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Dear Life Kit: My boyfriend's relationship with his coworker makes me uncomfortable

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Dear Life Kit: My son didn't ask his brother to be his best man. Should I speak up?

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Dear Life Kit: I cared for our dad. Now my greedy siblings want the inheritance

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Dear Life Kit: My dad's wife died and he won't leave the house. What do I do?

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Dear Life Kit: My parents ran a background check on my partner. How can I trust them?

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Dear Life Kit: My husband wrote an 80-chapter book. Do I have to read it?

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Dear Life Kit: I uninvited my sister-in-law from our wedding. Was that wrong of me?

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Dear Life Kit: My co-worker posted a terrible review about me! Should I tell our boss?

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