, Rebecca.
ROBERTS: So, you confess that you do actually read cookbooks in bed. But you say that it's a deferred frustration. Why is that?
Mr. GOPNIK: Well, because the space between what the cookbook promises, what the recipe promises, and what home cooks like us can achieve is always so enormous that you end up with a kind aching sense of the dissolution of the actual. You never make quite the thing that you see.
And, in fact, I think, you get to the point where you have a sort of shortcut - that is, you read the recipe for halibut with vanilla saffron sauce and narcissus bulbs. You imagine yourself failing at having made it and then its finished. Then you have done the work. Cooking is - you know, what you can get out of a recipe is a lot. But so much of doing anything involves a kind of knack, a skill.
My mom was a fabulous cook - is a fabulous cook. And she really taught me how to cook. And if you have a mom around of that kind - I should have my mom - a scientist too. She wasn't just home cooking. But if you have someone around with that kind of skill, that kind of expertise, everything that they sort of do naturally� It's like, you know, the thing that I always point out to people is that good cooks know that when the pan gets too hot, you lift it off the fire, you don't turn down the heat.
Well, that's the kind of knack, that's the kind of skill that you can never really get in the book.
ROBERTS: On the other hand, if the recipe were not for halibut with narcissus bulbs, but something incredibly pedestrian, why would you get the cookbook?
Mr. GOPNIK: Well, that's right. You wouldn't need it. Well, because we all have to begin somewhere. I mean, one of the things that's going on right now, Rebecca, that I write about in that piece in the New Yorker is that we're living in the great age of disaggregation. Everything is getting torn apart - CDs, books, newspapers. You have new stories without newspapers, now, and you have recipes about cookbooks. If you're looking for a recipe for goulash soup, you go online and you get 40 different recipes for goulash soup. So, one of the questions is - what's the cookbook about now that it wasn't about 10 years ago, 20 years ago before that vast disaggregation took place?
ROBERTS: Well, one of the things I would argue is about surprise. I mean, if you're searching online, you're only going to find what you're looking for? If you're looking through a cookbook, you are going to find something you weren't necessarily looking for.
Mr. GOPNIK: That's a very good point. That's true, isn't it? Yes, you know, I was looking through - to do this piece, I've read about 200 new cookbooks and I came upon a wonderful recipe. It was a lot of fun. Well, nothing that work is complete fun. I mean, how is it if you didn't have to do a piece about it, you'd say, wow, that would be exactly what I would like to do. But the moment you've to write a piece about burlesque shows or something, you say, oh, God, I have to go another burlesque show.
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Mr. GOPNIK: And reading cookbooks, you feel the same way. I found this wonderful recipe for a Greek food - shrimp with feta cheese and that's not something I would normally make at all, and I was inspired to try it - for my kids, of course. The problem is when you have kids that you are cooking for, they basically always want breaded chicken. It's like - you know, it calls like, you know, the cocktail pianist who always gets asked to play �Feelings.� You know, the kids really want breaded chicken with parmesan, so you make them the shrimp with a feta cheese and you work at it. And your wife makes a few encouraging sounds and the kids push it, in a kind of disconsolate way, around the plate.
ROBERTS: Well, the other analogy you use in the piece is that sort of the big iconic cook book of each generation has gone from being a dictionary to an encyclopedia to an anthology to a grammar text.
Mr. GOPNIK: Yes. I think - I really think that - so think about it. When the first great cookbooks at the beginning of the 20th century, things like Escoffier's collection of recipes and they were really dictionaries meant for professional chefs. You couldn't remember how you made tournedos rossini. You looked it up, there were four lines, didn't really tell you how to cook it, but it reminded you what the dish consisted of - dictionary. And then you had books - wonderful books like Julia Child's �Mastering the Art of French Cooking,� which were really encyclopedias of a particular cuisine.
You had those great figures, Julia Child, Marcella Hazan, doing the same thing for Italian cooking, and you felt, if I master this book, I will have mastered the whole thing. It's the premise of that, lovely movie, �Julia & Julie.� And then you had a moment in the 1970s when that seemed sort of too limited, when that passion for just mastery being the French chef or the Italian chef seem limited. And then you had wonderful books like �The New Basics Cookbook,� do you remember that one, the �Silver Palate Cookbook.�
ROBERTS: Yeah, (unintelligible).
