What It's Like To Work At A Restaurant On Valentine's Day Valentine's Day is one of the busiest days of the year for restaurant staff. They have some ... stories.

Break-Ups And Throw-Ups: What It's Like To Work At A Restaurant On Valentine's Day

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Candy, flowers and a romantic dinner with your significant other, you know what we're talking about - Valentine's Day. But the burden of producing that special night often falls to the restaurant servers. Valentine's, they say, is one of the craziest nights of the year.

JACKIE ROBERTS: I call it deuce factory because it's two-by-two-by-two-by-two, and it's very, very boring.


Boring or not, Jackie Roberts from The Pink Door, a restaurant in Seattle, is ready. She says the hype of Valentine's Day turns up the pressure on waitstaff to try and make a guest's evening perfect.

ROBERTS: Everyone's taking the holiday way too seriously. They want to perform way too well, and there's not as much spontaneity as we usually have on a regular night.

CORNISH: And the quest for that perfect night sometimes means the customers give the kitchen staff advice on how to prepare the meal.

BRIAN RIGGENBACH: You know, you get a lot of allergy and a lot of modification. You know, people kind of build their own dishes. And that turns into a, well, I don't like this. And you have to kind of gently let them know that they, in fact, created the dish on their own, and that's not something that we have on the menu (laughter).

KELLY: Brian Riggenbach of The Mockingbird in Nashville says not all customers are so difficult. In fact, some leave their servers a special sort of tip.

RIGGENBACH: I've definitely seen tables that are clearly on a date, and one of the people will leave their number for the server, which might tell you how that date is going.

CORNISH: But not all surprises are as rewarding as that. Riggenbach recalls one Valentine's date that went horribly wrong for one of his customers.

RIGGENBACH: This guy came in early, and he was really excited. And he was all dressed up in a suit, and he had flowers. He was going to propose to his fiancee. And when she showed up, she had a notebook. And it was a list of everything that was wrong with him. And she sat there for an hour and read it to him.

KELLY: If you are working in the hospitality business on Valentine's Day, Laura Valente from Tilia in Minneapolis says the trick to getting through the craziness is be on your game.

LAURA VALENTE: It's a hustling night. Put on your running shoes. Try to look nice. And let's go, go, go.

CORNISH: And Kip Mullin from the restaurant Circa 1918 in Newport News, Va., has some words of wisdom for even the most harried server.

KIP MULLIN: I just say to myself, hey, we're not curing cancer here. You know, we're - all we're doing is slinging food.

KELLY: So remember; if you are taking your special someone out tonight, show your server some love, too.


ROD STEWART: (Singing) Young hearts be free tonight. Time is on your side. Don't let them put you down. Don't let them push you around. Don't let them ever change your point of view.

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