
Valentines, Schmalentines: Songs Of Love And Other Ailments

Concha Buika. Courtesy of the artist hide caption
Concha Buika.
Courtesy of the artistThis week on Alt.Latino, we start off with "Que Lío" — "What a Mess" — by legendary Puerto Rican salsa singer Hector Lavoe. It's not a rock or Latin Alternative song, but it's one of my favorite love songs of all time, and I couldn't imagine doing a Valentine's Day show without it.
I love "Que Lío" because it's simultaneously sensual, painful (feel those trombones stabbing you in the chest?), exuberant and desperate. And that's before he even starts telling you that he fell in love with his best friend's girl. The song is a perfect mood-setter for the type of Valentine's Day show we wanted to create — one in which we discuss the many facets of love. This week, we've got artists who are in love with the wrong person, the clumsy excitement of an office romance, the courage to leave an unhealthy kind of love, the anguish of knowing a love has come to its end and the joy of finding love long after you'd sworn it off.
Amidst the consumer madness that accompanies Valentine's Day — you can't walk into a convenience store without being assaulted by stuffed animals holding stuffed hearts — we wanted to showcase something real. Whether its Spanish singer Buika singing her heart out when describing a breakup ("You may not love me, but life loves me") or Argentine songwriter Gaby Kerpel's childlike amazement at finding love again, this is what love really sounds like.
As usual, we want to hear from you. What are your favorite love songs? On Valentine's Day, we'll assemble some of the listener picks on our blog.
Valentines, Schmalentines: Songs Of Love And Other Ailments
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Qué Lío
- from El Cantante [Fania]
- by Héctor Lavoe
Sounds like: The funkiest, grooviest song ever written about falling in love with your best friend's girl
Coming at you from: Puerto Rico

Romance En La Oficina
Romance En La Oficina
- from Romance En La Oficina
- by Hazte Lapón
Sounds like: The Cure
Coming at you from: Spain

Yo No
Yo No
- from Lotofire
- by Ely Guerra
Sounds like: A luxurious night with a poisonous love
Coming at you from: Mexico

La Gran Broma Final
La Gran Broma Final
- from La Zona Sucia
- by Nacho Vegas
Sounds like: Nick Cave breaking up with Leonard Cohen
Coming at you from: Spain

Me Gustaría
Me Gustaría
- from 13
- by Javier García
Sounds like: Los Amigos Invisibles mixed with Orishas
Coming at you from: Spain

Tattered Heart
Tattered Heart
- from Aerials
- by Ariel Aparicio
Sounds like: Early U2 or David Bowie
Coming at you from: Cuba and New York City

Jodida Pero Contenta
Jodida Pero Contenta
- from Mi Niña Lola
- by Buika
Sounds like: Flamenco's Jill Scott
Coming at you from: Spain

Carnabailito
Carnabailito
- from Carnabailito
- by Gaby Kerpel
Sounds like: The euphoria and goofiness of falling in love again
Coming at you from: Argentina