Jason Segel: The Best Man For The Job Actor Jason Segel stars as an obnoxious best man in the new "bromantic" comedy I Love You Man. Segel also wrote and starred in Forgetting Sarah Marshall.
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This is FRESH AIR. I'm Terry Gross. My guest, actor Jason Segel, got his start with Seth Rogen and James Franco in the Judd Apatow high school series "Freaks and Geeks."

Segel was in Apatow's film "Knocked Up," then wrote himself a starring role in "Forgetting Sarah Marshall," a romantic comedy that includes a Dracula musical performed with puppets. He's not done with puppets. He signed on to write the screenplay for a new Muppets movie.

Segel also co-stars in the CBS series "How I Met Your Mother." Now Segel stars opposite Paul Rudd in the new bromance "I Love You, Man." Paul Rudd plays a real estate agent in L.A. who has just proposed to his girlfriend. As they plan the wedding, he realizes he has no close friend to serve as his best man. So he starts looking for a man-friend.

He thinks maybe he's found one at an open house he's holding at a mansion he's trying to sell. The potential friend is played by Jason Segel.

Segel is helping himself to the fancy sandwiches at the open house, telling Rudd that the guy who's just said he's serious about buying the mansion is really just trying to impress his girlfriend. Then Segel goes a step further in demonstrating how perceptive he is.

(Soundbite of film, "I Love You, Man")

Mr. JASON SEGEL (Actor): (As Sydney Fife) Like, that guy needs to fart. It's pretty clear, but he doesn't know her well enough to do it in front of her, so I assume they haven't slept together.

Mr. PAUL RUDD (Actor): (As Peter Klaven) He does seem to be clenching.

Mr. SEGEL: (As Fife) Yeah, he doesn't want to fart. Watch, when he gets enough space, he's going to let one rip. I guarantee it. Oh, that's a good move. Hey, go check out the kitchen, honey. I'll meet you in there. Now watch. He's making his move slowly, slowly but surely. Watch the leg. Wait for it, wait for it, fart, boom. That's a fart. That's a fart.

Mr. RUDD: (As Klaven) Oh my God.

Mr. SEGEL: (As Fife) Look at him, crop-dusting across your open house. It's a disgrace.

Mr. RUDD: (As Klaven) He farted in my open house.

Mr. SEGEL: (As Fife) He sure did.

GROSS: Jason Segel, welcome to FRESH AIR. So obviously, you're very observant in the film. We've just heard you being observant in a more sophisticated take on the ever popular fart scene.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: Yes. It's one of my more dignified moments on film, I must say.

GROSS: Yeah. Do you agree with the film's basic premise, that it's sometimes easier to find a girlfriend than to find a good, platonic, male friend?

Mr. SEGEL: No, I do. You know, I was sort of surprised this movie hadn't been made before. But as you get older, it's very tricky for men to make friends with strangers.

You know, normally I guess your friends are sort of grandfathered in. They're friends of other friends, or you know, your girlfriend's friends, one way or another, and to try to make friends with a stranger is tricky for grown men.

I think women have it a lot easier. You guys can, like, walk into a woman's restroom and come out with a new best friend. But for men, it's just, it's not the same thing.

GROSS: Do you still have old friends, like friends from your high school days, and…?

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah. My best friend in the world is a guy called Brian Lind(ph), who I met when I was 12 years old, and he lived with me for the past couple of years, and then six months ago, he moved to New York to go to med school.

And I just gave him kind of a bro goodbye. I said all right, man. Go get them out there. I'm proud of you. And he left, and I woke up at two in the morning, out of a dream, crying hysterically, and I had to call my mother to calm me down.

(Soundbite of laughter)

GROSS: That's funny.

Mr. SEGEL: It was horrible.

GROSS: Describe your character, Sydney Fife, in "I Love You, Man."

Mr. SEGEL: Sure. Sydney was a late bloomer and so he's kind of terrified of monogamy, and you know, he's a bit of a womanizer and really values his guy friends.

He's a little bit mysterious. I don't want to give too much away, but he - you know, he's got this attitude that I don't possess in life, which is this is who I am, take it or leave it, which is what really drew me to playing that part.

It sort of reminded me of my friend, Russell Brand, who I did "Sarah Marshall" with.

GROSS: Oh, he's terrific in your film, yeah.

Mr. SEGEL: Oh thank you. Well, he has that quality in real life, as well, of this is who I am, you know, accept it. And I've never had that. I'm the kind of guy who, like, stays up until midnight thinking I wish I hadn't said that thing to that guy. I hope I didn't hurt his feelings.

