The Women Who Inspired Other Women With 'Mary Tyler Moore' In the '60s, many of the women on television were cute, a little silly and married. Mary Richards, though, was single, sassy, and filled with joy. A new book about the <em>Mary Tyler Moore Show</em> focuses on the women behind the scenes of the show that's still inspiring women today.

The Women Who Inspired Other Women With 'Mary Tyler Moore'

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In the 1960s, the women who populated television were cute - a little silly; and they were married, firmly rooted in their domestic lives.


MARTIN: But if many of those ladies were supernatural, Mary Richards - single, sassy, and filled with joy - was magic.


MARTIN: The beloved "Mary Tyler Moore Show" went on the air in 1970. And now, more than 35 years after it ended, it is still a source of inspiration. Jennifer Keishin Armstrong has written a new history of the show. She spoke with several of the women, who were some of the first to break into the industry, about how the show made it to the air and how it's still influencing the female characters populating your DVR. The book is called "Mary and Lou and Rhoda and Ted."

Jennifer Keishin Armstrong joined us from our New York bureau, and I asked her how the creators the "The Mary Tyler Moore Show" intended Mary to be different than the other women on TV at the time.

JENNIFER KEISHIN ARMSTRONG: Originally, they had intended for her to be divorced because they felt like that was something that everybody was sort of going through, and talking about, at that time. They did not get the divorced part through with CBS, but they did manage to have her be single and working.

MARTIN: Which was a big deal.

ARMSTRONG: Very big deal at the time.


MARTIN: The creators and the producers, James L. Brooks and Allan Burns, they knew their limitations as writers for this show - at least, how you write about them - and they knew they wanted women to work on this show. What were they looking for?

ARMSTRONG: They wanted some more insight into what it was like to be a single woman in 1970 because they were both married men. So, they brought in a lot of talented female writers, more than most shows had ever done before. So this was very different, in the sense that the first person they hired to write for the show was named Treva Silverman, and they loved her work. She became a really intrinsic part of the development of the show, and how the show took shape over the first several seasons. And they hired several more women as well. When they first started the show, the women's movement was just kind of like a vague blip in the background. And then it became - really, this huge thing as time went on.

MARTIN: You write a couple of really compelling vignettes about what it was like to be a woman in television at that time, on the production side. One particular television executive, back in the day, she was working in an environment - in an office building where they actually didn't have a female restroom on the executive floor?

ARMSTRONG: (Laughing) Yes. One of the early and lone champions of the show at CBS was Ethel Winant. She was the only woman in the - sort of executive ranks. And so there was an executive bathroom, but there was only one. Of course, we only need one; it's just for men. So she would leave her high heels outside the door so that men knew she was in there, 'cause there's no lock on the door either, of course.

MARTIN: We talk about "Mary Tyler Moore Show" breaking a lot of ground, and it did. But the characters were still operating in a certain moral framework that was illustrative of the time, right? And what got me, in going back and watching some episodes, was the fact that Mary's signature gag is this outburst of hysterical crying - which is not exactly a feminist message.

ARMSTRONG: (Laughing)


ARMSTRONG: You know, there are a lot of things that are not a feminist message about Mary Richards. And that's part of why she was so effective. Things changed a lot, very quickly, right after that. Right? We got "All in the Family." We got "Maude." We got a lot of different stuff happening in TV right after that. But this is still 1969. And she also had the Mr. Grant thing. She called Lou Mr. Grant, where everyone else in the show called him Lou.


MARTIN: Did anyone you talked to explain why she did that, why they wanted her to call him Mr. Grant?

ARMSTRONG: They said they felt like that's what she would do. She's just that kind of person. They really were trying to make her what they call likeable, on television.


ARMSTRONG: They were really protective of this character early on, and I think that's 'cause it came from that old idea of, you know, making her as good as possible so that later, when she said she was on the pill or when she stayed out all night, America had already sort of fallen in love with her as this good, decent girl.

MARTIN: You mentioned "All in the Family," which debuted just a few months after "The Mary Tyler Moore Show," which is a different show. I mean, that show took on really complicated social issues of the time, in new ways for television - racism, homosexuality, even abortion and rape. I mean, they put it all out there. How did that affect "The Mary Tyler Moore Show"?

ARMSTRONG: I mean, I think there was competition, for sure. They were on the same network; they were on the same night. "All in the Family" did better in the ratings, made a bigger splash, but the people at "The Mary Tyler Moore Show" had to kind of go, OK, you know what? We're a different show, and we need to focus on what we do, and not try to chase this other thing that's happening in television. And they realized that their whole deal was to just be really character-driven. And if that meant, at times, Lou gets a divorce, so be it. But that had to come from the character, and they had to do it in a really realistic way. They ended up doing a lot of things like that.


ARMSTRONG: They had an episode with a gay character, where Phyllis' brother turns out to be gay.


ARMSTRONG: They only did that, though, when they felt like it was the right thing for all of the characters, and that it would feel right.

MARTIN: So "The Mary Tyler Moore Show" runs for six, incredibly successful seasons. The seventh season rolls around, and there's a big conversation about how to end the show. And this was complicated because, as you mentioned, Mary's love life has not been the focal point of the entire series. But it's there, lingering at the edges. Can you talk a little bit about the debate over whether or not to marry Mary off.

ARMSTRONG: They tried several times. There were dating episodes, and a couple guys lasted more than one episode - very few, but a couple. And they just felt like they never found the right man. I thought that that was such a funny - I mean, they said it that way, and I was like, that's so interesting - right? - because gosh, I'm sure Mary Richards herself felt that way too, right? Like, I keep trying to cast this guy, and it's just not happening - you know?

MARTIN: (Laughing)

ARMSTRONG: And they really felt like - I mean, it's sort of touching. They were like, no one was good enough for her.

MARTIN: Where do we see "The Mary Tyler Moore Show" today? Where do we see it echoed?

ARMSTRONG: I think we see it all over the place. It was part of why I wrote the book - is that I was a writer at "Entertainment Weekly" for 10 years, and did a lot of women-in-entertainment stuff and - especially the rise of Tina Fey. And when I talk to these women, they all cited this show as their inspiration, which I thought was so interesting, that it was still having this echo effect. And now, we've had this incredible spate of shows about single girls - lots of them very good.

But yeah, you know, I think a lot of the young women who are now creating shows are affected by this show. And, of course, I mean, "30 Rock" was blatantly sort of patterned as this bizarro version of "The Mary Tyler Moore Show." I mean, Tina Fey has actually talked about that. And, you know, combining the pathos and the funny is really a hallmark of "The Mary Tyler Moore Show." So, I think it's all over the place.

MARTIN: The book is called "Mary and Lou and Rhoda and Ted." It is written by Jennifer Keishin Armstrong. She joined us from our studios in New York. Jennifer, it has been such a fun trip down memory lane with you.

ARMSTRONG: (Laughing) Thank you so much.



: (As Mary) Well...

: (As Lou) I hate spunk.



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