Interview: Samantha Geimer, Author Of 'The Girl: A Life In The Shadow Of Roman Polanski' Samantha Geimer was victimized twice: once by an infamous Hollywood director who fled prosecution after raping her when she was 13, and again by a relentless media, which has hounded her for the past three decades.
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Abused By Both Polanski And Media, 'The Girl' Moves On

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This is WEEKEND EDITION from NPR News. I'm Rachel Martin. In 1977 aspiring actress Samantha Gailey was invited to do a magazine photo shoot with a famous film director who was a friend of a friend. She and her mother thought it would be a great opportunity, and so the 13-year-old went with Roman Polanski, alone, to the home of actor Jack Nicholson for the session.

What happened that day is the stuff of sordid legend. She was plied with alcohol and Quaaludes and raped by Polanski. He eventually fled the country to avoid prosecution and Gailey faced the onslaught of media attention. Today, Samantha, whose last name is now Geimer, is telling her story in a new book called, "The Girl: A Life in the Shadow of Roman Polanski."

This past week, I sat down with her in our New York studios where she said that when she first arrived home after the assault, she was still a bit high and confused.

SAMANTHA GEIMER: I knew it was a bad thing, I knew it was wrong. I think I kind of felt, gosh, I shouldn't have been posing topless and drinking and kind of was figuring I just, you know, it was a bad thing and I would just not really tell anyone and move on past it.

MARTIN: But your family found out that night.

GEIMER: Yes, my sister overheard me talking to my boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, Steve, so once she overheard, then, you know, she immediately told my mother and then she called the police and then from there it was just a rollercoaster of bad to worse.

MARTIN: Within hours you're in a hospital.


MARTIN: Being examined.


MARTIN: And you write that even at that point there were suggestions being made that you had somehow led Polanski on.

GEIMER: Well, you know, at the hospital, that's when it became clear that people thought I was lying. And then the second thing is, well, you must have wanted it, or you have some ulterior motive.

MARTIN: And there were innuendoes made about your own sexual past.


MARTIN: Sexual experience. And you were only 13 years old.

GEIMER: Right, right. Well, but I had had sex with my boyfriend so offered that up as information. So yeah, I mean, there was really terrible innuendoes about my mom and myself, a lot of just really nasty, untrue things.

MARTIN: When do you think it became clear to you and your family that this was going to be a big deal, that this was going to be a big legal fight, that this was going to have serious repercussions on how you lived your life?

GEIMER: It was apparent almost immediately that this was going to be a lot more than we anticipated. And then it just exploded and our phone rang off the hook and there was people outside our house. And this was a little bit before that was standard, you know. This was back before 24-hour news channels. So, it was a surprise. Like, now you might expect that, but we didn't expect it.

MARTIN: How did that crush of media attention affect you?

GEIMER: It affected me dramatically, probably changed who I am as a person, changed the way my life went. But since it happened, it's hard to judge what might have been different if it didn't happen. But I was angry, you know, angry at my poor mother who felt horrible and guilty and they're all trying to protect me. And my whole family's traumatized and I'm like, I just hate you all, I hate the world.

And then after he was finally had left the country and I knew it was over and I wasn't going to be forced to go to trial and be put on the stand, I think I kind of cut loose a little bit excessively, 'cause it's like finally no one's watching me.

MARTIN: You could have written a book a long time ago. Why now?

GEIMER: I never thought I would want to write a book and people say that, like all these years, you should write a book. But it's painful for my family, for my mom, for my husband, for my sons. So, you know, my mom had come to a lot better terms with it, and then my sons, I think that their attitude changed a little bit too and it was, like, you know, you don't have to let people come after you like this, you don't have to hide.

Go ahead and tell the truth. Like, stand up for yourself. So you know, it kind of gradually came about.

MARTIN: You write that you and your mom, your stepdad, your sister, your family did not want Roman Polanski to go to jail. Why was that?

GEIMER: I didn't want him to go to jail because to me it was like, what's that going to solve? He did what he did. Going to jail is not going to take it back, so I don't see the point. I don't think anybody cared what happened to Roman anymore. It was like just say you did it, and can we please walk away from this horrible mess that we don't deserve, we didn't mean to start it and we'd just like out of it now, please.

MARTIN: He wrote you a letter.


MARTIN: Roman Polanski did, in 2009. I wonder if you wouldn't mind reading that.

GEIMER: Roman's letter - note, it's more like a note; it wasn't very long - said: Dear Samantha, I watched Marina Zenovich's documentary for the second time and I thought I should write you this note. I want you to know how sorry I am for having so affected your life. Watching you in the film, I was impressed by your integrity and your intelligence. And you are right - they should give your mother a break, exclamation point.


GEIMER: The fault was mine, not your mother's. I hope the pressure of the media has alleviated and that your family brings you much happiness. Best wishes, Roman Polanski.

MARTIN: This was a note he sent after watching a documentary that was made about...


MARTIN: and your perspective on what happened. What was your response to that note?

GEIMER: Well, I was surprised. I didn't - you know, I knew he was sorry. So I didn't feel like I really needed an apology, so it wasn't meaningful for me but for my mom and my husband and my family, I could see when I showed them that, that it took away some of that, like, pain and anger they feel about it. So it was really meaningful for me in that it made my mother feel better, it made my husband feel better.

MARTIN: But at points in the book you do almost seem to be sympathizing with him, in a way. I mean, the two of you are bound in a strange way because of the media phenomenon that followed this case for decades.

GEIMER: It's a strange thing to be tied to him in this weird way. That's obviously not going to stop. I'm done wishing it would be over, but I mean, he got such unfair treatment in the justice system. I was even upset about that when I was 14. And...

MARTIN: Really? Even though he had...

GEIMER: My dad was a criminal defense attorney, so I was kind of raised to have this American pride in our justice system and to see what happened, like even at that young age, it really offended me. Like, how can the judge do that. I think over all these years he has come to understand that it's wrong, more than he used to think, and I think he regrets it and he's apologized.

And since then, we've both been on the wrong end of the law, the publicity, people's comments towards both of us that are just nasty and horrible. So we ended up having like a lot in common, which is strange, but that's true. That's how this has worked out.

MARTIN: The book is called, "The Girl: A Life in the Shadow of Roman Polanski." It is written by Samantha Geimer. She joined us in the studio. Thank you so much for talking with us.

GEIMER: Thank you very much for having me here. This was great.

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