Need Help Deciphering That Vague Text Message? AI Wants To Help Texting is the go-to way to communicate these days, but it has its gray areas. Some companies have created apps that use artificial intelligence to help people text and communicate better.

Need Help Deciphering That Vague Text Message? AI Wants To Help

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Texting is the go-to way to communicate these days. It keeps us connected, but it also has some gray areas. What does that upside-down smiley face mean? Why don't people use periods at the ends of their sentences anymore? A number of tech companies are using artificial intelligence, or AI, to help improve texting relationships.


UNIDENTIFIED PERSON: Mei can understand you and the people you chat with just based on texts that are already on your phone. Finally, an app that uses AI to empower you.

DAVIS: Rainesford Stauffer is a journalist who has written on this issue for The New York Times. She joins us now. Good morning.

RAINESFORD STAUFFER: Hi, there. Thanks so much for having me on.

DAVIS: So how are apps like Mei designed to help with texting?

STAUFFER: I think the idea behind an app like Mei is that based on text messages and call logs that come in through your phone, it is capable of detecting and understanding everything from personality and mood to how we interact and when we interact with our contacts. As it builds this personality profile, it gives you feedback on your texts. And the examples of that were really interesting. It was everything from, your mom loves you very much to, you seem like more of an introvert than an extrovert or detecting abnormal behavior if you're not texting like your usual self.

DAVIS: One thing I thought of is I thought about downloading Mei onto my phone. But then I also feel a little freaked out by the privacy component here. I mean, it really does have access to all of your past text messaging, all of your contacts. It seems like that might make some users a little squeamish about using this kind of technology, even if they like the idea of it.

STAUFFER: Absolutely. That was one of the things that I really got to speak to the founder about. And he did reassure me that, though they collect communication with every contact to build an accurate profile of the user, the only personally identifiable information they have is your telephone number. So they don't have your name. They couldn't pick you out of a crowd. But the person on the other end who you're corresponding with is not aware that a personality profile is being built on them or that their information is being analyzed in this way.

I think the argument to that is, you know, you could turn around and show a friend that you're sitting next to someone's text and say, hey, what do you think this means? Do you think this is a little odd? But the idea of information being harvested with the intention of analyzing mood and personality adds a little bit to that gray area of who has access to what and what we're reading into.

DAVIS: Why do people need help texting? Is it really that hard?

STAUFFER: I think that now more than ever, our communications are loaded in the sense that it's possible to read into a lot. As you said, does putting a period at the end of a sentence mean anything? Is someone's tone different? I think that we have a desire for answers about what the person on the other end of the line is thinking. And I think apps like Mei work to fill that void.

I think the most interesting element of this is the emphasis on trying to make communication and technology more human through increased technology. I think that we're really yearning for human-to-human understanding and trying to figure out how to relate to each other through all of these different forms of communication.

DAVIS: Journalist Rainesford Stauffer, thank you.

STAUFFER: Thanks so much.

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