Mr. GOPNIK: Right, exactly, where one night you did penne puttanesca, and the next night you did goulash soup, and the next night you did something French, and you could do an Apricot souffle. Every imaginable kind (unintelligible) came together in this anthology-like way. And now we've got, in the hands of someone excellent like Mark Bittman, or the �Cook's Illustrated� people - I don't know if you look at their best recipe books - what it really - grammars, in the old-fashioned sense, that is they try to isolate all the independent elements you need to master: how to saute, how to boil water. Mark Bittman has wonderful patient instructions: you fill the pan, three quarters of the way�
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Mr. GOPNIK: �turn the heat to high�
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Mr. GOPNIK: �that's you boil the water. And you - if you learn the premises, you'll learn all of those individual elements just the way when you're studying French, you learn the genders and the verbs, and you'll be able to out together complicated sentences. It's a grammatical turn in the history of the cookbook. And you why I think, partly, that is? It's partly because more and more men are having to cook. You have to cook because you get out of college, get married, you're involved with someone, and you discover that women have better things to do than cook, and if you are really hungry, you're going to have to learn to cook for yourself. And I was lucky, but many men don't have the kind of home background in what it is to boil water or saut� a chicken breast or poach an egg.
ROBERTS: Well, you also have - and this may be revealing too much to my house - but if you have the other one person cooks, and the other one cleans up, then you learn to cook pretty quickly.
Mr. GOPNIK: But don't you find - I take it, you're at the cooking end of that.
ROBERTS: Well, not anymore. I thought I had the good deal set until my husband decided to learn to cook.
Mr. GOPNIK: Ah, that's good. Because see, in my experience, the person who draws the cooking end - which actually is the best straw - it's the golden straw, because you get all the praise and you get all the attention and you can yell at people and say, I need it, now. I mean, now.
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Mr. GOPNIK: And then�
ROBERTS: Call me chef.
Mr. GOPNIK: Right, exactly. But the problem is the cleaning up, though, it's supposed to be assigned elsewhere, it never really is�
Mr. GOPNIK: �because come about 11 o'clock, it's got to be done and the chef lowers himself and becomes the - what the French call the plongeur, the washer.
ROBERTS: We are talking about cookbooks and why we read them with Adam Gopnik. His article in the New Yorker is called, �What's the Recipe: Our hunger for cookbooks.� You can join us at 800-989-8255 or send us Email at firstname.lastname@example.org. Tell me what your favorite cookbook is and why. We're also joined here in Studio 3A by Monica Bhide. She writes the weekly online column, �iSPICE� for the Washington Post. She is also the weekly food columnist for aarp.org and she's got a new cookbook called, �Modern Spice: Inspired Indian Flavors for the Contemporary Kitchen.� Thank you so much for joining us.
Ms. MONICA BHIDE (Weekly Food Columnist, aarp.org; Author, �Modern Spice: Inspired Indian Flavors for the Contemporary Kitchen�) Well, thank you for having me, although I have to say speaking after Adam is like asking some - a tone-deaf person like to me to sing after Jennifer Hudson.
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ROBERTS: Well, except you have actually written a cookbook.
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ROBERTS: And when you're writing a cookbook - your cookbook, in particular, has recipes and a lot of (unintelligible). You are a writer as well as a cook. Are you - how are you expecting people to use your book?
Ms. BHIDE: That's a really good question. I mean, you guys were talking about why people use cookbooks when they can just go online and find, you know, 40 different recipes. So I'll give you an example.
There's a recipe in my book for rice pudding. It's a recipe that's written simply. I wouldn't say it's a simple recipe because if you don't know how to boil milk, you're in trouble, but the reason people come to that recipe is because it has a beautiful story around it.
You know, I used to love rice pudding as a child, and I met my best friend in Cleveland, and we used to eat rice pudding together all the time. And then she got really, really sick, and I stopping eating. I said a prayer in my heart that until she got better, I would never eat that rice pudding again. I made it for people, but I never ate it.
