TERRY GROSS, HOST:
This is FRESH AIR. I'm Terry Gross. What does it mean to have a personal relationship with God, as many evangelical Christians say they have, to believe that God cares about your welfare and interacts with you like a friend? Those are some of the questions my guest Tanya Luhrmann set out to answer in her new book "When God Talks Back: Understanding the American Evangelical Relationship with God."
She's an anthropologist who has taught a seminar in divinity and spirituality. She's now a professor at Stanford University. One of her earlier books, "Of Two Minds," is about the psychological and biological models of the mind. To understand how God becomes real for many evangelical Christians, she attended weekly services at the Vineyard Christian Fellowship Church in Chicago.
After moving to California, she found another Vineyard to join. She's interviewed many members of the church about their experience of God, attended local conferences and special worship sessions and joined a weekly prayer group. The Vineyard is a relatively new denomination, just a few decades old, and Luhrmann says it represents a shift in the American imagination of God.
Tanya Luhrmann, welcome to FRESH AIR. You were interested in understanding a certain type of relationship with God. Tell us what you wanted to understand.
TANYA LUHRMANN: I wanted to understand what people meant when they said that God spoke to them, that God had heard from them, and that they had heard what God wanted them to do. I was at - first became intrigued by this when I was doing a different project, and it was on religion and community, and I went over of an evangelical woman. And she told me that if I wanted to understand, I should have a cup coffee with God.
She had coffee with God all the time. She hung out with God. She chatted with God. She talked about God as if he were a person. And I was blown away. I was just so intrigued by what that meant and how she was able to do that.
GROSS: So that gets to more specifically what you were looking for, was not just hearing God speak to you, but a personal relationship with God, where God gives you advice. You can even ask God what to wear in the morning, and it's as if God is by your side all the time and your buddy, and you're talking.
LUHRMANN: Right, he's your best friend, your kind of - you feel his presence as you're walking down the street.
GROSS: Now, let's talk a little bit about the point of view that you're coming from or the background that you grew up in. What was the role of religion in your family? Because it sounds like there was a lot of action and reaction in your family.
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LUHRMANN: Yeah, I'm a spiritual mutt. My father's father was a Christian Scientist. My father became a doctor. My mother's father was a Baptist minister. She, you know, she drifted away from the church. She still goes to church. It's still really important to her, but, you know, this belief commitment is kind of a struggle for her. But she still goes to church.
All three of my cousins are theologically very conservative Christians. I grew up in an Orthodox Jewish neighborhood. I was a Shabbos goy, which means that on, you know, Friday nights, I would go over to people's houses and turn on and off the electrical switch so that, you know, they would have lights.
So I guess the perspective that I brought to this book, or the reason that I wanted to do it is that I grew up knowing all these wise, good people who had really different understandings of what was real. And that has always fascinated me ever since.
GROSS: And you grew up going to the Unitarian church.
LUHRMANN: That's right. So I'm very comfortable with kind of a stance and belief that's betwixt and between.
GROSS: OK. So describe the church that you went to for your anthropological study and why you chose it.
LUHRMANN: So this is a Vineyard Christian Fellowship Church. It is an evangelical church, and it's experientially oriented. It kind of represents the way that American spirituality has shifted since the '60s towards a much more engaged, responsive, intimately experienced sense of the spiritual.
This is a kind of church that's - you know, there's 600 Vineyards in the country. There are thousands and thousands of more churches like them. Every church is different. Every person within a church has a somewhat different experience of God. But I thought that this represented something really important about American spirituality.
GROSS: This being the personal relationship with God?
LUHRMANN: Yeah. So - you know, it's hard when you look across the American landscape to figure out how many people experience God the way I saw people experience God in the Vineyard, but the poll numbers are pretty startling. So the Pew Foundation found that nearly a quarter of Americans have what they call a renewalist Christianity, in which they experience an interactive sense of God's presence.
Something like 26 percent of all Americans say that they have been given a direct revelation from God. Rick Warren's book, "The Purpose Driven Life," he sold over 30 million copies in hardback. And that book is, you know, not as experiential as the church I went to, but it invites you to experience God as your best friend.
And I would go to churches that were not explicitly experientially oriented, and those were churches in which people told me that I should be having coffee with God. So I think it's - this style of encountering God has become much more a part of the American experience.
GROSS: Well, you talk about, in going to the services and in going to prayer groups at this Vineyard church, how you felt that people were training their minds to perceive God? And you attended prayer training classes. What are some of the things you learned to do in prayer training classes?
