ARUN RATH, HOST:
Isabel Izzy Lloyd noticed something after two of her freshman classmates committed suicide this year at MIT.
IZZY LLOYD: Things just sort of stopped for a week or two, and there were people posting on Facebook and sending out emails and Twitter and Instagram. And people were saying, like, I care. My door's open. You can come see me. And what I noticed during all of that is, you know, we should be reaching out and telling people that we care before tragedy strikes.
RATH: Izzy wanted to create a symbol - a visible reminder of that spirit of compassion and care. She went with a wristband.
LLOYD: The wristbands are one-inch-thick, white silicone wristbands, and they have TMAYD MIT written on them in black letters.
RATH: TMAYD - that stands for Tell Me About Your Day.
LLOYD: Tell me about your day - it can be an interaction with anybody. It's a good way to check in, and it spans all different kinds of conversations - bad, good, embarrassing, something you've accomplished, something that you hope to accomplish.
RATH: She used her own money to have 200 wristbands made and started handing them out in March.
LLOYD: When I was first giving them out, I was standing in Lobby 7 at MIT, which is, like, this main artery of campus. And a lot of people were confused by TMAYD, but that was kind of the point. I wanted them to wonder.
RATH: The curiosity factor worked. By the next day, she had hundreds of requests. Then she got a grant from the Student Activities Office to make more. Now 2,500 TMAYD wristbands are floating around. That would cover more than half the undergrads on campus.
LLOYD: Just last night, for instance, I was at the dance troupe show here, and I saw, like, there were four or five dancers in the show wearing the wristband, which was not part of their costume. And so they still wore it, and it was, like, very visible. And so that was the goal - is to be able to look at somebody and be like, OK, that person cares about me.
RATH: Izzy says it's been good for her to seize those moments in a busy day.
LLOYD: I look at it, and I think, OK, well, I'm going - I'm going to stop what I'm doing now and go talk to that girl over there sitting alone. I haven't talked to her in awhile. And I hope that other people do that. I've heard, like, a lot of my friends have told me that people they haven't talked to in months have come up to them and asked them how their days are.
RATH: Upperclassmen and grad students are donning the wristbands. Some faculty are displaying the bands in their classroom. And this fall, there will be TMAYD wristbands ready for the incoming class of 2019.
LLOYD: It's going to be a really good time, being able to sort of hand the wristbands to them and, like, give them a physical object that says, like, we care about you, and you're welcome here.
RATH: Izzy Lloyd hopes that message spreads off the MIT campus and even beyond colleges.
LLOYD: I think someday this could be a national acronym that people see. And I would love that because it means that people are reminded to tell people about their day and ask others about their day.
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