And then the recipe found a place in the book is because she beat her illness and came back. So, you know, the person I met at a book signing a few days ago told me that she had tried several rice puddings, but she read my story and tried my rice pudding and that it was just a little bit sweeter.
ROBERTS: Now, if someone read the story and decided not to try the rice pudding or even just read your book and looked at the beautiful pictures and decided not to try the recipes, would that hurt your feelings?
Ms. BHIDE: Absolutely not. You know, some of my favorite, favorite books are books I've never cooked from. I mean, I love reading Ruth Reichl's books and her memoirs. They take me to a different place.
You know, I'm the person that Adam describes in his article who's in bed at 11:00 at night reading a cookbook. And there will be books like the beautiful book called "In Memory's Kitchen," about the women in a concentration camp who were documenting their recipes so that they wouldn't lose part of themselves and part of their culture. I read that book. I don't think I'll ever cook from that. It makes me cry every time I read it, but it teaches me the importance of documenting who we are.
ROBERTS: Let's take a call from Laura(ph) in Washougal, Washington. Laura, welcome to TALK OF THE NATION.
LAURA (Caller): Hello.
LAURA: My favorite cookbook is from a Time-Life series. It's - they have an international series of cookbooks from, like, the '50s or '60s, and when I was a little kid, I wasn't interested in cooking, but I was very interested in anthropology. And it didn't have very many recipes, but it had a lot of pictures of people at the market and farms, and it talked about the way people live and how they eat, as opposed to the recipes. And that's what got me interested in cookbooks. And so now, I have all the cookbooks in that international Time-Life series, and I don't cook from them, but I just like to read them.
And I like to read about people going on mushroom hunts in Japan and, you know, when's the best time in France to pick strawberries. But I do like to look at the pictures, and I have a hundred cookbooks, and I always look at the pictures, and I read the ingredients, and then I close the book, and then I do it my own way.
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ROBERTS: Laura, thank you for your call. She must have a lot of bookshelf space. I found recently that I took the book, some of the books that I never cooked from but that were beautiful, the ones - especially the Fancy Chef Restaurant ones that say things like, start with making your own duck stock, which I think of as fiction, and moved them into the big, fancy living room with the coffee table books. It's a better place for them.
We are talking about cooks and cookbooks and why we read them with Adam Gopnik and Monica Bhide. You can join us at 800-989-8255 or send us email, email@example.com. I'm Rebecca Roberts. It's TALK OF THE NATION from NPR News.
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ROBERTS: This is TALK OF THE NATION. I'm Rebecca Roberts in Washington. We are talking cookbooks. Few of us will actually make the perfect Boston cream pie, but we gorge on the cookbooks anyway. As Adam Gopnik writes in his New Yorker story, we reanimate our passions by imagining the possibilities, and the act of wanting ends up mattering more than the act of getting.
His article is called "What's the Recipe: Our Hunger for Cookbooks." Also with us is Monica Bhide. Her latest cookbook is "Modern Spice: Inspired Indian Flavors for the Contemporary Kitchen." She also writes a weekly online column, iSPICE, for the Washington Post.
Why do you love cookbooks? Tell us your favorite. The number is 800-989-8255, or email firstname.lastname@example.org. And if you love your cookbooks but aren't sure which ones are worth shelling out the dough for, NPR compiled its own list of the year's 10 best cookbooks, from baking to cooking for one. You can find that at npr.org. Click on TALK OF THE NATION.
You, Adam Gopnik, you write that recipes are blueprints, but they're also red herrings. In addition to the really nice turn of phrase there with red and blue, what do you mean by that?
Mr. GOPNIK: Well that on the one hand, you can get a recipe and it is a blueprint for whatever it is you're going to make. It's interesting, you know, listening to Monica talk because one of the things, a good example of this for me is curries. I love curries but I never had any kind of background in the whole mechanics of doing them, and so I'm always struggling with them. So I learned how to make a green curry when we were living abroad in France, and a kind of Thai green curry. And it seemed way too thin to me. So I tried to thicken it up with yogurt and extra coconut milk. And then, when we got back to eat at Thai restaurants in New York City, discovered that that's the way it's supposed to be. It's a very soupy kind of dish.
