Bedtime Stories, From A Dad In Afghanistan Before he left for a yearlong deployment to Afghanistan, a father made videos for his infant daughter of him reading bedtime stories. His wife shares some of those stories for Father's Day.
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LAURA SULLIVAN, host: And now a Father's Day story about a dad half a world away, and how he stays connected to his wife and baby daughter.

KARRI BIELWICZ: My name is Karri Bielwicz. My husband, Ken, just recently deployed to Afghanistan. When he deployed, we had a 6-month-old daughter, Abigail. We made the decision to have Ken read to a camera five storybooks for Abigail.

KEN BIELWICZ: (Reading) There was an old lady who swallowed a trout. That splished and splashed and thrashed about.

BIELWICZ: So every night, we open up the computer, we hit play, and we watch Daddy read a book.

BIELWICZ: (Reading) There was an old lady who swallowed a seal. She let out a squeal when she swallowed the seal.

BIELWICZ: See dada?


BIELWICZ: Ken and I have been married for two years now, so this is the first time that he's been deployed since we've been married. As new parents, it's a whole new experience. So I try to find all the literature possible of best ways to keep a marriage going, and to keep him in Abby's life. A lot of the literature suggested that he read books - just to hear his voice.

BIELWICZ: (Reading) Duck loves to dance, but she isn't very good.


BIELWICZ: One of Abby's favorite books is "Dancing Duck." I think she likes it just because of the way Ken reads it. It's a book that you pull out the last word. So she gets very excited about the tad that's going to be pulled out.

BIELWICZ: (Reading) Buddy loves to hide, but she also likes being bad.


BIELWICZ: Probably after this whole year of deployment, I will not like these books anymore.


BIELWICZ: Another book that he reads probably isn't her favorite, but it's one of mine because it's very sentimental. It's "Wherever You Go, My Love Will Find You." And I think Ken, probably when he was reading this, got pretty sentimental as well. He starts it off by saying:

BIELWICZ: (Reading) Abigail, wherever you are, my love will find you. I wanted you more than you will ever know, so I sent love to follow wherever you go.

BIELWICZ: The first couple weeks were hard, hearing him and seeing him read to her, just because I was still emotional from him leaving - and obviously, I am still emotional about him being gone. Yeah, the first couple weeks, I pretty much cried every time that he read to her, especially when she would point to him - and saying da, da, da, da.

BIELWICZ: (Reading) So someday if you're lonely, or someday you're sad, or you strike out at baseball, or think you've been bad, just lift up your face, feel the wind in your hair. That's me, my sweet baby, my love is right there.

BIELWICZ: Who is this?

ABIGAIL BIELWICZ: Dada. Da, da, da, da, da. Pa, pa, pa, pa.


ABIGAIL: Pa, pa, pa, pa.

BIELWICZ: She definitely recognizes his voice - and even tries to hug the computer once in a while. I think it will be helpful for her when he does come back. That way, he's not quite the stranger. So I think she'll be affectionate towards him, and we can start our life as a family again, together.

BIELWICZ: (Reading) You are my angel, my darling, my star. My love will find you wherever you are. You are loved. I love you, Abigail.

BIELWICZ: I guess we'd like just to say happy Father's Day to Ken. You're a great father from a million miles away. We love you.


SULLIVAN: Karri Bielwicz and Abby will be reunited with Ken in February.


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