And then I'll call the next day and apologize, and they'll have no idea what I'm talking about. That's sort of how I'm bent, and it was nice to sort of play the opposite.

GROSS: You know, these bromance movies, where it's about the platonic relationship between two or more men…

Mr. SEGEL: Sure.

GROSS: …why do you think they're so popular now?

Mr. SEGEL: Boy, I don't know. You know, I think maybe these kind of buddy movies are allowing men to open up a little bit about, you know, it's okay to let this guard down and let the machismo down and just be who you are.

GROSS: Yeah, but so many of the bromance movies are so much about the machismo. Like your character is really macho in his own way, is a real womanizer, and - you know, living in what used to be called the classic bachelor pad, like living in this, like, mass of, you know, boy stuff.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah.

GROSS: These are the guys who can't really grow up.

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah. My character certainly is stunted, and that's what I learn from Paul Rudd's character. I think the slight difference in the way our movie turns it on its head is you never hear in the movie, you don't see Paul Rudd and I sitting around and, like, talking dirty talk.

It's - we have very emotional discussions, and I try to delve into why he wants to marry his wife, and I think sometimes conversations like that are what get cut out of the buddy movie because it seems too sentimental.

In our movie, we actually do the opposite, and we expose that we know the secret, that it's really women who do the locker room talk more than men do.

I've never been around guys who sit around and talk about, you know, their girlfriend this or their girlfriend that, but I have met friends of my ex-girlfriend who clearly know everything about my anatomy, and you know…

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: It's like you women, I think, are some dirty talkers.

(Soundbite of laughter)

GROSS: If you're just joining us, my guest is Jason Segel, and he stars with Paul Rudd in the new film, "I Love You, Man."

Let's talk a little bit about a film that you wrote and star in, and that's "Forgetting Sarah Marshall," which I missed in the movies, but I watched it on DVD - it's out on DVD - and it's really good, and it's really funny.

Mr. SEGEL: Oh, thanks.

GROSS: Let's hear what I know is your most famous scene in the movie, and this is from the beginning of the film. And, like, you play a guy who writes music for a crime scene kind of TV show.

Mr. SEGEL: Exactly. It's basically a "CSI" spoof. I was a guest star on "CSI" for a while, and I just always found how serious, how serious it all is very funny. You know?

GROSS: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Mr. SEGEL: So yeah, I play a guy who composes the music and is sort of just dying inside because he wants to be a proper musician, and his girlfriend is the star of the show.

And so one day, she comes over to the house, and I think she's there to have sex with me. So I'm waiting there naked for her, and she proceeds to dump me while I'm naked.

GROSS: Yeah, well let me explain it a little bit more. She told you that she's coming over, and you didn't expect her that quickly. So you jump into the shower, and you come out with a towel wrapped around you, surprised to find her there. And as she tells you the news, the towel drops.

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah.

GROSS: And we get to see you full top to bottom from front and behind.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: Yes.

GROSS: Fully naked.

Mr. SEGEL: You're welcome.

GROSS: Yes, right.

(Soundbite of laughter)

GROSS: So here's the scene.

(Soundbite of film, "Forgetting Sarah Marshall")

Ms. KRISTEN BELL (Actor): (As Sarah Marshall) Peter, as you know, I love you very much.

Mr. SEGEL: (As Peter Bretter) Are you breaking up with me?

Ms. BELL: (As Marshall) Pete, are you…?

Mr. SEGEL: (As Bretter) I just need a minute.

Ms. BELL: (As Marshall) Okay.

(Soundbite of crying)

Mr. SEGEL: (As Bretter) Please don't go.

Ms. BELL: (As Marshall) Why don't you just put on some clothes, and we can sit down and discuss this?

Mr. SEGEL: (As Bretter) No, I can't do anything right now.

Ms. BELL: (As Marshall) I'm so sorry, Pete.

Mr. SEGEL: (As Bretter) I'm in love with you.

Ms. BELL: (As Marshall) Why don't you just put some clothes on, okay?

Mr. SEGEL: (As Bretter) I'm not going to go put clothes on. I know what that means. If I put clothes on, it's over.

GROSS: Okay, that's my guest, Jason Segel, with Kristen Bell, from his film "Forgetting Sarah Marshall."

Mr. SEGEL: That was taken from the pages of real life. I once got dumped while I was naked, but she asked me to put clothes on during this real breakup, my real life breakup, and opposed to in the movie when I say no, I did go to put clothes on.

So she waited for me while I went back into my room to get dressed. Let me just tell you, Terry.

GROSS: Yeah.