So on the one hand, it's a blueprint, it tells you how to do it. On the other hand, it can lead you in the wrong direction. And what's interesting, Rebecca, and not, I think, too far-fetched is that that becomes a very powerful metaphor for so many things we do in life.
What in our political life is a recipe? What in it is a cookbook? What is it just you follow the rules of the Constitution and you've got a liberal society? And what has to - can only come out of accumulated knowledge - craft, tradition, culture, the things that are handed down mysteriously from generation to generation? The question of what's the recipe is a question that isn't just restricted to cooking alone, as we try and built liberal societies around the world.
Ms. BHIDE: Really interesting. I would love to tell a story here because I actually teach people how to develop recipes. I develop them for organizations and magazines, but I also teach people. And the example that I like to give them is of my friend, who was nine months pregnant, who called me on the phone and was laughing so hysterically she was crying.
And I said, what happened? And she said, my husband decided to cook and he's following a recipe in the kitchen, you've got to come see what he's doing. And I said, what is he doing? And she said, he's down there in the kitchen and he sliced all these potatoes really thin. He's got them all on the counter and he's standing there frantically waving at them. And she asked him, what are you doing? And he said, well, the recipe said to fan the potatoes.
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Ms. BHIDE: You know, I always tell my students when they're writing directions, go for simplicity in direction. You know, I've been so�
ROBERTS: Because Amelia Badelia(ph) could be following your recipes?
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Ms. BHIDE: You know, people - you know, Adam said something about, how do you boil water? Would you believe the number of emails that I get from people that say, what is simmer? You know, so when I say it's bubbling up at the top, I'm not trying to be stupid. I'm responding to reader questions on, you know, I never cooked in the kitchen, I've never - you know, I've seen my mother, but that doesn't mean anything. I didn't follow anything. Tell me, what does it mean to simmer? Explain to me, you know, when you say the curry, the oil should separate from the onions, what does that mean? What does it look like? What are my visual clues? So it's really important and�
Mr. GOPNIK: I get the one from my wife sometimes is what does it mean, it says in the recipe warm it until just before it's ready to boil.
ROBERTS: Oh, yeah.
Mr. GOPNIK: There's a real Zen concept, right?
ROBERTS: Right, right, how do you know?
Ms. BHIDE: How do you know? It's exactly - and there is a big distinction between writing a recipe that's simple and simple recipes. An omelet is supposed to be a really simple recipe, and yet you pick up Julia Child's book and there is a six-page recipe on how to cook an omelet. Six pages.
Mr. GOPNIK: An omelet is - I can't - I do lots of things. I can't do a good omelet. An omelet, you're a born omelet-maker. Being - you know, omelet-making is sort of like being able to play the piccolo. You know, you either can do it or you can't.
ROBERTS: Let's take a call from Katie(ph) in Morehead City, North Carolina. Katie, welcome to TALK OF THE NATION.
KATIE (Caller): Hi, thanks. Wonderful program. I wanted to say I have hundreds and hundreds of cookbooks, not that I ever really cook from any of them, but I feel like I have to buy them for some reason.
My thing is that I have to rip out every recipe in every magazine I come across. If it's in the doctor's office, if it's - I have to buy it, I have to take the recipe out. That's my thing, and I have, like, thousands and thousands and thousands of cut-out or ripped-out pieces of paper in my bedroom just waiting for me to do something with them. Half of them I'll never cook, ever. And they're just sitting there, just collecting dust, saying what are you going to do with me? But I have this obsession. I have to rip the recipe out of a magazine.
Mr. GOPNIK: There is something, isn't there, that's so seductive about a recipe in a magazine. Even when, you know, I'm reading Men's Health, you know, or Men's Fitness, and there'll be a recipe for, you know, poached halibut. And I know how to do that but think, hmm, that looks very good. He looks very strong. I'm going to cut it out.
