Are We Doing Enough To Protect Our Children? In her weekly "Can I Just Tell You?" essay, host Michel Martin reflects on the thousands of children who have tried to cross the U.S.-Mexico border without an adult.

Are We Doing Enough To Protect Our Children?

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So I walked my kids to their first day of summer camp and we had a slight disagreement over exactly where and when I was to let them go. My son preferred that I remained at the foot of the stairs that led into the building- and honestly, if he had his druthers, I think he'd have preferred that I stopped at the corner. Whereas my daughter preferred that I walk all the way up the stairs and inside the gym, and truth be told, she probably wouldn't have minded at all if I stayed through lunch. I opted to ignore the son eye-rolling and go with daughter preference. As I was leaving, I felt grateful to have had the luxury of being able to have those extra few minutes to see them off - to have the luxury of being able to, at least in my mind, protect them for those few precious minutes. And then I came to work and heard more about the 52,000 or so children who tried to get into the U.S. this year without an adult, and almost needless to say, without authorization via the U.S.-Mexico border. Why are they coming? Some say it's bad information. They, or their parents, have heard wrongly that if they managed to get here, they will be able to stay here. Others say it's bad information and worse conditions. Criminal gangs are pressing in on them and they want something better for themselves than a life of poverty, violence, prostitution and whatever other degradation the world has to offer the children of the poor and powerless. Can I just tell you? - it seems to me that the problem of our age and time is the problem of information. There's both too much and too little. It's too little when you send your children on a dangerous journey with no clear idea of what will happen when they get there. But for many of us, it's almost a problem of too much with too little agency to do anything about it. Now that we know that thousands of little ones, some as young and foolish and frightened as your children and mine, are packed into detention centers sleeping under those foil blankets that they hand out at the end of marathons - what do we do? And while we're at it, now that we know that children, as young and foolish as yours and mine, are barely surviving as refugees in Jordan from a war in Syria that seemingly has no end - what do we do? Now that we know that more than 200 schoolgirls are still being held prisoner by extremists in Nigeria - what we do? Now that we know that children all over the world are on the move trying to save their own lives - what do we do? The children of the world are our most precious resource and yet every day we are reminded of our failure to treat them as such. No one wants to be wanted reminded of failure so what we want to do - OK, what I want to do - is turn it off and turn away. It becomes so tempting to focus on our own. Our own school clothes, our own camp and SATs and how we individually get what we individually want for ourselves and our own kids. But we cannot turn it off and turn away - how can we? It strikes me that those children coming here without papers, as badly informed - as ignorant as they may be - somehow they come because they trust us in a way that children insist on trusting us even when we do not deserve it. They trust us as the grown-ups to figure it out. A year or so ago, I got a chance to meet a number of Freedom Riders. People often forget how young they were, not much older than many of those kids pouring across the border now. They risked their lives riding the buses through the still-segregated South to force this country to live up to its promise of equal treatment of all citizens. I asked one woman how she told her mother that she was going to leave school to do this. She recalls saying something quite hurtful that she now regrets. She told her if you had done this, I wouldn't have to. That question haunts me. Somehow the children are still doing the work that we have failed to do for them.

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