Mr. SEGEL: Picking out an outfit for the second half of a breakup is like the hardest outfit you'll ever pick out in your life.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: I came out, I came out in a blue, buttoned up shirt and khaki pants, like I was going to private school.

(Soundbite of laughter)

GROSS: So did it seem funny to you at the time, or is it just in retrospect it's - these things take on…

Mr. SEGEL: No, you know what? I think maybe this is the mind of a writer, I guess, but it was - while this breakup is happening, which was probably the most significant moment of my life to date, you know, when that happened, and I'm naked, and the whole time, I'm thinking this is really, really funny. I'm going to use this in a movie someday, and slowly her voice became like the teacher from Charlie Brown, you know, just (unintelligible) while I was slowly constructing the scene in my mind.

GROSS: Oh, so what did she say? What did the real ex-girlfriend say when she saw the movie?

Mr. SEGEL: Amazingly, amazingly, we don't speak anymore.

GROSS: Oh shocking. Right, okay.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah.

GROSS: I should've seen that coming.

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah.

(Soundbite of laughter)

GROSS: So like, you're 6'4", I think?

Mr. SEGEL: I am 6'4".

GROSS: So when you're naked, there's a lot of you to see, and it makes it even funnier because you have, like, such - there's such a big body there that's like dwarfing your girlfriend.

Mr. SEGEL: I know. Well you know, part of what I thought could be great, and I think it did turn out really well, is you know, I know it's a comedy, and so everything has to be funny, but I didn't want that breakup scene to be funny. I didn't want it to be played for laughs, you know? Because I think it was a really important part of the movie, this - that the breakup be as painful as possible.

So I thought the backdrop of me being naked gave me the opportunity to play the scene totally seriously because every time you cut back to me naked, you're going to get a laugh, you know?

And the other thing I thought was I wanted it to be a guy literally at his most vulnerable. And so, you know, I think naked it about as vulnerable as it gets.

And the final thing is I hate romantic comedies for the reason that you always know how it's going to end. The guy's going to end up with the girl, like hey, probably that girl who's been really nice to him the whole movie who works at the cookie shop, you know?

You can tell what's about to happen, and so I've always been reticent to go, and I thought as a viewer, if in the very first scene of the movie, your lead actor is suddenly full frontal, you know, naked, you're forced to sort of throw out your expectations and sit back and say I don't know what's going to happen in this movie, you know?

So I think it sort of set the stage to lose any preconceptions about what the movie might be like.

GROSS: I don't know how to put this in a way discrete enough so that we could discuss it on the radio, but so here you are, and like, six minutes into the film, and you're there, like, stark naked.

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah.

GROSS: And we see you in every angle.

Mr. SEGEL: Sure.

GROSS: And so, like, what did you do to make sure that your privates would look good?

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: Sure. No, I absolutely understand the question, and I will try to word it equally as carefully.

GROSS: Thank you.

Mr. SEGEL: Well, I found out in the meetings leading up to the movie about the scene because, believe me, there was a lot of talk about whether or not I should even do it.

So all of the sudden, I'm sitting with Universal executives and Judd Apatow, and we're talking about what it's going to be like when I'm naked, and they told me that you can only get an R rating if it is completely flaccid. That's the only way that you maintain your R rating.

So it was very important that that be the case, that it be completely like that. It was very important for me personally that it not be completely flaccid.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: You know, there was a real mental battle going on between personal pride and maintaining our R rating. So I found that the right level seemed to be to think about the most beautiful girl in high school, and that sort of got things going a little bit, and then I would think about how she would never go out with me. And so that kept it at just about the right level.

(Soundbite of laughter)

GROSS: That's really funny. So what rating did you get?

Mr. SEGEL: We got the R rating, pulled off the R rating.

GROSS: What did your mother say about the scene?

Mr. SEGEL: Oh, man. I still regret this moment. I thought it would be a funny joke not to tell my mother I had done it and have her find out at the first showing of the movie. So I walked…

GROSS: You didn't tell her? Is that what you're saying, you did not tell her?

Mr. SEGEL: Yes, I did not tell her that I had done it. And I walk her into the first screening, and all of the sudden, I walk out, and I drop my towel, and I'm naked, and I look over at my father, and my father's laughing hysterically.

I think my little sister is laughing hysterically. And then I turn and I looked at my mom, and she was staring at me with a tear streaming down her face.

(Soundbite of laughter)

And she said: Why didn't you tell me? And I said: I thought it would be a funny joke not to tell you. And then she said: This is not a funny joke.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: That was the last we spoke of it.

GROSS: My guest is Jason Segel. He's now starring with Paul Rudd in the movie "I Love You, Man." We'll talk more after a break. This is FRESH AIR.