ROBERTS: Maybe I'll look like him�
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Mr. GOPNIK: And put it in my box. It's true. And then you end up with these enormous piles of magazines, which are underneath, which are on the shelf at the bottom, underneath all the cookbooks. It's a horrible obsession.
ROBERTS: We have a bunch of emails and tweets that sort of get to the point that people read cookbooks because of the stories they tell. Purple Phoenix(ph) says: I love my cookbooks because they tell me stories of people from the past who loved to cook just as much as I do today.
We have a tweet from someone recommending "The Settlement Cook Book," first published in the 1800s by the Jewish Settlement House in Milwaukee. And Lee(ph) in Foster City, California, says: I have over 600 cookbooks, not because I use them to cook, per se, but because of the history of the older recipes, the way foods used to be prepared or displayed. I try to find the older cookbooks, which have bits and pieces and hints of ideas from the actual cooks. The ideas are fantastic to read of history in places where I may not travel.
Of course, in some of those older cookbooks, you also end up with, like, recipes for a whole calf's head.
Mr. GOPNIK: Right.
Ms. BHIDE: Not happening in my kitchen.
Mr. GOPNIK: In French - you now, you often find in old French cookbooks, there will be recipes for, you know, (unintelligible), and it would begin, you know, you take two whole truffles and you slice them, and then you put them underneath the skin of the chicken, then you bury the chicken in your backyard for a week. That - you know, that seems a little impractical.
Ms. BHIDE: Well, yeah, or like the Indian recipe for making dessert with the cow's colostrum after she gives birth to a calf. Sorry.
Mr. GOPNIK: We do that at our house a lot, you know, breaded chicken and the cow's colostrums. It's a wonderful combination.
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Mr. GOPNIK: But you know, something that Laura, you know, your caller before was saying that I think is true, and that is that I love that Time-Life series, too, "Foods of the World" from the 1960s.
Ms. BHIDE: Yeah, it's excellent.
Mr. GOPNIK: It's a fabulous series. I just found an old edition of it in a Pittsburgh secondhand bookstore. And part of the thing is every cookbook reflects its time, the way everything we do reflects the time. And so those books have all the kind of global optimism of the 1960s imprinted in them, just the way so many of the new cookbooks have the kind of the angst and memoir confessional urge that you find in so much of the literature of our time.
I was reading one of them by a wonderful young Greek chef who talks about the first time his father slit the throat of a lamb in front of him and the blood, the hot blood came spurting out all over him. And (unintelligible), but nonetheless, that's part of the sensibility of our time. And there's no better way to enter harmlessly and happily into the sensibility of the time than through its recipes.
Ms. BHIDE: And even now, Adam, we're seeing it so much. I get a ton of cookbooks to review and I'm looking at all the ones that are coming in now and they're all about how to be frugal.
Mr. GOPNIK: Is that right, really?
Ms. BHIDE: Yeah, 75 bucks or less for an entire family of four. You know, it's - everything is reflected in the way books are being created. I think that's a really good point.
ROBERTS: Let's hear from Helen(ph) in Wellesley, Massachusetts. Helen, welcome to TALK OF THE NATION.
HELEN (Caller): Hi, Adam, this is Helen Wilson(ph) in Wellesley.
Mr. GOPNIK: Hey, Helen.
HELEN: I first read a cookbook as a novel when a friend gave me the paperback edition of Elizabeth David's(ph) five Mediterranean - you know, recipes of Provence, the Mediterranean, Italy. And a lot of those recipes are very similar. They'll be doing things with tomatoes and olive oil and so on and so forth. There are tiny shifts within them, and from reading them without following a lot of them, I got the whole culture, sitting in a freezing loft in New York when, you know, I was in my 20s and 30s.
I wanted to ask you, to change the subject, if you had done a comparison of the newer version of "Joy of Cooking" and the one that came before it because I find the differences there are very, very interesting. For example, the older one has everything you want to know about canning, which I do a lot of, and the newer one doesn't even go there and has a whole new set of recipes, not all of which I find very satisfactory.
I want to say one more thing. Adam, you can do an omelet.
