Transgender Students Learn To Navigate School Halls : Code Switch A new poll shows that fewer young people see gender as limited to female and male. Youth Radio reporter Nanette Thompson talks with two students about their experiences at school.
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Transgender Students Learn To Navigate School Halls

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MELISSA BLOCK, HOST:

Now a story about gender from our partners at Youth Radio. A recent poll of millennials - people between the ages of 18 and 34 - found that young people increasingly believe that gender isn't limited to the categories of male and female. Instead, according to Fusion's Massive Millennial Poll, half of those surveyed say they believe that gender falls on a spectrum. Reporter Nanette Thompson has been looking at what gender fluidity means to schoolchildren. She starts us off at her high school in El Cerrito, Calif.

NANETTE THOMPSON: The first time I learned that gender could be fluid was in sex ed in the ninth grade. I remember the teacher mumbling under her breath that some people don't identify their gender with the biological sex they were born with. At the time, it didn't faze me because I had never known anyone who talked about it or felt that way. But now, three years later, I have a 16-year-old classmate who's trans.

JACE MCDONALD: My name is Jace. That is the name I have chosen. It's what my parents would've named me if I was born biologically male.

THOMPSON: Jace McDonald was born female, but says he always knew there was something different about him. He didn't like so-called girl things, and more than that, he felt like a boy. At 13, he started identifying as transgender and has become something of an activist.

MCDONALD: Never ask someone who's trans what their real name is. That is so offensive. My real name is Jace and my birth name is none of your business.

THOMPSON: Jace has thick glasses and short brown hair, and he's outspoken at school. One time in English class, when a teacher stumbled over gender terminology, Jace stepped in to clarify and ended up teaching a whole lesson himself.

MCDONALD: High school is hard enough as it is. High school as someone who is non-gender conforming just makes it harder. How many times today am I going to be called a girl?

THOMPSON: Last year, California's first law protecting gender non-conforming students went into effect. It gives Jace the right to use the bathroom of his choice.

MCDONALD: This is actually where some of our main bathrooms are.

THOMPSON: When Jace used the boys' bathroom between classes, he says occasionally kids give him strange looks.

MCDONALD: So if I go in there and people are already in there, I'm more likely to just hold it and go to my next class.

THOMPSON: It seems rough, but Jace says this is way better than he used to have it. He's a junior now, and this is his first year at my school. He's gone to two other high schools and left because he was taunted and called names like tranny. He says the school didn't let him use the boys' bathroom and insisted on keeping his birth name on the roster. At my school, he says he finally feels safe. At an elementary school two towns away, teachers start addressing gender identity at a young age, with the goal of making school more safe and inclusive.

TOMAS: My name is Tomas Rocha, and we're at Malcolm X Elementary School.

THOMPSON: Third-grader Tomas Rocha has shoulder-length hair and long bangs. He's wearing a turquoise My Little Pony T-shirt and black flats. A lot of days, he wears dresses, and last year, he started using the girls' bathroom. Tomas says people regularly ask him if he's a boy or a girl.

TOMAS: I just really think I'm really both. I don't really care what people call me. Sometimes I say I'm a girl. Sometimes I say I'm a boy. Sometimes I say does it really matter?

THOMPSON: It mattered to his mom, Amy. She struggled with Tomas's gender bending, and at first, hoped it was a phase.

AMY ROCHA: His first grade teacher told me that yeah, I don't know if this is a phase. And so that scared me because I wanted it to be a phase because I didn't want to have to have my child hurt. I wanted him to be what society wants a baby boy to be like when they're born. You know, tough and want to play sports.

THOMPSON: She didn't want him to be bullied.

JULIA BEERS: I overheard a student say to Tomas did you know you're wearing a dress to school today?

THOMPSON: Julia Beers was Tomas's second grade teacher last year, the first year he started wearing dresses to school. When students question Tomas, Beers tries to assume the best - that her students are curious and not trying to be mean.

BEERS: If a student is laughing, for example, I might say what are you thinking when you laugh like that? And by opening up that question, it can often help the student kind of dig deeper and realize oh, it just seems weird, I feel uncomfortable or I've never seen someone do that before.

THOMPSON: According to the Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network, 82 percent of transgender young people say they don't feel safe at school. Struggles like the ones my high school classmate Jace has been through are the norm. For Tomas, though, his elementary school's efforts seem to be working. His mom says his grades and behavior improved after he was given more freedom to be himself. For NPR News, I'm Nanette Thompson.

BLOCK: This story was produced by outLoud, a project of Youth Radio.

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