(Soundbite of music)

GROSS: My guest is Jason Segel. He's the co-star of the new film comedy "I Love You, Man." He wrote and directed the romantic comedy - I mean to say he wrote and starred in the romantic comedy "Forgetting Sarah Marshall," which was released last year.

So another thing from "Forgetting Sarah Marshall." The character that you play in it, the main character, is working on a rock opera with puppets about Dracula and eternal love.

Mr. SEGEL: Yes.

GROSS: And I've read that you were actually or are actually working on a similar musical, yes?

Mr. SEGEL: I am, yeah. Well, the way that - that wasn't written for the movie, that Dracula musical. Sadly, I had a really bad out-of-work period from like 21 to 25. I couldn't figure out what I was going to do with my life because I didn't have a college education, and I thought I was going to have to, like, live with my parents for the rest of my life.

Looking back, I was such an arrogant kid, I thought the two options for me were either movie star or live with my parents. Get a real job, like, never entered my mind.

But so I thought the way that I could jump-start my career was to write a Dracula musical to be done with puppets. But I was writing it without a sense of irony. It wasn't a comedy. It was going to be like a slow, labored drama.

So anyway, I finally finished a few of the songs, and I took it to Judd Apatow to play for him. He was the first person I played it for. And the first song starts and about halfway through, he pushes stop on the CD player, and he looks at me, and he goes, Jayce, just take my advice. You can't ever play this for anyone ever.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: And thank God I didn't because I would've looked like a crazy person, and I got to save it for the movie.

GROSS: Well you know, in "Forgetting Sarah Marshall," your character doesn't realize that the Dracula musical he's writing is really a comedy.

Mr. SEGEL: Yep, straight from the pages of real life.

GROSS: Right, okay. How did you realize it, because of Judd Apatow?

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah, yeah basically, you know…

GROSS: But he didn't say it was funny. He just said never let anybody hear this.

Mr. SEGEL: No, he said never let anyone hear it. And I'll tell you how it ended up happening. Judd has the same feelings about romantic comedy as I do, specifically how hard it is to come up with an original ending, you know?

And so we were sitting around, brainstorming, like what could be an original ending for a romantic comedy. And I looked at him half-joking, and I said well, we could always use my Dracula musical.

And he looked at me, and it was, like, you know, Judd Apatow is a comedy genius, and you just saw, like ding. You saw this look in his eyes like oh my God, that's weird enough that it might work.

So I just rewrote it that night that my character's been secretly working on a Dracula opera, and that's how that happened.

GROSS: Well, I want to play a scene that relates to this, and this is a scene where you're at a bar with a girl who you hope is becoming your new girlfriend.

Mr. SEGEL: Yes.

GROSS: And she has asked the band - she knows you're working on this Dracula rock opera. So she's asked the band to call you onstage and invite you to perform an excerpt of the Dracula musical. And you go very reluctantly to the stage and with great discomfort start to play one of the songs. And at this point, you still think it's a serious musical, and it's not until she laughs…

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah.

GROSS: …that you realize, oh, it's a comedy. So here's that scene in which you're playing an excerpt of your Dracula rock opera.

(Soundbite of film, "Forgetting Sarah Marshall")

(Soundbite of music)

Mr. SEGEL: (Singing) It's getting kind of hard to believe things are going to get better. I've been drowning too long to believe that the tide's going (unintelligible). And I've been living too hard to believe things are going to get easier. I'm still trying to shake off the pain in the lessons I've learned.

And if I see Van Helsing, I swear to the lord, I will slay him. Ah ah ah. Take it from me, but I swear I will let it be so. Ah ah ah ah. Blood will run down his face when he is decapitated.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: (Singing) (Unintelligible) let this world know how much I love you. Die, die, die. I can't.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: I'm such a weirdo.

GROSS: That's Jason Segel in an excerpt of his film "Forgetting Sarah Marshall," which is on DVD. You know, in that die, die, die, I can't, you just kind of capture very succinctly there the downside of immortality.

Mr. SEGEL: Absolutely.

(Soundbite of laughter)

GROSS: (Unintelligible).

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah. I think I understand why women never want to stay with me.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Imagine I'm out of work, and I'm sitting there writing that song until all hours of the morning.

GROSS: So what are some of the, like, musicals or rock operas that have influenced you and made you want to write one of your own?

Mr. SEGEL: Oh man. Well, I used to see "Les Miserables" with my family every year when I was young, and I just loved it. I loved it, loved it so much to the point where when I was about seven years old or so, I was finally old enough to go to my brother's sleep-away camp.

