RENEE MONTAGNE, HOST:
Time, now, for StoryCorps. In 2009, Frank Tempone was severely depressed and had what he calls a midlife crisis. He left his wife and three kids to live on his own but after two years apart, Frank came back, and he brought his oldest son, Jack, to StoryCorps in Chicago because he wanted to apologize.
FRANK TEMPONE: Do you remember that time?
JACK TEMPONE: Yeah. I was like the dad in the house. And like, I took care of Dave and Ben sometimes. And it was one of the hardest times in my life because I was without my best friend.
FRANK TEMPONE: I knew I was hurting you, but I felt like I had to get myself straightened out first before I could be your dad again. And I also want to tell you that I'm sorry that I caused you that pain when I left.
JACK TEMPONE: It's OK.
FRANK TEMPONE: That was a tough time. But probably the proudest moment we ever had together was when I came back to watch you play that really important baseball game.
JACK TEMPONE: The last game of the season.
FRANK TEMPONE: You must have gotten three hits, and I remember thinking, we did that together. You know, we practiced, and that's why you did so well. It made me realize I was ready to make sure that I was going to be as good a father as I could possibly be. And that was the impetus that got us back together.
JACK TEMPONE: I felt like I was in paradise again because, like, I just feel I relate to you so much and like, I regained part of my life.
FRANK TEMPONE: I wanted to tell you: My father used to say to me I was his closest buddy. We did everything together, and he said I stopped being his buddy when I turned 13. And you turn 13 in three and a half months, and so I want to know if you're going to keep being my buddy past 13.
JACK TEMPONE: I'm going to be your best friend until I die. How does it feel when, like, when you know that you come home to such a great family?
FRANK TEMPONE: It feels great. You know, when I was a boy dreaming about what it would be like to have a wife and a house, I was going to name my oldest son Frank because that would have been the fourth Frank. But I didn't name you after me because I knew you were going to be better. And the way you deal with people with your heart is something that I've learned a lot from.
So Jack, I just want to tell you how proud of you that I am. You are the best thing that ever happened to me. And we'll always find a way to come back together.
JACK TEMPONE: Yeah. We'll get through it as a family.
MONTAGNE: That's young Jack Tempone - who since that conversation, has turned 13 - with his dad, Frank, at StoryCorps in Chicago. Their conversation will be archived at the Library of Congress. Get the StoryCorps podcast at NPR.org.
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