LUHRMANN: Prayer, in this context, is in an imagined conversation with God. That doesn't mean that you're treating God as imaginary. It means that you're using your imagination to have a back-and-forth interaction with God. And what people are first invited to do is to experience what I would call a new theory of mind.
They learn to experience some of their thoughts as not being thoughts from them, but thoughts from God, as being external communications from God that they hear inside their mind.
The second thing they're invited to do is to pretend that God is present. And I take that verb from C.S. Lewis. He has a chapter of "Mere Christianity" entitled "Let's Pretend," and his, you know, his perspective is let us pretend in order to experience as real. These folks were invited to put out a second cup of coffee for God while they prayed, to go for a walk with God, to go on a date with God, to snuggle with God, to imagine that they're sitting on a bench in the park and God's arm is around their shoulders, and they're kind of talking about their respective days.
And so what's happening is that people are using their imaginations to create this conversation. And what they're trying to do, what they're seeking to do - I mean, they're using their own understanding of conversation, their own conversations, their own friends. They're building this daydream-like exchange.
But they're seeking to represent God the way that God is represented in church - you know, in this kind of church, unconditionally loving, always wise, always responsive, always there. And then they're trying to experience that God as talking back to them and to experience what God says as being really real, and not the creation of their own imaginations.
GROSS: How were you supposed to tell the difference between God actually speaking to you and you using your imagination to manufacture a conversation with God?
LUHRMANN: Well, that was tough, and one of the things I was so impressed by was how thoughtful people were about the process. But basically, the church taught people what they would call a style of discernment. So what thoughts - you know, what thoughts are good candidates for God's thoughts?
Well, they are thoughts that feel different in some way. They stand out. They seem more important. They're different from what you were thinking about at the time. They are thoughts that are consonant with God's character. They're the kinds of things that God would say. They give you peace. You're supposed to feel good when you recognize God's voice.
And so, you know, what I was fascinated by was that as, you know, people would enter the church, they'd be - you know, I don't know I don't know what people are talking about. God doesn't talk to me. And then they would try praying in this interactive, free-form, imagination-rich kind of way. And after, I don't know, six months, they would start to say that they recognize God's voice. Some people told me that they recognized God's voice the way they recognize their mom's voice on the phone.
GROSS: Because, I mean, so distinctly, like it had a different sound to it?
LUHRMANN: That's what they said. And they - you know, and the way that I think about it is that - I mean, so the challenge of this kind of religious experience is to make the experience real, to make what you imagine real and to make it good. And I thought there were two parts to that story. There's a psychological story. There are consequences of sort of attending to your imagination and taking it seriously. And there's also a cultural story about kind of the cognitive content you give to that imagined experience.
And so by creating a God that is so good and so loving and experiencing - it became a way of asking yourself: What should I do if I am compassionate and loving and the mature person I believe I can be?
GROSS: If you're just joining us, my guest is Tanya Luhrmann. She's the author of the new book "When God Talks Back: Understanding the American Evangelical Relationship with God." She's a psychological anthropologist who is a professor at Stanford University. Let's take a short break here, and then we'll talk some more. This is FRESH AIR.
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GROSS: If you're just joining us, my guest is Tanya Luhrmann. She's a psychological anthropologist who is a professor at Stanford University and is the author of the new book "When God Talks Back: Understanding the American Evangelical Relationship with God." It is based on an anthropological study she did at the Vineyard Christian Fellowship Church.
So you said that there are certain consequences to believing that you are hearing God's voice, to using your imagination to hear God's voice and to have regular conversations with him. And let me just stop right here, and I know what I've said will be offensive to a lot of evangelical Christians because I've said that they're imagining they're hearing God's voice, and they would probably say: No, I am hearing God's voice.
So I'm not even sure what language to - what language would you use here, imagining or hearing?
LUHRMANN: You know, I would use both. It's a recent part of American history that we treat the imagination as mere imagination. The church fathers thought that the imagination was the route to God, and if you were going - and the way that I think about it is that if you are going to represent a being that is not visible the way tables and chairs are visible, you need to use your imagination.
And the church talks about using the imagination. It's just - you know, it just makes some Christians uncomfortable to actually use that word because of the connotations that the term has in early 21st-century America.
GROSS: Well, speaking of imagination, I mean, this might be an unfair comparison, but many children have imaginary friends. And at a certain age, that upsets their parents, and the parents have to explain to them that that friend doesn't exist, and it's time to outgrow the imaginary friend. And...