And I was so excited because, you know, I really looked up to my brother, and my brother really didn't like me that much at this age. Like, I would embarrass him a lot. I wore a Superman cape under my clothes, for example.

(Soundbite of laughter)

GROSS: Did you really?

Mr. SEGEL: I did until I was way too old, until I was like 10 years old. But so anyway, I was going to finally get to go to camp with him, and he said Jason, let me tell you something. This is my camp. I love it. You're not going to embarrass me, okay?

And I was petulant. I said of course, I'm not going to embarrass you, Adam, geeze. So first day at camp, we're sitting there, and the counselor gets up, and he says all right, we would like to welcome everybody back, and we'd also like to welcome the new campers. As a matter of fact, would anybody like to do an impromptu talent show?

And I see my brother look at me like you'd better not, kid. And little Jason Segel raises his hand, slowly makes his way up to the stage - in a Superman cape - and I get to the front, and he says all right, what would you like to do? And I said, I'd like to sing. And I started singing:

Mr. SEGEL: (Singing) There is a castle on a cloud.

Mr. SEGEL: I sang the little girl's song from "Les Miserables" from beginning to end.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: My brother was mortified.

GROSS: Jason Segel will be back in the second half of the show. He's now starring opposite Paul Rudd in the comedy "I Love You, Man." I'm Terry Gross, and this is FRESH AIR.

(Soundbite of music)

GROSS: This is FRESH AIR. I'm Terry Gross back with Jason Segel. He stars with Paul Rudd in the new bromance "I Love You, Man." He got his start in "Freaks and Geeks," the short-lived high school series co-created by Judd Apatow. When we left off, we were talking about writing and staring in the romantic comedy "Forgetting Sarah Marshall," which was released last year. You wrote a character that's played by Russell Brand in your film who is pop star, who's deeply in love with himself and has also stolen your girlfriend.

Mr. SEGEL: Yes. You want to hear an amazing story…


Mr. SEGEL: …about casting Russell Brand.


Mr. SEGEL: That was originally written to be a young British author, like I pictured like a Hugh Grant type. And so we're holding the auditions and people are coming in and doing these terrible fake British accents and wearing suits, you know, three piece tweed suits and everything. And so, about halfway through the day, we're just exhausted and we feel like we're never going to find somebody, and then in walks Russell Brand in his full regalia. He's wearing leather pants, he's wearing a shirt unbuttoned to his navel and just like - it must have been three pounds of necklaces…

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: … and his hair all teased. He's wearing eyeliner - I mean just totally wrong for the part. And he walks in and he has the nerve to look at me, the writer, and he says, you have to forgive me mate, I've only had a chance to take a cursory glance of your little script. Perhaps you should tell me what it is you require? And I literally went home that night and rewrote the movie for Russell Brand to be a British rock star. I couldn't imagine anyone to be more jealous of or intimidated by if they were dating your new girlfriend than Russell Brand.

GROSS: Now was he doing like as he genuinely hadn't read the script or was he doing that to show you the obnoxious character he could be?

Mr. SEGEL: I think that it was a mixture of both. He definitely hadn't read the script. He is in life, perhaps, the nicest guy I've ever met. But he just nailed, this kind of - you know, I must say I stole my character in "I Love You, Man," the Sidney Fife character directly from Russell. Russell has, like I said, that quality of just not caring what other people think or at least seeming like he doesn't. And I thought what an amazing quality to have in your girlfriend's new boyfriend, someone who like - it's not that he's jerk, he just doesn't even feel weird or bad that he's dating your girlfriend.

You know, it just like not on his radar that that should be an awkward situation because it was very important to me for all the characters in "Forgetting Sarah Marshall" that they not be stereotypes. I didn't want it to be a diatribe against a cheating ex-girlfriend for example. It would have been really easy to make her just a real villainous character.

And of course you want to hate your girlfriend's new boyfriend. But the thing that occurred to me is my ex-girlfriend is a pretty cool lady and so why would I assume that her new boyfriend is going to be a jerk. She's probably going to date another pretty cool guy, you know? And so I felt like that's what make the movie more complicated and real than just one of these, kind of, comedies that come and go and are filled with raunchy punch lines. I wanted to try to really explore what relationships are like.

The scene in the movie that I'm the most proud of is, you know, this whole - the whole time, it's from my perspective. And you're really thinking, you know, what a jerk for cheating on him and she must be really self-centered and all that. And then, there's a scene about three quarters of the way through the movie where I say to her, it's our first time we've had a talk since we broke up, and I say, I just wish you tried harder. And she just flips the script and she says, you think I didn't try? How dare you? I tried everything I could.