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HELEN: Recently, I was where you are, and I'm older than you, we know that. And recently I started keeping chickens, and I had to learn. And you have to do it every day, like practicing an instrument, and all of a sudden, boom, it happens.
ROBERTS: Helen, thank you so much. Well, there's some words of encouragement.
Mr. GOPNIK: Helen, I should add, is an extraordinary painter. So she has that dexterity in her hands. You know, it's interesting about Elizabeth David. One of the great blessings of the literature of food in the 20th century is that there were these two amazing women, Elizabeth David in England, and M.F.K. Fisher, Mary Fisher, here in America, remarkably kind of parallel careers.
And they both brought - Elizabeth David brought the cooking of the Mediterranean to Italy, and Mary Fisher brought the cooking of France to America, not just as little neatly nuggets of recipes in a food, but as a whole culture, as a whole literature. And I think that food writing, writing about the art of eating, would be vastly impoverished if we didn't have these two extraordinary parallel women bring it to us. And they remain, I think, touchstones for all of us who love to write about our experience as eaters.
ROBERTS: Let's here from Dov(ph)in Louisville, Colorado. Welcome to the program.
DOV (Caller): Thank you.
ROBERTS: What's your favorite cookbook?
DOV: My favorite cookbook is �The Flavor Bible.� And I think it is not great for everybody.
ROBERTS: �Cause it has no recipes in it.
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DOV: I mean - but I think it is good for people who spent some time cooking, who understand the basics, the basic techniques but aren't quite sure just how to include certain ingredients and exclude others. And I think it allows for a lot of creativity, sort of touching on what Adam was saying earlier about recipes being sort of like a blueprint. And it really gives you the opportunity to create your own.
ROBERTS: Thanks for that suggestion.
Mr. GOPNIK: Well, it's an example of...
ROBERTS: Yes, �The Flavor Bible� is interesting �cause it's...
Mr. GOPNIK: Yeah.
ROBERTS: ...just about taste.
Mr. GOPNIK: Right. It's an example of another kind of a grammatical turn, the grammatical cookbook we were talking about. The idea there is instead of giving you a recipe, it gives you these kinds of clusters of flavors and ways you could put them together. I always fail at that. This Thanksgiving, since I love the idea, I'll do a saffron cinnamon kind of curry gravy for the turkey. And people made that play, mm, delicious kind of sound as they tasted it.
The thing is - the truth is about cooking is that though we compare it to the other arts and think, well, I'll be the abstract expressionist of gravy, the reality is that food precedes - there's a reason why the recipes are the recipes they are, however limited they may be as models of how to do it. And that is that they're mostly tried and true approaches to what works and what doesn't.
Ms. BHIDE: I think that it's very important also to understand your ingredients. And, you know, if you know your ingredients, you understand the herbs and spices, you'll be great at following �The Flavor Bible,� �cause you understand the basics. I get emails from readers who use cayenne instead of paprika all over their quiche and then they're screaming, you know�
ROBERTS: Just like red pepper.
Ms. BHIDE: The heat level is a little�
Mr. GOPNIK: That's a bad substitution.
Ms. BHIDE: ...you know, a little different. Or people who will call me and say, you know, I'm lactose intolerant, can I use coconut milk? I mean, I get that all the time. So you have to know your ingredients and know how to behave, and then you can, I think, pretty much do anything �cause then you know how they interact with each other. That's - the place where I think �The Flavor Bible� would be awesome.
ROBERTS: You're listening to TALK OF THE NATION from NPR News. Let's hear from Linda(ph) in Mesa, Arizona. Linda, welcome to TALK OF THE NATION.
LINDA (Caller): Hi. Thank you so much. Hey, I wanted to tell you my favorite cookbook author is Nick Malgieri. I think that's right, Nick Malgieri, who wrote �How to Bake� and �Chocolate.� And I love baking. And I came from parents who both worked, growing up in the �60s and �70s. And we ate out every single meal.
And nobody cooked in my family. I had an older sister. And for me to learn how to cook is a great sense of pride. And I don't tell everybody that because I didn't have a grandmother who cooked. My mother was an engineer and she never ever cooked. And everybody was very busy, so I just love this discussion. It's a personal discussion.