LUHRMANN: Right. And that's a mistake, by the way.
GROSS: OK, if you're a rationalist, you know, you would say: Well, what's the difference between the imaginary friend that you're supposed to outgrow and this approach to believing that, you know, God or Jesus is like your friend, your buddy, you're talking to each other?
LUHRMANN: In some sense, none. It depends on your ontological stance, what you take to be externally real about the world. So the way that I think about it is that I, as an anthropologist, I don't have the authority to pronounce on whether God is real or God is not real. I don't feel like I have a horse in that race.
I don't feel I have the authority to say whether God showed up to somebody or did not. I do think that if God speaks to someone, God speaks to the human mind. And I can say something about the social, cultural and psychological features of what that person is experiencing.
And so when people experience God as a companion in their lives, they're using their imagination the same way a child is using the imagination to experience an imaginary companion. But at the same - but, you know, that person doesn't experience God as being imaginary, because they have a different ontological stance. And, you know, who are we to pronounce on that?
GROSS: One of the things that the congregants at the church that you studied are supposed to come to understand is that they are unconditionally loved by God. What are some of the faith practices that are supposed to help you feel that unconditional love?
LUHRMANN: So I would say that of all the challenges of learning to pray and learning to experience God, the hardest one is feeling unconditionally loved by God. It's just not something that humans do. We don't - we expect that love should be conditional on right behavior.
And so people - I saw these practices in the church in which, in some cases, the humans would step in for God and enable people to practice being unconditionally loved. And my favorite example is the prayer circle.
So you have somebody in the center of the circle, and that person is being prayed for, and that person is in pain. Otherwise, they're not getting prayer. They're often crying. They feel worthless. They feel inadequate. They need some - they need something. And the people around them have their hands on that person's shoulders, and they're all saying some variant of God loves you just as you are.
And that happens Sunday after Sunday, house group after house group. People practice experiencing God as a therapist. They, you know, they have a sense of God as being wise, good and loving, and they talk to God in their minds and talk about their problems. And then they are seeking to experience themselves as seeing it from the perspective of a loving God who then reflects back on their anxieties and interprets them differently.
GROSS: What is the meaning of unconditional love in the sense that, like, if you're a rapist or a murderer, what does unconditional love mean in that situation, if you've done something really terrible?
LUHRMANN: Well, I've got to say I didn't meet a lot of rapists and murderers in church, although a lot of the church members, a lot of the women would do jail ministry. And what they would try to do is to separate what the person had done from their status as a person. And they kind of believed that if this person felt unconditionally loved, they wouldn't commit crimes, that crimes were the consequence of a distance from God.
I mean, one of the things that I was struck by is that I would often be, you know, sitting with people, and at some point in the interview, they'd begin to cry. And when they cried, they would talk about the moment when they really got it, that they got it that God loved them just as they were.
And, you know, and then it would kind of be gone. It was hard for people to hang onto. And yet, I mean, I also kind of thought that many people were able to sort of carry around in themselves this sense of being loved.
You know, you could think about this therapeutically. People had what the psychoanalyst code once called a self object that was able to kind of help people comfort themselves when they were tense and anxious.
GROSS: Is it fair to say that the kind of prayer and the kind of relationship that you were studying in this church is not unlike, say, self-help? You've compared it to therapy.
LUHRMANN: Mm-hmm. Members of the church would not use that phrase. But they would tell you that if you were able to accept God, you would feel happier and you would feel more comfortable and you would feel more confident. If you read Rick Warren's "Purpose Driven Life," it reads, from one perspective, very much like a cognitive behavioral therapy manual.
He's trying to get you to see yourself from God's perspective. It starts with the statement that you are not an accident. And then, with each chapter, he is asking you to reconsider yourself not from the perspective of your own limitations and your sense of failure, but from the sense that you are not properly understanding yourself as seen from this - the person who created you. And I actually think this really helps people.
GROSS: Well, you know, you write the basic task of learning to respond to God in a church like this is learning to believe that you are truly loveable just as you are. And I would imagine that it would be very reassuring to think that. Not everybody thinks of themselves as being loveable.
LUHRMANN: Absolutely. I should also say that, again, it's really tough. So people get snatches of it. They have long-lasting moods. But, you know, they still drive home from church and yell at their kids and feel like they failed at work. It's more as if they have a little bit of extra bolstering to carry with them.
