Movie Review: 'Friends With Kids' - Benefits From Great Acting In Friends with Kids, Adam Scott and Jennifer Westfeldt play two best friends who decide to have a baby together while keeping their relationship platonic — so the baby doesn't interfere with their romantic lives. Critic David Edelstein says the film is simply marvelous. (Recommended)



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The new comedy movie "Friends with Kids" was written and directed by its star, Jennifer Westfeldt. She's best known for writing and starring in the 2001 indie hit "Kissing Jessica Stein." In her new film, she stars alongside Adam Scott, Jon Hamm, Kristen Wiig, and Maya Rudolph. Film critic David Edelstein has this review.

DAVID EDELSTEIN: The premise of "Friends with Kids" is the stuff of high-concept romantic comedies. Writer-director Jennifer Westfeldt plays Julie, who's at the age when her odds of childbearing lessen each year, and there's no mate in sight. So her best friend, Jason, played by Adam Scott, volunteers to impregnate her.

The two are pals, confidants - and not, he reminds her, attracted to each other. They could share custody of the child and avoid the chaos and hostility and cessation of sex of their married friends with kids, get to it, pop one out quickly, and start looking for your guy, Jason says.

If he's right, and it's a stress-free solution, then there's no movie, so you know he'll be wrong - and that maybe there's more between him and Julie than he thinks. Maybe. It's not a given. "Friends with Kids" doesn't play like a rom-com or one of those dramedies - I hate that word - that give you laughs, a little cry and the occasional shiver of recognition.

It has a nervous rhythm and terrific tension, as if the characters' backs are against the wall and the clock is ticking down. Westfeldt, who's 42, belongs to a generation and class of people for whom nothing about having kids is easy. Not having them creates anxiety. Having them means opening yourself up to more psychodrama. "Friends with Kids" is funny, but the laughs are tinged with sadness and even cruelty. It's a terrific depiction of how we breed now.

It's also an ensemble film in which two other couples loom large. The four actors who play them are fresh from the smash comedy "Bridesmaids," which makes their edginess here surprising. Kristen Wiig and Jon Hamm are Ben and Missy, who have a son and barely speak to each other. Maya Rudolph and Chris O'Dowd are Leslie and Alex, who have a boy and girl, and live in Brooklyn in slobby disarray, which Julie and Jason experience first-hand when they arrive for a party.


ADAM SCOTT: (As Jason) Hey.

JENNIFER WESTFELDT: (As Julie) Happy Birthday.

MAYA RUDOLPH: (As Leslie) We're not quite there yet. Cole!


RUDOLPH: (As Leslie) Honey, could you just please for a moment. Alex! Can you come out here for a second, please?


CHRIS O'DOWD: (As Alex) I'm in the bathroom!

RUDOLPH: (As Leslie) Really? Well, Jule and Jase are here, so why don't you come out?

O'DOWD: (As Alex) Hey guys!

RUDOLPH: (As Leslie) I'm sorry.

WESTFELDT: (As Julie) Hey Al.

SCOTT: (As Jason) Hey.

RUDOLPH: (As Julie) You know what? Can you guys just walk him for a second? I've got to go see Katie.

SCOTT: (As Jason) Yeah. Of course.

WESTFELDT: (As Julie) You know, we brought some wine.

RUDOLPH: (As Leslie) She was supposed to be here by now.

WESTFELDT: (As Julie) Hey, Cole.

SCOTT: (As Jason) Hey, uh...

WESTFELDT: (As Julie) I'm going to open one of these.

SCOTT: (As Jason) Do that.

WESTFELDT: (As Julie) Yeah.

SCOTT: (As Jason) Hey Cole. What's up, buddy?

WESTFELDT: (As Julie) Hey Cole. You know what? We brought you something.

SCOTT: (As Jason) Oh, my goodness. You're huge. And I like you tremendously. What?

O'DOWD: (As Alex) Hey.

SCOTT: (As Jason) How you doing?

O'DOWD: (As Alex) Hey guys.

SCOTT: (As Jason) Hey.

O'DOWD: (As Alex) How you doing?

SCOTT: (As Jason) How's it going, man?

O'DOWD: (As Alex) Happy Birthday, little fellow.

SCOTT: (As Jason) Oh, thanks. I haven't seen you in a while.

O'DOWD: (As Alex) Oh, yeah. And hey, Julie.

RUDOLPH: (As Leslie) Alex. I could use a little help. What do you think, huh? I don't know, maybe pick up a little bit?

O'DOWD: (As Alex) I was in the bathroom.

RUDOLPH: (As Leslie) Yeah. We know. And just to make it a 45 minute production while we're having guests over? Jesus.

O'DOWD: (As Alex) I was reading an article.

RUDOLPH: (As Leslie) Think maybe you could shut the door? It's toxic in here.

O'DOWD: (As Alex) I was airing it out. I'm sorry.

EDELSTEIN: There's an extra element of tension when actors who can be wonderful clowns don't cut loose. Chris O'Dowd's "what, me worry?" vibe sets off Maya Rudolph's bossiness; Jon Hamm's Ben looks bleary and for much of the film, stays silent - until he opens his mouth and poisoned toads leap out. Kristen Wiig's Missy seethes and avoids his eyes. The camera catches every conspiratorial or hostile glance, every flash of devastation or rage being quietly suppressed.

Two other characters raise the stakes. After Julie's baby is born, Jason takes up with Mary Jane, an actress and dancer played by no less than Megan Fox. Julie meets Kurt, a soft-eyed, tender hunk played by Edward Burns. So both our attractive but relatively ordinary-looking protagonists have trophy mates - and on vacation in a cabin, with all eight major characters plus kids, the conversation between Jason and Julie over where their toddler sleeps gets weird. Each claims their lovemaking is just too loud.

Megan Fox, for the record, can act. Her Mary Jane is unaffected, secure in her beauty, uninterested in kids or being tied down or anything other than her eight performances a week. Jennifer Westfeldt isn't upstaged; her performance is beautifully modulated, Julie's natural buoyancy weighed down by her fear of showing her true feelings.

But the revelation of "Friends with Kids" is Adam Scott, who often plays obnoxious squirts. Here, he eases back on caricature, but takes nothing off his fastball, recalling the young Alan Alda, who also came on glib and finished vulnerable - just like this marvelous movie.

BIANCULLI: David Edelstein is film critic for New York magazine.

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