I went to relationship counseling. I made you dinners. You wouldn't get out of your sweat pants. You know, you sat on the couch for a week straight once. Why? I couldn't drown with you anymore. And I felt like it's those kind of moments that hopefully made the movie interesting.

GROSS: If you're just joining us, my guest is Jason Segel and he's now starring with Paul Rudd in the new movie "I Love You, Man." He is also on TV in the series "How I Met Your Mother." I want to play a scene from the first series that you were on, and this might have been like your real acting debut. This is in "Freaks and Geeks" the now cult TV series that - did it make it through a whole season or was it cut before the…

Mr. SEGEL: No, we got canceled - 13 episodes and we could tell it was going to happen. On TV shows, you have the thing called the craft service table, which is like a set up of food, you know. And we got there for the first episode and there was like a lavish deli spread and all sorts of like, beverages. And by about episode 10, it was just like a box of corn pops and some creamer.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: We could see that the budget was being reduced, so yeah, we knew it was coming.

GROSS: Well, briefly describe your character and then I want to play a scene.

Mr. SEGEL: Sure. This is my favorite character I've ever played, I think. His name is Nick Andopolis and he is just a really open-hearted, really, really loving and caring, not so bright stoner who's father is in the army and is incredibly tough on him. And he's constantly under the threat that if he doesn't do well enough in school, he's going to be sent off to join the army, which he's terrified about. And I love Linda Cardellini's character, Lindsay Weir. She is the object of my affection and I become somewhat obsessed with her in a very sweet but creepy way.

GROSS: Well, she's in the scene we're about to hear. And in this scene you play drums. And your real aspiration is to be drummer in a rock band. And your father thinks that the drums are distracting you from schoolwork. So, he's ordered you to get the drums out of the basement and warned you, as you just said, that if your grades don't improve, you'll have to go into the army. So, this scene is right after you've auditioned with a band and it went really badly.

Mr. SEGEL: Horribly, hilariously badly.

GROSS: Exactly, so here you are talking with your friend Lindsay, who's played by Linda Cardellini, and she's really smart and does well in school. So, here you are talking with her about the audition.

(Soundbite of television show, "Freaks and Geeks")

Mr. JASON SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) Sometimes I go down in my basement, put on a live album. I can see myself on the stage. Do you understand what I mean? I can see it. And I'll playing ten minute solo and I'm on one of those hydraulic rises, you know? They make the drum kit go way up high. Like I'm Peter Criss or something. Oh man. I'm not going to be that guy. I'm never going to be that guy. I'll be lucky if I get to be that guy who pushes the button and makes the riser go up, but I'm not even going to be that guy. I'm not even going to be that guy because I can't even keep a C plus average man.

Ms. LINDA CARDELLINI (Actor) (as Lindsay Weir): Oh, Nick I can - I can help you get your grades up.

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) He's going to make me join the army. Oh man, I'm going to have to join the army. I'm going to be surrounded by a group of psychopaths like my brothers and like my dad.

Ms. CARDELLINI (Actor): (As Lindsay Weir) Nick, come on. That's going to happen to you. I won't let it.

Mr. JASON SEGEL (Actor) (as Nick Andopolis): Oh my God. I'm done, man. I'm done.

GROSS: And at the end of that scene, you and she share your first kiss.

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah, I actually just got a little emotional listening to that. That was one of the best times in my life. It's when I met Judd Apatow and it's when I met Seth Rogen and James Franco and Linda, and Martin Starr, all these guys, Busy Philipps. We were all so young and we were so naïve that we kind of thought every experience would be like that. If that makes any sense. And it isn't. Every experience isn't like that. It was - it was a really beautiful, beautiful time.

GROSS: My guest is Jason Segel. He's now staring with Paul Rudd in the movie "I Love You, Man." We'll talk more after a break. This is FRESH AIR.

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My guest is Jason Segel, co-star of the new film comedy "I Love You, Man." He wrote and directed the romantic comedy "Forgetting Sarah Marshall," which was released last year. When we left off, we were talking about getting started on the TV series "Freaks and Geeks." How did you get the part?

Mr. SEGEL: Well, I went in and I just auditioned. And the show was called "Freaks and Geeks" and I seemed to fit in to both of those categories.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Mr. SEGEL: So, I guess I was a bit of a natural fit. I've been 6'4" since I was 12 and kids used to stand around me in a circle and one by one they would jump on my back while the rest chanted, ride the oaf, ride the oaf.

GROSS: Wow, that's sounds not only horrible but that it would hurt a lot.

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah, physically.