GROSS: What about the wrath of God? What about sin and hell and damnation, which has been the emphasis in many churches?
LUHRMANN: Yup. I'd be willing to argue - although I'm sure this is controversial - that God has been unconditionally loving since about 1965, that this - the big change as - and the social upheaval was that atheism was an allowable life identity. There were many different ways to be spiritual. There were many different ways to be in the world, and Christianity tried to - then became a buyer's market.
People chose if they were going to be Christian. They could decide which church they were going to join, and that the churches like the Vineyard really see themselves as trying to offer a God who is quite different from, you know, that God who terrified poor James Joyce.
GROSS: Tanya Luhrmann will be back in the second half of the show. Her new book is called "When God Talks Back: Understanding the American Evangelical Relationship with God." I'm Terry Gross, and this is FRESH AIR.
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GROSS: This is FRESH AIR . I'm Terry Gross, back with Tanya Luhrmann, author of the new book "When God Talks Back: Understanding the American Evangelical Relationship with God." It's about what some evangelical Christians experience when they say they have a personal relationship with God, a God who talks to them. Luhrmann is a professor in Stanford University's Anthropology Department. Her book is based on her study of the Vineyard Christian Fellowship, a denomination that's only a few decades' old that she says represents a shift in the American imagination of God.
So let's get back to something we were talking about before. We were talking about unconditional love.
GROSS: And tell me if you think that the people at the churches that you studied were like this. Some evangelicals who believe in unconditional love from God, who believe that God loves you unconditionally, some of these evangelicals are also very judgmental. Like God loves you unconditionally and that's why he wants you to change. That's why he wants you to stop being gay. That's why he wants you to remain a virgin until you're married. And, you know, and on and on and on. So was there this kind of paradox in the churches where you were between this unconditional love and this judgmental quality toward others who are not members of the church? Because the other thing that God wants is for you to know God and to convert to or conform to this type of Christianity.
LUHRMANN: The particular churches where I was in were much more conscious about reaching out to people who might not be churched, and so there was less overt judgment. You could say that this was a, you know, friendlier kind of church. The Vineyard sees itself as trying to be more inclusive, that actually talks about what is calls the center set mindset rather than the bounded mindset. You know, so some churches the question is are you inside or are you outside? And, you know, will you make the right signals to demonstrate that you are a member of this church? And the Vineyard's more concerned that you're kind of oriented more or less in the same direction.
So it was easier for me to be an anthropologist, for one thing, easier for me to, you know, people didn't feel they had to save me at every opportunity. It is true that different people come with their own sense of what is required of a good Christian and what is required of a good Christian with respect to homosexuality. There was actually a pretty wide range of opinion of that in the churches where I spent time. Pretty wide range on evolution. So, I mean, in the Chicago church somebody once said if God didn't want us to do stem cell research why did he make the scientists so darned smart? Other people were, you know, really very committed to a Republican agenda and shocked when other people seemed not to be.
You know, it's just hard to figure out where people are at. So I think this is one of Robert Putnam's statistics that 83 percent of evangelicals say that a good person not of their faith can go to heaven. And if you say supposing they're not Christian, over 50 percent still will say that that person can go to heaven. So I think there is a lot of variation.
GROSS: You write about the church that you studied as being focused on an experiential sense of God.
GROSS: That, you know, you feel God's presence, you can talk to God and it's a physical as well as a mental and spiritual thing. And you talk about how there's a lot of crying in prayer groups and sometimes at services, and that you cried as well. You found yourself just in tears.
GROSS: Would you explain what you experienced at those moments when you were crying?
LUHRMANN: I'm pretty sure that I was moved to tears in ways that were different from the people around me being moved to tears and yet sometimes I wonder whether that's true. I find it immensely moving to commit to the sense that the world is good in the face of the excellent evidence to the contrary. I find it intensely poignant. And I thought I saw people being able to make that commitment, and it didn't seem to me in talking with people that people were naive about all the terrible things that happened in their lives and in the world, but they were asserting that this was nevertheless a wonderful place to be. It just wasn't just quite that way yet.
I don't know why I found that so moving, but I did. And I would say that even that I experienced God when I was at that church. I mean again, what does that mean? I don't think I know. I don't think I can put words to that. I wouldn't call myself a Christian, but I did, you know, through these practices of praying and thinking about the stories that were being told in church, I would have these like moments of joy that I would call God - I'm not sure that the pastor would call that God.
