Patton Oswalt On His Late Wife's Search For The Golden State Killer Before Michelle McNamara died in 2016, she was working on a book that aimed to bring a serial rapist and murderer to justice. I'll Be Gone in the Dark has now been published.
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Patton Oswalt On His Late Wife's Search For The Golden State Killer

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Patton Oswalt On His Late Wife's Search For The Golden State Killer

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Michelle McNamara was a writer engrossed with true crime. She worked on Hollywood pilots and screenplays and created the website She connected the dots of blood and evidence of a series of as many as 50 sexual assaults in Northern California in the 1970s and '80s, followed by at least 10 brutal murders in Northern California, to the same violent psychopath that she called the Golden State Killer.

Michelle McNamara was at work on a book she hoped might deliver the killer to justice, or at least comfort the families of those who lost loved ones, when she died suddenly in her sleep in 2016. She was 46. Colleagues who knew Michelle McNamara and her work helped her finish her book, which has now been published - "I'll Be Gone In The Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search For The Golden State Killer."

It has an afterword by Patton Oswalt, the comedian and actor who was married to Michelle McNamara. Patton Oswalt joins us now from the studios of NPR West. Thanks so much for being with us.

PATTON OSWALT: Thanks for having me. I appreciate it.

SIMON: You say your late wife had what you call a true cop's heart and mind. How so?

OSWALT: Well, she had that combination of - how can I put it best? - empathy but then mathematical coldness to look at dates and times and cities and link them up, even though they were all linked by the kind of events and the kind of horror that I think would make a lot of people just look away and not want to delve any deeper. And she could - you know, she could look at these hard facts, still feel empathy and sadness for the people whose either lives have been taken or the people whose lives have been destroyed from having people that they love taken by this monster, basically.

SIMON: At the same time, your wife Michelle McNamara must have found - what was it? Engaging? Beguiling?

OSWALT: I mean, she definitely loved the puzzle aspect of it - the fact that there is a limited amount of pieces, and you have to try to put a thing - bring a solution. And, you know, that's a very addictive thing. I think that's another part of the - a cop's personality is that they are - it's a compulsion to want to find the facts and solve these mysteries. Yeah.

And she very much admitted it - that, oh, there was a bit of a thrill to this. There was - there certainly wasn't a thrill in reading about people being killed. But there was a thrill in, oh, I could maybe catch this guy and figure out - you know, not only capture him but then find out who he is and find out his reasons and what made him that way. You know, there's all that - is you're always waiting to figure out what that is.

SIMON: The killer and rapist has a particular cruelty. He would not only rape women but phoned them years thereafter.

OSWALT: He would phone them. He would also do this thing that was particularly sadistic, where after he would rape them, he would then - you know, he'd leave them tied up, and then he would be - he would stay in the room but be very, very quiet, literally for hours, making them think that, oh, he's gone now. And the minute they would start to move, he would either shake the bed or cough or, like, just stand there and psychologically torture them for hours afterward.

SIMON: How did Michelle - she had to go down a lot of blind alleys, didn't she?

OSWALT: Yes. That was - I think that was the hardest part of any of it. And any homicide cop will tell you - you go down what looks like a promising lead, and it leads to a brick wall. And so you have two things that happen there - you have the frustration of, oh, this led nowhere.

And then you also have the frustration of, the two weeks I spent pursuing this was two more weeks' lead time that I've given this creep. And that really takes a toll after a while, and it makes you sometimes gun-shy, where you'll - and what's even worse is, sometimes, you'll have too many leads to go down, and it's almost like you're on this hellish game show where you're, like, which door do you choose to go down right now, knowing that if you pick the wrong one and spend months on it, there's two months' more head start you've just given this guy?

SIMON: How do you deal with the fact that he's still out there?

OSWALT: I deal with the fact that he's still out there by trying to live in the sunshine and love my daughter and love my new wife and be kind to my friends and be kind to people, knowing that this is a guy that has never had any of that in his life. And, you know, the - unless we capture him, the one thing that you can do to people that are, you know, sitting outside of the edge of the fire is to really kind of revel in being in the light and being in the heat because they don't understand that.

Not to even mock them with it, but if I sit there and brood, and I'm dark, and I become distant to my wife and daughter and to my friends and just to the world in general, and I become this gray cloud, then I've helped extend his hold over life, basically, if you do that. So that - you almost have an obligation to go and try to bring more life to life and balance out the life he's trying to drain from it, I guess.

SIMON: And may I ask - because I know you respect and feel for the losses of so many people...


SIMON: ...Which is what this book by your late wife is about - you and your daughter obviously also suffered a loss - different kind of loss in Michelle's death. May I ask how you're doing?

OSWALT: I mean, right now I'm doing way better than I thought I would. You know, I've remarried to this amazing woman who loves Alice. And Alice is growing up strong, you know, in the aftermath of what she went through. You know, kids are insanely resilient, and, you know, you see them bounce back. And so I'm living right now - I would say that I'm living right now with a lot of hope.

SIMON: Patton Oswalt - he's done the afterword to a book by his late wife, Michelle McNamara - "I'll Be Gone In The Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search For The Golden State Killer." Thanks so much for being with us.

OSWALT: Thank you.


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