GROSS: Yeah.

Mr. SEGEL: Yeah, it was unpleasant. And I think that - I think that to some extent, that whole cast was made up of people who always felt like the underdog in their life. And Judd recognized those qualities in all of us and we were all - you know, look, experiences like that - ride the oaf, I mean - they're either going to turn you into a jerk or they're going to make you funny. And so, I went with funny and I think a lot of the people in the cast would, you know, would tell you they have their own versions of that same story.

And we all, sort of, became comedy dorks. And we united - we united on that. It was - let me tell you, I remember me, James Franco and Seth Rogen would go to my house every night and rehearse the scenes for the next day. I have never done that since. But we all just wanted it to be so good and Judd was so trusting in all of us. There's a scene in that show where I'm in the basement with Lindsay, Linda Cardellini's character, and I sing to her a "Lady," the song "Lady".

And it's really weird and it's really creepy. And before the scene, Judd just came up to me and he said, listen Jayce, this scene needs to be really weird and really creepy and really funny and really sweet. Let's see what you got. That's amazing, you know, for someone to have that kind of faith in you and it was a little bit like when some parents are teaching their kids to swim, they say sometimes you just throw your kid in the pool and see if they can swim. That's a little bit what I felt like - all of the sudden we were required to do big comedy and we had very little experience.

GROSS: So, what did you do, I mean, what did you think about as you were doing that scene singing?

Mr. SEGEL: I - I was just myself to be honest with you. I think Judd once said to me after these shows got cancelled and I asked him, I went to him and I said, I don't know what to do and he said, I'll tell you. I can tell you what you do well is you are able to get really, really close to the creepy line while still being likable. And that's what you should focus on. I think for some reason, it just comes natural to me.

GROSS: Why don't we hear that scene in which you sing to Linda Cardellini's character Lindsay?

(Soundbite of serial, "Freaks and Geeks")

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) Lindsay, this song says all the things that I haven't been able to say you. It's a little corny, but I mean it.

(Soundbite of song, "Lady")

Mr. DENNIS DEYOUNG (Lead Singer, Styx): (Singing) Lady…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) Lady…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …when you're with me…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) …when you're with me…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …I'm smiling…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) …I'm smiling…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …give me…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) …give me…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …all, all, all of your love…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) …all, all, all of your love…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …your hands…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) …your hands…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …build me up when I'm sinking…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) …build me up when I'm sinking…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …touch me and my…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) …touch me and my…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …troubles all fade…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) …troubles all fade…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) Lady…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) See Lindsay…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …from the moment I saw you…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) nothing between you and me should ever be rushed.

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …standing…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) I made that mistake before…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …all, all, all, all, alone…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) …but I'm not going to make it with you.

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …you gave…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) We've got time…

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) …all the love that I needed…

Mr. SEGEL (Actor): (As Nick Andopolis) We've got all the time in the world. And you know why?

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) So shy, like a child who has grown. You're my…

Mr. SEGEL: Because you're my lady of the morning. Love shines in your eyes.

Mr. DEYOUNG: (Singing) You're my lady of the morning. Love shines in your eyes.

GROSS: That's Jason Segel in an episode of the late great "Freaks and Geeks" which is on DVD, if you haven't seen it. So, where did you grow up?

SEGEL: I grew up in Los Angeles. I grew up in the Pacific Palisades of Los Angeles which is like a very nice, like pretty affluent area. I was very lucky. I had a really great childhood.

GROSS: Now, I read that you went to Catholic school, although you're Jewish, is that true?

SEGEL: Yeah, I was the only Jewish kid at this all Christian school and that was a little weird. I remember this one moment where I sent out my bar mitzvah invitations to everybody and the principal came up and said, listen Jason everyone's really excited but I don't think that the kids know what a bar mitzvah is. I was wondering if maybe you wanted to explain at communion what a bar mitzvah is.

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SEGEL: Now keep in mind these kids are already jumping on my back and saying ride the oaf.

(Soundbite of laughter)

SEGEL: So, 12 year old Jason Segel walks to the front of communion and has to stand in front of these kids and go: On Saturday I become a man.

(Soundbite of laughter)

SEGEL: Nothing gets you beat up faster than the line: on Saturday I became a man.

(Soundbite of laughter)

GROSS: Oh, that's so great. What were some of the other adventurous aspects of being the only Jewish kid at a Catholic school - Catholic or Christian? Like what…

SEGEL: It was a, I think it was a Episcopalian.

GROSS: Mm-hmm.

SEGEL: I'm not a hundred percent sure what the differences are - well, I'll tell you what was really weird, like I said I didn't really - I felt sort of out of place at this school.