GROSS: Well, you know, you end your book by saying that although you don't call yourself a Christian, you don't consider yourself a Christian, that you've started working with a spiritual director and that you've been praying. And I wonder what prayer means to you now and how - like if you've tried to take some of the things that you learned in the Christian prayer group that you were studying and re-fashioned that in a way that works for whatever your view of the human condition is.
LUHRMANN: You know, I have. And again, you know, what do I think about this? I don't know. At one point I ran an experiment because people had told me that prayer was hard, you had to work hard to pray and practice, some people would be better than others and that people who are good and who practice would change. And one of the things they would sometimes say was that their mental imagery would get sharper. That didn't sound like theology. That sounded like psychology. And so I ran this experiment in which I randomized people into prayer and lectures on the Gospels and I made sort of an equivalent of imagination-rich prayer, Bible study. On the iPods they came in, they did a bunch of questionnaires, computer exercises, we interviewed them. We sent them out with a brown envelope that contained one of these iPods and the rule was they had to listen for a half an hour a day, six days a week for four weeks. When they came back, the people in the prayer group were more likely to say that they experienced their mental imagery vividly. They were more likely to use mental imagery. They were more likely to say that they experienced the near tangible presence of God. They were more likely to say they experienced God as a person, and they also had some additional kind of objective cognitive advantages. They had a better sustained attention. They could solve little problems a little more easily.
GROSS: So what I'm wondering hearing that is would you have gotten the same results with a relaxation tape, with secular meditation? Do you think that that kind of the calming or reassuring effect or the effect on the imagination, the cognitive things that you are talking about are something that the human mind and body are capable of with training and discipline...
GROSS: ...as opposed to it being necessarily like the intervention of God?
LUHRMANN: Absolutely. So I think that there, again, you know, if God speaks God is speaking through the human mind. And one of the features of the human mind is that when we pay attention to our minds differently our experience changes. And what I saw was this millennia-long tradition of using the imagination to experience God by attending intensely to this internal world. It becomes more alive. It feels more real. And occasionally I noticed it kind of almost slipped over the edge of that boundary that defines the difference between the inner and the outer and people would hear God speak audibly or they would see something that somebody else wouldn't see. I don't think that has anything to do with ontology. If there is a God, God is choosing those moments when you have that unusual experience. But the psychological technique of prayer is independent of religion. It is a way of changing the inner experience of the person.
GROSS: So I think what you're saying is that, you know, prayer can be substituted for meditation or chanting or something along those lines but that would be the secular version. You wouldn't expect, you know, to hear God with that.
LUHRMANN: Yeah. I mean...
GROSS: So but a similar cognitive state...
LUHRMANN: Some people do.
GROSS: But people do. OK. Yeah.
LUHRMANN: I think there are two big styles of mental prayer practice across the world. One of them you think of as meditation. You're trying to disattend to the external world and you're also seeking to disattend and dis-attach to your own thoughts. That's, you know, in the Christian tradition is called apophatic prayer or centering prayer. The kind of prayer that Vineyard folks do and that many, many evangelicals do is technically called kataphatic prayer. You disattend to the external world but you use your imagination to hyper-attend to your mind. So you are using, you know, your images of Jesus or your images of Mary or your imagined conversation with God where you hear God in your mind and you talk back and you're using that means to pray.
GROSS: That's a really fascinating distinction between, you know, two types of prayer.
GROSS: So what kind of prayer do you practice? You took on a spiritual director after spending time as anthropologist studying this evangelical church. What were you looking for in a spiritual director and what kind of prayer do you practice?
LUHRMANN: Well, I should be more precise. I had a spiritual director while I was doing the anthropological part of the process...
GROSS: Oh, I see.
LUHRMANN: And I don't have a spiritual director now.
GROSS: Do you pray now?
LUHRMANN: Sometimes. Yes. It's - I am trying to find my own way in the forest.
GROSS: My guest is anthropologist Tanya Luhrmann, author of the new book "When God Talks Back." More after a break. This is FRESH AIR.
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LUHRMANN: My guest is anthropologist Tanya Luhrmann. Her new book, "When God Talks Back," is about what evangelical Christians experience when they say they have a personal relationship with God.
GROSS: Now you've written that there are certain consequences to this personal relationship to God.
GROSS: And I'm wondering what you think some of those consequences are?
