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The Make-A-Wish Foundation is known for its work granting wishes to terminally ill children. [POST-BROADCAST CLARIFICATION: Make-A-Wish Foundation grants wishes to children with life-threatening medical conditions, not only those who have been diagnosed as terminally ill.]

Less well-known is Wish of a Lifetime, which grants wishes to seniors over 65 - and you don't have to be sick or dying to qualify. NPR's Wade Goodwyn traveled to Colorado with a woman from Houston, as she fulfilled her lifelong dream.

WADE GOODWYN, BYLINE: As the sun beams down, 75-year-old Dorothy Flood stands on the steps of the Royal Gorge Express, smiling like a 1940s movie star as photographers jockey to snap her picture. [POST-BROADCAST CORRECTION: The correct name of the train is the Royal Gorge Route Railroad.]

UNIDENTIFIED PHOTOGRAPHER #1: Right there. And then just turn around right there. That'd be great.

UNIDENTIFIED PHOTOGRAPHER #2: OK. Count of three - one, two and three.

GOODWYN: Flood's wish of a lifetime is an easy one to make come true - in 2012, anyway. With the tip of his cap, a porter offers Flood his hand.

UNIDENTIFIED PORTER: OK. No head bumping now.

DOROTHY FLOOD: OK. No head bumping.

GOODWYN: Flood is escorted onto Royal Gorge Express's first-class dining car, a masterpiece of oak, brass, glass and white linen. As Flood sits down at her table, her eyes fill with tears. She's facing the vestibule door between the train cars, and its intricately etched glass has brought forth a powerful memory. When she was 6, Flood was on the outside looking in through that same, exact sort of glass, when a little girl got up from her dining car table and came up to the opposite side.

FLOOD: And she came up to the window and smiled. And then we just took our fingers, and we were playing on the window. We would follow each other's fingers and play, and laugh. And then I think her mother called her back to the table. So she just smiled at me, waved goodbye; and I could just see her running back.

GOODWYN: As she watched the girl skip away, Flood did not feel resentful or sad. She felt nice. Flood was on one side of the door because she was black. The little white girl was dining. They were separated by Jim Crow and etched glass but for a few minutes, they'd been friends nonetheless. Flood grew up in Jersey City, New Jersey, living and going to school with Italians, Irish and Jews. But when she and her grandmother took the train to North Carolina each summer, it was like traveling to another country.

FLOOD: When we would get to Baltimore, that was the Mason-Dixon Line. African-Americans would go in the back - or, people of color - and then white people would go into separate cars.

GOODWYN: Flood and her grandmother, and many of the other black passengers, carried their food in shoe boxes.

FLOOD: Well, I guess that was the easiest thing to carry them in. And every shoe box would have fried chicken, pound cake; sometimes you'd have a hard-boiled egg, and fruit. And till today, it's the best fried chicken I ever had.

GOODWYN: The food was good but the child, whose parents had been killed in a car accident, couldn't grasp why she and her grandmother couldn't eat in the dining car. It looked nice.

FLOOD: I would ask her why we couldn't go to the dining car. And she said we were people of color, so we weren't allowed to sit in there and eat. Well, it didn't make any sense because I was going to school with them. I lived next to them, you know. But now that I crossed that Mason-Dixon Line, I couldn't be with them? I didn't understand it.

GOODWYN: Flood is of the last generation of African-Americans to grow up before the civil rights movement. Her perfect diction had nothing to do with acting white - the very idea was laughable. Mostly, she emulated her grandmother's quiet approach to the reality of their black skin - although sometimes in North Carolina, Dorothy would chafe at the racism she perceived all around her.

FLOOD: One time, I do remember. I went to an ice cream parlor with my grandmother. I guess I was around 8 - I was a little bit older. And I used to love milkshakes. And she asked me what kind of milkshake I wanted, and I said a black and white. And everyone looked at me wide-eyed. And my grandmother - the look that came on her face was sheer terror. It was vanilla and chocolate, and I said black and white.

GOODWYN: The deeply frightened look on her grandmother's face, and the complete silence in the room, was communication enough. Dorothy decided she wouldn't mock the monster again. Back in Jersey City, most of the time it wasn't an issue anyway. By the late 1950s, Flood was a young woman in college, in Philadelphia. And the civil rights movement had begun to swirl around her.

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UNIDENTIFIED BROADCASTER: Protest against segregation in Alabama brought the issue of racial conflict to a head.

FLOOD: I was never, like, part of that - the civil rights movement - because I had never been blatantly ostracized. It didn't mean that much to me, and I couldn't understand it.

UNIDENTIFIED PEOPLE: (Singing) Ain't gonna let nobody turn me 'round, turn me 'round...

GOODWYN: In 1963, when James Farmer of CORE, John Lewis from SNCC, and Martin Luther King Jr. called for a massive march on Washington, one of Flood's girlfriends suggested they go together.

UNIDENTIFIED PEOPLE: (Singing) Turn me 'round. I'm gonna keep on walking, keep on talking, marching up to freedom land...

GOODWYN: The 8-year-old Dorothy Flood in the ice cream parlor would have jumped at the chance. But the grown Dorothy Flood said no. A half-century later, Flood's ashamed of herself.

FLOOD: When I think about what people of color have gone through - not that I'm - I'm glad I wasn't a part of it, but I wish I could have given more support.

UNIDENTIFIED PEOPLE: (Singing) Marching up to freedom land, marching up...

GOODWYN: So when Flood's retirement home offered its residents an opportunity to win a Wish of a Lifetime, Flood entered the contest. And now here she is, a waiter swirling around her with a chilled glass of zinfandel, and a white napkin on his arm.

FLOOD: I'm ready. I can't believe it. I don't remember it being quite this elegant but then, I never was in there. It's fabulous. And I know my grandmother's spirit, she's right here with me. She's probably smiling and laughing. We did it, after all these years.

GOODWYN: This was all made possible by the largest retirement home company in the nation, Brookdale Senior Living. They're partnering with an organization called Wish Of A Lifetime. It was founded by former gold medal Olympian Jeremy Bloom. Rachel Greiman is a wish coordinator who's come down from Denver. She says this program is about building respect for seniors.

RACHEL GREIMAN: We don't think that young people have an appreciation for seniors. So that cultural shift is something we're really trying to do. And the vehicle that we're trying to create that cultural shift, is through granting wishes.

GOODWYN: The Royal Gorge Express winds through the Rockies along the Arkansas River, rafters paddling the other way. At one point, the staff tried to coax Flood to walk to the observation deck to see a spectacular suspension bridge. Flood has zero interest. She has a second glass of zinfandel, warm French bread, salad on the way, and a seat by the window in first-class dining. She and her grandmother are going nowhere.

FLOOD: Oh, she would have loved this. She would have loved it.

GOODWYN: Flood pronounces her almond-crusted salmon the best she's ever tasted - almost as good as the fried chicken from the shoe box, she laughs, winking. Three hours after pulling out of the station in Canyon City, Dorothy's wish is over. She says she will never ride another train. This is the way she wants to remember her last trip.

FLOOD: Take care. It was wonderful. Thank you, guys. Thank you so much.

GOODWYN: Wade Goodwyn, NPR News, Dallas.

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