GROSS: Maybe because you were.

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SEGEL: Yes, exactly. See I'm - my father is Jewish and my mother is Christian. So…

GROSS: Oh, I see.

SEGEL: …yeah, but I was raised Jewish. So, I'm at the school. They don't really like me very much there and then after Christian school I would walk in the afternoons to Hebrew school. And then at Hebrew school…

(Soundbite of laughter)

SEGEL: …they would tell me that I wasn't really Jewish because my mother is Christian.

(Soundbite of laughter)

SEGEL: So, all of the sudden I'm like this young kid who - I would've been happy to believe whoever would have been nice to me, you know. But it was this feeling of like not really belonging or not really fitting in and…

GROSS: The world's mainstream religions don't want you.

(Soundbite of laughter)

SEGEL: Yeah and, you know, what occurred to me - it's funny you say that - but what occurred to me is this certainly isn't God. God doesn't want an eleven or twelve year old kid to feel this way, you know. That my belief in God is that God wants you, you know, God wants you to believe in him or it, whatever you would call it. And so, it actually helped me forge this feeling of - all right, you know, what kid, it's you, it's you in God and it's you and the world, it's - it gave me a bit of a feeling of solitude that I think came in handy during, like, my out of work periods, where when I decided the only way I was going to make it was if I started writing.

It was actually, I'm very grateful that I got that feeling at such a young age because I felt like, you know what, it's - you better do it, it's going to be you.

GROSS: It was great, I mean, not everybody is able to find out what's useful from a difficult situation. So, it's lucky, uh…

SEGEL: Yeah, I could have been very, you know, I came from a well off family and my life had been pretty easy. So, I actually think maybe it helped me not have a sense of entitlement that I have seen in a lot of like…

GROSS: Mm hmm.

SEGEL: …my peers who grew up in that same, you know, community. There is some sense of, you know, like oh, well I'm supposed to do well because of this or that. And you got to earn it, you know? I think that's sort of that - that period really helped me lose any sense of entitlement I might have had.

GROSS: Can I ask what kind of work your parents did?

SEGEL: Yeah, my father is a lawyer and my mom, my mom raised us.

GROSS: Mm hmm. So, when, how old were you when you knew you wanted to be an actor and how did you know? Well, it sounds like you knew all along actually, with the superman outfit and singing at your brother's summer camp.

SEGEL: Well, I think the seeds were there. My parents had put me into an acting class, when I was about nine or ten or so, because I was having such a hard time at that school making friends, that they wanted to send me some place that was not religiously affiliated at all, you know. So they sent me to this acting class, but it was more about not being shy than it was about acting. I got started in a really weird way.

I had just won a state championship playing basketball in California and my brother was a great basketball player and I, sort of, wanted to play college ball, that's what I figured what I would do. But I had this art history class that I found very boring and so, it was right next to the drama department and everyday on the way to art history class I would reach in real quick to the drama department grab a play. And I would read it during class. And I read one called the "The Zoo Story" by Edward Albee. And there was a 40 minutes monologue in it and I thought, I would like to try this, just to see if I could do it, you know. It's a two-man play.

So, I found a guy to do the play with me. And I asked the head of the drama department if he minded if I put on this play. And he said no - no problem. So, I did it and he came up to me after and he said look, I think you're really good at this and you might want to consider becoming an actor. And I said no I'm going to play college basketball - I was kind of a jock at this point. And he said, well do me a favor. I'm teaching a mock audition class on Saturday, will you come and just see if you like it. So I said sure.

So, I show up at this mock audition class. And I go in and it's him and this lady and they have me do like half an hour of reading, like, sides blind. And I did them and I left and they said thank you very much. A week later my parents sat me down, and said we've been talking to Paramount Pictures all week. He didn't want to tell you but that was the president of casting at Paramount and he had set up a fake audition for me.

GROSS: Oh. You're kidding?

SEGEL: And he didn't want me to be nervous, so he just told me it was a mock audition class. And Paramount was in touch with my parents all week. And the next thing I knew I had an agent and manager and they - I was, I started working my senior of high school. So, it was crazy. It sort of found me, you know?

GROSS: Jason Segel, it's has been so much fun talking with you. Thank you so much.

SEGEL: Oh, thanks.

GROSS: Jason Segel stars opposite Paul Rudd in the new movie "I Love You, Man." He also co-stars on the CBS series "How I Met Your Mother." His movie "Forgetting Sarah Marshall" is on DVD.

Coming up rock historian Ed Ward reconsiders Buddy Holly's music with the help of a CD retrospective and a collection of rarities.

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