LUHRMANN: Well, people experience God as more real. People follow God's advice more. In this study, I found that if people affirm the statement, I feel God's love for me directly, they are more likely to be less lonely and less stressed and I think their imagination becomes more vivid. It becomes somehow more alive for them.
GROSS: What's the downside of that?
LUHRMANN: Well, it's - I mean that to me seems mostly upside.
LUHRMANN: It is true that I saw people who took things a little far. I did have jaw-dropping moments. One of my subject's friends got very caught up in this idea of God talking back immediately and announced to me that if you slow down the sound of a cricket chirping it actually was playing Handel's "Messiah." And that was a different perspective for me.
The people who are really good at prayer sometimes got caught up with demons and this is a world in which demons are real. People understand themselves to be waging spiritual warfare. In my experience, demons were not so salient in the lives of most people in the church. They kind of thought that they should be real but demons didn't enter into the way that they thought about their own experience. People who got very caught up in prayer would find themselves kind of going into restaurants and smelling for the demons and then having to pray to expel them, and going for prayer walks in where they're walking around the blocks of the city and smelling out the demons and praying to expel them. And I thought that spending a lot of time with demons was pretty oppressive.
GROSS: Well, you met one woman who had an exorcism.
LUHRMANN: Yes. And it didn't work. And by that I mean that she was not persuaded that the demons were gone. And then she was an extremist because she had had the procedure but she didn't lose the demons so the demons were - she was committing to them for them to be real enough to agree to there be an exorcism, but that she didn't lose the demons and she was eventually hospitalized.
GROSS: You write that this near magical God that people in the evangelical church that you studied believe in is an expression of what it is to be modern. What do you mean by that?
LUHRMANN: The thing about modernity is that doubt is more available. Any Christian in this country knows that there are wise, good people who aren't Christians, and it just makes the question of whether God is real more salient, even if you never utter your own doubt. What this kind of magically real God does, a God that is so immediately present, a God that is having coffee with you across the breakfast table, even perhaps in front of his own ceramic cup of coffee, it enables you to understand - it forces you to experience God not as real in the way that tables and chairs are real, and not as fiction, but as somehow in between.
It makes God of the mind because you are experiencing God in the mind. That's very intimate, and nobody can take that away from you. It sort of protects God by putting God in a sort of different place in people's experience.
GROSS: So you're saying you see this personal relationship with God as (technical difficulties) or as a response to a world in which doubt exists in a way that it didn't in previous centuries?
LUHRMANN: Yes. There have been vivid experiences of God in previous times. I mean, the vividness of God rises and falls with, you know, different centuries. But I think in this particular time, this kind of God, it emphasizes mystery, it emphasizes paradox, it emphasizes practice rather than belief. It allows you to experience the contradictions of knowing God intimately but not being sure whether God really spoke to you about where you should go on vacation.
It allows you to create a kind of protection around your own experience of God. Even if you don't doubt yourself, you are aware of the presence of doubt because of the kind of time we live in.
GROSS: Let me end by asking you a question that you pose in the book, and this is like the reverse version of the skeptic's question. So your question is, if you could believe in God, why wouldn't you?
GROSS: Let me pose that question to you.
LUHRMANN: Oh, what a great and complicated question. I don't know how to think about the supernatural. For me somehow with my background, my training, my many years in graduate school, my particular location in American society, for me the stuffness of the supernatural goes into a box. I don't know quite how to think about that. I know how to think about emotional spirituality, using these ideas and these practices to experience the world as more alive and real, but I don't - I don't know. I struggle. I don't know how to answer that question. That's why I asked it.
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GROSS: That's a good reason to ask a question. That's a great reason to ask a question. And we only have like about a minute left, but I'm wondering if you think the people from the church that you studied would recognize themselves the way you describe them in a much more, you know, distanced intellectual way than they probably describe their own experiences.
LUHRMANN: I'm beginning to find out. I think they kind of do. They do - in order to read the book, they need to imagine me as the outsider onlooker, but you know, I really think they were thoughtful. I really think that their experience is beneficial for them, and I really try to capture the contradictions and the struggles in the way that they experience what they would call their walk with God, and as far as I can tell, they like that.
GROSS: And I should say, you really like the people who you met.
LUHRMANN: They're great people. You know, some of them are my friends. They're lovely people.
GROSS: OK. Tanya Luhrmann, thank you so much for talking with us.
LUHRMANN: Thank you.
GROSS: Tanya Luhrmann is the author of the new book "When God Talks Back." You can read an excerpt on our website, freshair.npr.org.