I think everybody else from the world had parents who, you know, taught them everything in the kitchen and I didn't. And yet, here I am and I'm very proud to know how to cook. And I love - and I'm like Lee, your tweeter, I have 300 cookbooks easily and I got to sleep reading them at night just to take me away from my day.
ROBERTS: Linda, thank you so much for your call.
Mr. GOPNIK: You know, baking is a precise art. Monica, don't you agree that baking is the one place where you have minimal room for improvisation? You�
Ms. BHIDE: See, I was really hoping you wouldn't go there because I'm an engineer and I cannot bake to save my life.
Mr. GOPNIK: I'm a non-engineer and that's the one thing that I can't handle. You know, that - it just doesn't - and then, of course, everybody in the course of their baking life discovers the significant difference between baking powder and baking soda.
Ms. BHIDE: Oh, yeah, been there, done that. Mm-hmm.
Mr. GOPNIK: Yeah, everybody.
Ms. BHIDE: No, I can't bake. I was trying to make sugar cookies last week for my kids and my two-and-a-half-year-old came up to me, tugged at my shirt and said, it's going to be okay, Mama.
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Ms. BHIDE: I mean, I'm bad.
ROBERTS: We have a tweet from Mindly(ph). It says: I love cookbooks because they make me think I can cook, which sort of encapsulates this whole aspirational idea of cooking.
Ms. BHIDE: Yeah. But, you know, when we say aspirational�
Mr. GOPNIK: I'm always a little bit perturbed when people say, oh, it's like pornography, because - to be a little indelicate now, pornography, the reading and the action and the achievement, the accomplishment, shall we say, are all the same thing. With cookbooks and reading recipes, there's a genuine sort of internalized desire to do the generous thing, to give it, to make it, to produce it even with the equally internalized knowledge that you'll never do it quite well enough.
ROBERTS: Well, but there is that whole sort of celebrity chef cookbook thing where you imagine yourself in their lives just by reading their recipes.
Mr. GOPNIK: Yes, I guess that's true. I mean, I always find that the celebrity cookbooks or the big chef, the big-name chef cookbooks tend to be intimidating. Although what's interesting is, is that now more and more of them, this speaks to something Monica was talking about too, so many of the books I looked at this year were by big-name, big restaurant chefs, but it's their at-home cooking.
Ms. BHIDE: Cooking at home, that's right.
Mr. GOPNIK: Thomas Keller, the master of the 17-course meal with red volcanic salt, is done this book of, you know, how to do a hamburger, how to do chicken cacciatore, the simplest kinds of things. So I think that that twist is coming in as well now.
ROBERTS: All right. Favorite cookbook from each of you. Adam?
Mr. GOPNIK: You know, I think my favorite cookbook is Patricia Well's French �Bistro Cooking.� Really simple, but there's nothing in it that's not delicious. And I suppose I could do those things with my eyes shut. If I had a second, it would be Ruth Rogers and Rose Gray's �River Caf� Cookbooks� from England.
Ms. BHIDE: If I have to pick two, the first one I would pick is Julie Sanhi's �Savoring India.� When I first moved to the States, I found that book and it took me home. I was so lonely, I would hug that book at night, I tell you. �Cause I'd look at all the pictures and that's exactly where I wanted to be. And the second one, I would have to say - and disclaimer here, Mark Bittman's done the foreword to my book, but I love his �How to Cook Everything� book. It shows you the basics and it makes you feel really smart in the kitchen.
ROBERTS: Monica Bhide...
Mr. GOPNIK: And tells you how to boil water.
ROBERTS: There you go.
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ROBERTS: Monica Bhide is a food writer and cookbook author. Her cookbook is called �Modern Spice.� She joined us here in 3A. Thank you so much.
Ms. BHIDE: Thank you very much.
ROBERTS: And Adam Gopnik is a staff writer for the New Yorker magazine. We have a link to his story, �What's the Recipe? Our Hunger for Cookbooks,� at npr.org. Thank you so much for joining us from the New York bureau, Adam.
Mr. GOPNIK: It was wonderful time. Thank you, Rebecca.
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